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[00Kevin]

ok this is her response the the nasty reply i sent her. i think she showed me up with this one. good for her ... anyone think she she is still bitter?


well just goes to show that some people never change. you will never grow
> up, and you'll never be able to accept at face value what people have to
> say...sad since there wasnt an ounce of lie in my e-mail...you are the
> coward cuz you arent capable of seeing that some people really are too
> busy...
>
> in fact...my boyfriend certainly complains...i havent seen him in over 2
> weeks...he read your email...and said
> Hey, can I write "Buddy, don't over react - I didn't **** her this week
cuz
> she was ill..."
>
> if he can accept that i cant breathe well enough to ****...you should be
> capable of accepting i might not be able to do coffee....

 

[Satan Psycho]

HAAAAAHAAAAAA

Stupid *****, she just admitted her lie trying to validate it.

Her: I was going to go out with you when I had a chance. See, even my BF says so.

Man, that's comedy.

 

[Ice Cold]

HA! Her imaginary boyfriend is up and running Or is he an actual real chump who has a gf and doesn't get laid?

That's seems to be the best what she and her friends could come up with.

Nways - you're not high on her priority list. Drop and approach 5 more HB8+

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

Hmm..even if the boyfriend was "fake". She is still ethically in the right. You assumed she was lying and that was uncalled for. If some chick pulled this on me, I woulda reacted the same.

Oh well

Let it be a lesson and move onto healthier girls who are not so obsessed with their work!

 

[00Kevin]

Now.. The question is... I wonder if I should be nice to her and write her a kind and totally mature email where I tell her I'm happy that she has a boyfriend.

I suspect that this is an imaginary boyfriend.


The fact that she showed the email message to her BF is an example of her maturity level. Of course, by posting all her messages on this board I'm the most immature SOB ever.

hmm.. i'm not sure i can continue to post her messages... i think my morals are starting to kick in.

 

[the_great_gaia]

dude.. just leave her alone, what you do next will get you no where, she probably already hates you. Just find more Byatches and forget her. I doubt her b/fs real anyway, because if he was, she wouldn't have cared to reply to you, and especially of his standpoint.

 

[00Kevin]

actually, at this point i could just be the nice guy with her and then charm her.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Crotch Sniffer
Hmm..even if the boyfriend was "fake". She is still ethically in the right. You assumed she was lying and that was uncalled for. If some chick pulled this on me, I woulda reacted the same.

Oh well

Let it be a lesson and move onto healthier girls who are not so obsessed with their work!

actually i never assumed she was lying... i assumed she was making excuses. I never used the word 'lie' she did, and by doing so she put her foot in her mouth

I'm not exactly sure what to think about women that are obsessed with their work. Are they trying to compensate for something they are lacking? Or are they trying to avoid something they don't want or afraid of?

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

actually, at this point i could just be the nice guy with her and then charm her.

Naw man, let her go. The cat is already out of the bag! You have already tipped your hand at this game of PokeHer It is nearly impossible to turn a chick like this around, and thus a waste of your energy.

I suppose you could tell her you were drunk when you wrote that message, but I think you would be more successful if you redirected all this energy to the NEXT girl.

actually i never assumed she was lying... i assumed she was making excuses. I never used the word 'lie' she did, and by doing so she put her foot in her mouth

Yeah but you assumed the wrong thing. Think of how much more powerful it woulda been if you had assumed that she really wanted you but was actually very busy. You doubted yourself and this is not attractive! Your interaction with her and your posts here reek of insecurity. You need to work on your inner game my man. Always remember that you are Double-Oh Kevin, The suavest, baddest sexiest man alive! Of course she wants you, she´s only human right?

Do whatever you want dude, but recognize that you will have much better chances when you stop assuming the worst. Always maintain the positive!!!

You have learned a valuable lesson here so use this knowledge on any of the other 3 billion chicks out there.

I'm not exactly sure what to think about women that are obsessed with their work. Are they trying to compensate for something they are lacking? Or are they trying to avoid something they don't want or afraid of?

If she is obsessed with work that she LOVES, then I find this attractive. If she really doesn´t dig her job and makes herself sick over it, worrying constantly, then this sends up red flags! It is harsh to judge anyone on such a limited basis. Sometimes a regular job can get hectic for a short spurt and then everything is chill. Like I said before, dont jump to conclusions because they are often false and based on your own limited perspective.

Hope this helps

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Regardless of what most of you guys think......everyone makes time for whatever they CHOSE to make time for.

REALITY CHECK: No one is ever to busy to take a break.


People will make time for something, period.

I bet she made time for her imaginary boyfriend!

00Kevin,

You did right calling her out on it. It was what YOU felt that needed to be done so you did it. Don't apologize for it. I wish a lot of the other cats would do the same thing. The world would be a better place.

How many times have you heard a female stating she loves the guy she's with because he knows how to HANDLE her. They know they do crazy sh*t and only know a MAN won't take it from her.

YEAH YEAH this is not his girl. SO! But I guarantee that she respects him more now then before. And that's what it's about, RESPECT. He was just showing her that she wasn't going to feed him that bullsh*t of a story. Just keep it real. Females don't like it when guys come at them in a phony way so why do cats tolerate it from females and not call them out. Think about it.

but to each his own.

Peace

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Crotch Sniffer
Naw man, let her go. The cat is already out of the bag! You have already tipped your hand at this game of PokeHer It is nearly impossible to turn a chick like this around, and thus a waste of your energy.

I suppose you could tell her you were drunk when you wrote that message, but I think you would be more successful if you redirected all this energy to the NEXT girl.

Yeah but you assumed the wrong thing. Think of how much more powerful it woulda been if you had assumed that she really wanted you but was actually very busy. You doubted yourself and this is not attractive! Your interaction with her and your posts here reek of insecurity. You need to work on your inner game my man. Always remember that you are Double-Oh Kevin, The suavest, baddest sexiest man alive! Of course she wants you, she´s only human right?

Do whatever you want dude, but recognize that you will have much better chances when you stop assuming the worst. Always maintain the positive!!!

You have learned a valuable lesson here so use this knowledge on any of the other 3 billion chicks out there.



If she is obsessed with work that she LOVES, then I find this attractive. If she really doesn´t dig her job and makes herself sick over it, worrying constantly, then this sends up red flags! It is harsh to judge anyone on such a limited basis. Sometimes a regular job can get hectic for a short spurt and then everything is chill. Like I said before, dont jump to conclusions because they are often false and based on your own limited perspective.

Hope this helps

Have to disagree with you on a few points.

I think I would only be lying to myself if I didn't call her out on it. My gut instinct told me she was full of crap and that she was being evasive. The gut instinct of everyone on this board said the same thing. If I would of let her get away with it, I would just of made my self-blind to the truth. It would have made me a coward had I not said anything about it. I would only of doubted myself had I not said anything about it. That is AFC!

This is a lesson that every AFC out there needs to learn. You just don't let a woman walk all over you. With a woman you need to go with what your gut instincts are telling you. I believe that men have natural instincts to identify a woman’s promiscuity and lies. So don't hold anything thing back just goes with how you feel. As soon as you refrain from saying what is on your mind she has you by the balls and you loose. If she pulls crap on you then call her on it and put her in her place. Look at how I made her put her foot in her mouth. I'll bet she is feeling really stupid right now.

I agree with Eye on this one. She will have more respect for me now that I called her on it. Even if I was completely wrong it doesn’t matter. I made her emotions flare up and her mind spin around with my reply. Because of what I said to she is thinking about me.

Given this situation I’m sure I can get this girl out with in a week.

 

[00Kevin]

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