Need tips on increasing ambition

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Although I own my own business and am doing all right for myself, I have always been aware of a distinct lack of ambition that has plagued me all my life.

I do suffer from a very severe chronic stomach condition, and I suspect the daily battle with this disease has something to do with it. This is because I usually feel extremely sick for several hours almost every morning, and it is hard to get out there in the world with a winning attitude after 4 hours of painful diarrhea. It can really wear you down day after day. No meds have helped, so far.

Does anyone have some suggestions or links to useful information regarding increasing ambition?
 

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I don't know if a lack of ambition is your problem bud. Quick question, what kind of business are you running? Is it a business you are passionate about?
 

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Falcon said:
I don't know if a lack of ambition is your problem bud. Quick question, what kind of business are you running? Is it a business you are passionate about?
Computer repair/network design.

I used to have passion about it, but that has been dwindling, perhaps because lately I've been doing a lot of residential work, which I hate. I prefer the corporate stuff because it's more profitable and much less chaotic.

The thing is, I've always lived with this feeling of a lack of ambition, and have never been able to figure out why. This is rare for me as I'm normally very perceptive. I'm too "close" to it to be able to see it for what it is. Could be mild depression.

I hate to whine...I just want to get this issue handled.
 

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I have a belief that you will automatically be ambitious if you are pursuing something you love. Not something that just pays the bills, or something somebody told you to do.

This thread is complicated though because there are mentioned health problems.
 

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It's a choice.

Nothing more, nothing less.
 

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I have a saying that goes. "If your not going forwards, you're going backwards" that usually helps me when I don't live up to what I think I should be.

I find people who think highly of them selfs and have generally done better in life, usually have higher ambitions.
 

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Do not let your health get in the way of your ambitions in life.

Remember FDR was in a wheelchair.

Edison and Beethoven were deaf.

Teddy Roosevelt was a weak and sickly child.

Professor Stephen Hawking.

Jim Abbot, the one handed MLB pitcher.

Abraham Lincoln wasn't mentally healthy for much of early life.

JFK suffered alot of physical pain for most of his life.

Lance Armstrong overcame cancer.

DEATH

Think about when you die and what your obituary would read and what kind of life you lived.

" If you can accomplish anything in this world and you know you could not fail, what would you do, see, and be ?????"
 

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An interesting range of responses...

You all made good points, and I appreciate the encouraging ones, especially from Bro.

The more I contemplate this, the more I realize that my real problem is the violent pummeling I receive from my stomach disease every day. I wake up every morning with massive pain and diarrhea that lasts from 3 to 4 hours. This daily experience takes a huge toll on the body , mind, and spirit, and it is indeed true that most people who have it as bad as I do tend to give up on life and declare themselves disabled (it is a legal disability). In view of this, I think I've done pretty well for myself.

So, now I find that it's time to rise above mere survival and act with faith in my ability to effect change and improvement.

I once read a book where a young man was driving a car with an old Yaqui Indian as his passenger. They were driving through the lonely mountains of Mexico when the young man spotted headlights a good distance away in the rear-view mirror. As they chatted the young man became increasingly nervous as the miles went on and the headlights would play hide-and-seek with him as the vehicles dipped and rose among the hills.

The old Indian, noticing the young man's discomfort, glanced back and smiled. "Those are the headlights of death", said he. The young man understood.

Let he who has an ear hear...

Sun Tzu
 

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Sun Tzu,

I remember when I got an injury while playing a sport in HS. It sucked, it was painful watching on the sidelines and not being able to play. Your body is an important thing, and when it is hurt, like the mind, needs to be taken care of. This is why I hesitated in answering when you first posted. I wasn't sure how the health problem fit in or how serious it is. Now, I imagine you are in a similar situation in life. You want to play the game of life, but your body is in a way preventing you from doing certain things and reaching your full potential. You may need to 'handle' and fix this problem before trying to be ambitious with your current goals. I am no doctor, but consider this, a snippet from a newsletter I receive each month. (It is not a religious newsletter, but a newsletter for improving athletic performance and life in general)

Introducing #1 of the Top 10 Enemies: Pharmaceutical Companies.

Consider this: in 2000 alone, the combined sales of just two pharmaceutical drugs (Vioxx and Celebrex) were $5.7 billion USD.

This yielded more profit than the combined sales of all herbals WORLDWIDE.

Your intuition should already be telling you that man can not do better than the Creator when it comes to health. There is a natural cause for everything. Older civilizations (such as the Native Americans) knew about the healing properties of nearly every single plant, and there are still cultures today (such as Amazon tribes in South America) that are this in touch with nature.

Despite having the supposed best health care and most advanced healing agents in history, our Western culture is actually sicker than ever before.

Here's the real truth, plain and simple: drugs do not cure disease, they CAUSE it.

It's easy to see how it works, once you dig a little deeper. To get FDA approved, any substance claiming to cure or aid a disease must go through a great deal of testing. This testing costs thousands if not millions of dollars, and must obviously be paid for by someone (the company who wishes to patent the product). There is no money in natural cures, so these cures will never pass FDA approval!

Look deeper. Much of the government has shares in these pharmaceutical companies and has a strong interest in keeping the money in their own pockets.

Do you think it's right that our doctors make commission on the drugs they prescribe? If they will be paid less to tell you about a natural cure (rather than a drug), doesn't that make their opinion a little biased?

Do you think it's right that most doctors learn next to nothing about nutrition as part of their multiple-year training, but are trained extensively in drugs?

Does it really make sense to you to treat the SYMPTOM, rather than the DISEASE? Let's say you go to the doctor because you have a headache. He recommends you take an aspirin, so you do, and the headache no longer ails you. But what has really happened, is that he has given you a drug that blocks the PAIN, so you are no longer aware of your sickness. The sickness, and more importantly, what CAUSED the sickness, has not been addressed. Aspirin kills 2,000 people in the United States alone each year. That is not aspirin overdoes, either; that death toll is from the recommended dosage. Prescription drugs cause about 250,000 deaths per year in America, and millions worldwide, making pharmaceuticals one of the leading causes of death.

Meanwhile, viruses and bugs are getting stronger and stronger, with new super-strains adapting to our progressively more powerful drugs. Viruses are alive, too, and they adapt to anything just as we do. Simple cause and effect.

Beware of advertisements. Most of these pharmaceutical ads present their information as scientific fact when there is no such thing. I'm not just talking about advertisements during commercials! Many sales pitches for such drugs are done through media interviews with doctors, presenting the information as objective fact when it is funded by the companies making money off these products. Profits, not your health, are their main concern.

You NEVER need drugs to be healthy! The natural human state is always healthy, and we only get sick when our body is telling us something is WRONG and needs to be changed. Monkeys living in the wild never get sick! We wouldn't either, with their lifestyle and diet.

The Chinese looked at the energy field when assessing sickness, and taught us that disease always appears first in one's chi before any symptoms manifest. Remember that everything is connected. When you get sick, it could be a deeper emotional or spiritual problem, not always a physical cause. Unhappiness is the number one cause of sickness in the world.

The medical community is just starting to understand the relation between these dimensions, although most doctors are still shockingly far behind. Science, however, now understands that the number one risk factor for heart disease is not smoking or one's diet, but the presence of a hostile, negative personality. Prayer has been scientifically tested and proven to increase the patient's recovery rate significantly, even if the person being prayed for is not religious and does not even know he is being prayed for. Everything is connected.

Add the health industry to the long list of things money has ruined. Our biggest mistake is our ignorant arrogance, in thinking that human knowledge can do one better than the Creator.

Always think critically, and remember: don't do drugs.
Just like people who try to get a quick fix with women/seduction by memorizing lines or trying to 'act' alpha, we DJs know that the core of the problem is a lot deeper and involves lifestyle changes that questions who we are. Consider that the 'quick fixes' your doctor gave you didn't work. DO NOT GIVE UP THERE. You may need to make huge lifestyle changes for your body to fix the problem. This includes your diet, your outlook on life, and maybe other habits. I am no doctor, but I merely see the advice I am giving more as conventional wisdom. PS: I've had stomach problems before and I was able to get rid of it without taking the medicines the doctor prescribed (which were mostly stuff just to block the pain). Here is something to be ambitious about: Healing your body.
 

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it's a no-brainer but results create stronger ambition. for months i went to the gym working out for a half hour and maybe losing 1 pound a month. over time i started to look for excuses of how to avoid the gym. i would say i'll go in an hour and not go, then i would say i'll go tommorrow and not go. i made excuses because i wasn't getting results which caused lack of ambition.

leave it to pregnant celebrity mothers to help regain my ambition. they always said they worked out for 2 hours at the gym and these women would lose all 40 pounds of baby fat in no time. as much as i procrastinated i thought i would try going to the gym for 2 hours a day. my god they were right. i was now losing about 2 to 3 pounds a week. heck since i started seeing results i moved it up to 2 hours in the morning and 2 hours at night and the pounds are just melting off me and i feel great.

boredom cause lack of ambition too. try something new.
 

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Good info, Falcon. Thanks.

It has taken all of my life so far just to even entertain the possibility of change, but I think I'm at the point where I can believe that it's possible.

I found your reply to be a great encouragement.

Sun Tzu
 

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giardia...look that word up. it is the sh**s. literally. i pick it up from bad water in some god forsaken place like moldova and eastern ukraine. it pretty much stays with you for a long time (about six weeks). i have bad cramping and the runs pretty much every day when i have it. before i go anywhere i check to see where the nearest toilets are. no big deal, just the price you gotta pay for being king among beautiful desperate girls.

my only ambition in life is to sit and drink wine or coffee style drinks while watching other people go to or come from work and/or school. another nice thing about being in places where only the gangster elite make enough to buy apartments with consistent heat in the winter. i get to watch others work while knowing that no matter how below average i am back home i am still an elitist smuck in their world. now that places such as double coffee have cafes in kiev i can even log onto the internet for almost nothing while enjoying a nice drink. oh my, how bright my otherwise waisted life looks while the resident blond blue eyed teen waitress (who doesn't even make $200 a month) serves me my moko light while i download virus infected shareware programs.

http://www.trekearth.com/gallery/Europe/Ukraine/photo467235.htm
double coffee is the cafe for countries where the girls are pretty and most guys are much poorer than me! we are talking baltic states and ukraine. they have some deadly hot chocolate if you dare. they give you a little stick of chocolate that you let melt in milk. the local girls love letting chocolate melt in hot milk. mmm, and oh how i love watching them watch chocolate melt in hot milk. it is called choco.....ugh...don't remember. you will find it usually right under the coffee selections in the newspaper style of menu they have. go for it.
 
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