Hey guys,
I was a user on these forums many years ago, but stopped visiting for a while and am now back.
For a while I have been friends with a girl who had a boyfriend. She is quite hot and on top of that I think we get along really well. She recently broke up with her bf, and I want to nail her now. From what I've experienced previously, and from what people say on these forums, I know it is unlikely a girl will want to have sex with a guy she's already friends with. However, I think it can't hurt to try because we've had a lot of kino before while dancing at bars / clubs.
What I am wondering is how best to suggest that we should go out. We are planning to meet up for lunch some time, but have not set a date. As the conversation goes on, the fact that she's single now will surely come up, and if not, I can bring it up myself. At that point, I think the best thing to do would be to frankly say something like "I think we'd make a good couple." If she agrees, then I would go for a KC when we are leaving. What do you think?
On top of this, there is another twist to my story. When I moved to the USA from South Africa as a kid, I was so shy that I felt embarrassed about my accent and started trying to speak with an American accent in front of Americans, but not my family. Now, as far as my friends know, I have a flawless American accent. But really, it still feels unnatural to speak that way. I imagine I would feel extremely awkward now if I were to begin speaking in my natural South African accent to people whom I've been hiding it. It might take a long time before talking in a South African accent to people I already know feels natural.
Now that I am overcoming shyness I know that having an accent is nothing to be embarrassed about. However, the fact that I did hide it is embarrassing to admit. I think the only thing to do is just talk with a South African accent and when people ask me about it just explain what I did in the previous paragraph. What do you think?
I know that having an accent will probably help me get girls overall, but I'm not sure about this girl I am trying to date. Since she already knows me to have an American accent, she might feel weird since I've been hiding something from her.
Thanks.
I was a user on these forums many years ago, but stopped visiting for a while and am now back.
For a while I have been friends with a girl who had a boyfriend. She is quite hot and on top of that I think we get along really well. She recently broke up with her bf, and I want to nail her now. From what I've experienced previously, and from what people say on these forums, I know it is unlikely a girl will want to have sex with a guy she's already friends with. However, I think it can't hurt to try because we've had a lot of kino before while dancing at bars / clubs.
What I am wondering is how best to suggest that we should go out. We are planning to meet up for lunch some time, but have not set a date. As the conversation goes on, the fact that she's single now will surely come up, and if not, I can bring it up myself. At that point, I think the best thing to do would be to frankly say something like "I think we'd make a good couple." If she agrees, then I would go for a KC when we are leaving. What do you think?
On top of this, there is another twist to my story. When I moved to the USA from South Africa as a kid, I was so shy that I felt embarrassed about my accent and started trying to speak with an American accent in front of Americans, but not my family. Now, as far as my friends know, I have a flawless American accent. But really, it still feels unnatural to speak that way. I imagine I would feel extremely awkward now if I were to begin speaking in my natural South African accent to people whom I've been hiding it. It might take a long time before talking in a South African accent to people I already know feels natural.
Now that I am overcoming shyness I know that having an accent is nothing to be embarrassed about. However, the fact that I did hide it is embarrassing to admit. I think the only thing to do is just talk with a South African accent and when people ask me about it just explain what I did in the previous paragraph. What do you think?
I know that having an accent will probably help me get girls overall, but I'm not sure about this girl I am trying to date. Since she already knows me to have an American accent, she might feel weird since I've been hiding something from her.
Thanks.
