Need Urgent advice for a date with a 10 tomorrow...

[Malex86]

yea yea there's no such thing as a 10

but this is without a doubt the HOTTEST girl i've ever picked up in my life.

I got no problems approaching women and getting the numbers but I really want to make this date convert into a sale

So here's the deal, i picked her up at the grocery store and spoke to her for a little bit..

she's from iceland and been living here (london) for 5 years, she went to uni here and is now in business management... she she's a smart chick.

We arranged to go for drinks tomorrow evening after we both finish work (we don't work together just to clarify)

Now drinks is not my ideal date in all honesty because a) it's not particularly fun and exciting and b) i don't want the conversation to just be casual, i want to make it interesting and fun otherwise i'll end up being "a nice guy"

so what tips do you guys have for me?

the drinks and possibly a meal is a certainty so i can't change the date... but is there anything i can do to spark this attraction, she is the hottest thing on legs i've seen in a long time...

thanks!

 

[Maxfarsigth]

Ive noticed a pettern around theese days. Regarding HB10's and first few dates.
(and this is just opinion, not experience. I dont know if id have the discipline to follow myself in this one hehehe)
One just has to act like shes no HB10.
One must be willing to walk away or confront/reject her when needed.
Weird huh? But my guessing is that it will create more atraction.

Also, it is vital to have fun! Like she's any other date. Youre a great cool funny guy and shes lucky to have fun with you.

Good Luck !

 

[JCballin88]

Just get a drink or two and then take a stroll around...see some sights. Give her the old crook arm thing and take it from there.

 

[CantTouchMyStyle]

You have put this girl on a pedestal taller than Yao Ming already.

This will likely not end well.

She's just another b!tch. Remember that. Ain't nothing special about her. Unless she squirts.

 

[Malex86]

guys, i know all this... what im asking is how i can make a "going for drinks" date fun and what to talk about with this type of girl (intellectual, business-like, icelandic stunner)

 

[Malex86]

is there any special ways to make it fun and enjoyable or is it just going to be down to me picking my spots about the environment and throwing some jokes into the mix while getting to know her better...

what im trying to do is create some anchors with her

fun and excitement = malex86

i dont want it to be

typical conversation boring dinner date = malex86

 

[Re-ac-tor]

..have you re-read CantTouchMyStyle's reply?

Read again.

 

[Malex86]

..have you re-read CantTouchMyStyle's reply?

Read again.

what about it?

i asked about the date not how to treat her

 

[f283000]

You need to get her out of the bar. Get her drunk and then go somewhere else. Take her for a quick game of bowling, take her for a walk or whatever.

Here's what I posted on another thread which should help you.

OP, you said this

"You know it pisses me off when your speaking to a girl for 2 weeks ... then you goto the trouble of a date (that was brilliant) as in we did'nt stop talking and everything was going well"

So this is how you define an "excellent" date?? So you couldn't stop chatting with her, everything was going well, all good and fun right?

Well guess what she could pick a random guy from the street that could give her a fun night out just like you did! She could pick a random guy from the street that would chat her up for hours just like you did! Does it mean that she will f*** him? NO!

You said the date went excellent but let me correct you IT DIDN'T! And you know what you're problem is? You believe what most men in this world have been taught to believe in. You go on a date with the mentality of giving a woman a good fun time, chatting for hours, when instead you need to be thinking of just how much you are going to push her buttons that night!

A good date is not all about how much you chat with a woman or how much fun you have. A good date is about how far you can push her buttons while having a good time!

How much simple kino? Did you do other forms of kino? Did you put your arm around her? Did you neg her? Did you disagree with some of the stuff she said to create disconnection? Did you talk about topics involving sex or kissing? DID YOU KISS HER??? Did you get her to sit on your lap? Did you spank her butt?


The above list are just a few things that a PUA will try on a date to push the envelope a bit. You need to go on a date with a mentality of not just having fun but creating attraction and pushing the envelope and using kino as much as you can.

Don't think just because you were chatting for hours and everything seemed rosy that somehow a female will want to f*** you. If she wanted to chat for hours and have a good fun night she could just call up her girlfriends. You on the other hand need to provide both a fun experience and a romantic experience at the same time.

If you look back on a date and you couldn't tell that it was a romantic date between you and her but more like a hangout then IT WAS NOT EXCELLENT.

 

[Ease]

What he's saying is you sound like you are trying to impress and please this girl.

This isn't going to come naturally right now, but you need to be sitting back in your chair and waiting for this girl to please you.

You are no jester trying to make this girl have a good time. You are trying to bang her. Running the game on the girl is not exactly the same thing as making her have a good time. Your primary aim is to hunt and conquer this new meat, not do a comedy run on a ho.

Sometimes running game will require things like making her feel unworthy or apprehensive about how much you like her. This will not make her have a good time. But it will make her moisten.

 

[Malex86]

The above to posters now that i think about it make perfect sense.... i date these hotties and have a seemingly good date... lots of "nice" conversation and banter... but no *****...

can i get some more tips and clues on how to push her buttons and make her work for it? would really appreciate it

 

[Malex86]

well i had to call of the date because i wasn't feeling my best... i have a slight cold.

I let her know we will rearrange via text... i also told her i'd call her tonight

so should i call or wait a few days?

i let her know i want to take her to a comedy event next friday

 

[joe henny]

You have put this girl on a pedestal taller than Yao Ming already.

This will likely not end well.

She's just another b!tch. Remember that. Ain't nothing special about her. Unless she squirts.

Out of all the quotes I have ever hear on this weak site. I have to admit that is one with true genuine game sir. I no longer feel so alone on here :woo:

 

[joe henny]

Malex plz stop man it's sad to see a guy who says he has no problems with women constantly posting over this one b!tch. Plz man she is just another ho plain and simple she wouldnt be so pretty with all her skin off would she? Or in the morning or when she takes a dump.

You have put the ***** on a pedestel and the sad thing is you dont even know the ho yet. honestly most of the hotter women I fuked have been horrible cuz guys always put em on a pedestal so they feel special and dont feel the need to try.

If you really do get women llike you say you do then stop stressing over 1 b!tch. What kind of "don juan" as you guys like to call it, stresses over 1 ho. PATHETIC. I expect this from some of these other weak Symps on this site, not a guy like you who gets women

Your putting all this up and selling yourself and manhood out for her vagina which is the size of a quarter so basically your man hood is worth something the size of a dam quarter? Plus after you do fuk her youlll realise she is just another b!tch and that her pu ssy isn't golden like you thought it was. So plz stop. Look at your previous actions realize that it s AFC behavior then go out and get some other women!

 

[joe henny]

Malex plz stop man it's sad to see a guy who says he has no problems with women constantly posting over this one b!tch. Plz man she is just another ho plain and simple she wouldnt be so pretty with all her skin off would she? Or in the morning or when she takes a dump.

You have put the ***** on a pedestel and the sad thing is you dont even know the ho yet. honestly most of the hotter women I fuked have been horrible cuz guys always put em on a pedestal so they feel special and dont feel the need to try.

If you really do get women llike you say you do then stop stressing over 1 b!tch. What kind of "don juan" as you guys like to call it, stresses over 1 ho. PATHETIC. I expect this from some of these other weak Symps on this site, not a guy like you who gets women

Your putting all this up and selling yourself and manhood out for her vagina which is the size of a quarter so basically your man hood is worth something the size of a dam quarter? Plus after you do fuk her youlll realise she is just another b!tch and that her pu ssy isn't golden like you thought it was. So plz stop. Look at your previous actions realize that it s AFC behavior then go out and get some other women!

 

[Malex86]

gave her a call yesterday and she was happy to hear from me but i could hear she was out so i said nows probably not a good time to chat, she said call me back tomorrow... I won't call now til sunday to speak to her to avoid looking like she controls the direction

 

[joe henny]

gave her a call yesterday and she was happy to hear from me but i could hear she was out so i said nows probably not a good time to chat, she said call me back tomorrow... I won't call now til sunday to speak to her to avoid looking like she controls the direction

Dont call her let the b!tch call you. Spend the time your not chasing her to find other women. You don't realize it but there are women out there who are dying to be with a guy like you because every female has their own type and personal taste. Some might think your so so while others think your drop dead gorgeous.

Find those and every thing will be automatic, this is a phrase I live be: "I don't chase em I replace em"