Need texting advice for a girl I met Saturday night

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Damn playa.. I hope I never ever get drunk enough to text that to a chick.

Well, it sounds worse out of context. There was rapport there.

 

[Funlol]

That's your drunk text?

My drunk texts have been "Cut the **** and come over", "I want you inside me", and (ok a super creepy one) "Luv you but if you don't respond its number delete!" Haha. Go booze!

I was more high...I usually dont text when I'm drunk. I've learned my lesson. Apparently I shouldn't when I'm high anymore either.

But I like those texts lol

 

[Huffman]

Ah, one more thing about texting: when you wanna arrange another meeting/date, never text, always call!

Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.

If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.

AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY

 

[teacha]

Does calling a girl rather than texting really make a difference?

I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.

btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.

How about the obvious that I think anyone with true experience knows

A GIRL WILL GIVE OUT HER NUMBER TO A GUY WITHOUT HAVING ANY REAL INTEREST LEVEL IN HIM

Its a lot easier for them to ignore you after you're gone than deal with an awkward moment in their presence

I know a couple girls who save a guy's number they don't really wanna talk to & not interested in as 'don't answer'.

 

[Huffman]

You have a point, but I just like calling better. Texting feels very unpersonal - and frankly I don't like the feel of you sending her a text, waiting forever for an answer. Then you arrange a time, text back and forth and back and forth... what a pain!

I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.