Zephyranthes
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Recently getting into some dating, and had a few questions I don't have answers for yet.
Recently picked up a decent lady, i've known her for a while so getting the number wasn't REALLY that difficult, but the difficulty is I have no intent of going anywhere with this girl, i'm not very much attracted to her, I was just testing myself to see if I could hold my cool on my approach. Any advice on how to handle a girl you really don't want to get involved with, but just want to test yourself on? I guess it's up to me to not advance it any further than i'm willing to go?
Another question would be a past hookup attempt I had, bad times, played all the wrong moves and definitely sure she sees me as just friends at worst, and a long-term kind of guy at best. She recently unveiled she's pregnant, which is personally one of my bigger turn offs, but she's the type of chick I still wouldn't mind laying one of these days. She's mentioned she might "just wake up and want to date (me) 6 months from now", and while she doesn't know it's entirely out of the question for a solid relationship, I could use some advice on how to handle that if it comes up. Keep playing the no-challenge-chump for a while, or will switching things up and playing disinterested work against me since the only way she's seen me so far is desperate and needy?
Recently picked up a decent lady, i've known her for a while so getting the number wasn't REALLY that difficult, but the difficulty is I have no intent of going anywhere with this girl, i'm not very much attracted to her, I was just testing myself to see if I could hold my cool on my approach. Any advice on how to handle a girl you really don't want to get involved with, but just want to test yourself on? I guess it's up to me to not advance it any further than i'm willing to go?
Another question would be a past hookup attempt I had, bad times, played all the wrong moves and definitely sure she sees me as just friends at worst, and a long-term kind of guy at best. She recently unveiled she's pregnant, which is personally one of my bigger turn offs, but she's the type of chick I still wouldn't mind laying one of these days. She's mentioned she might "just wake up and want to date (me) 6 months from now", and while she doesn't know it's entirely out of the question for a solid relationship, I could use some advice on how to handle that if it comes up. Keep playing the no-challenge-chump for a while, or will switching things up and playing disinterested work against me since the only way she's seen me so far is desperate and needy?