Need some simple advice for getting with this chick (she's obsessed with her ex)?

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So met this girl a couple weeks ago and asked to get a drink with her. A couple days before the date she messages me and tells me we can't have that drink because she doesn't want to lead me on. Ok. She's texted me a couple of times since then, and today was telling me she wanted her f-buddy to come over. And tried to convince me she was a good girl by saying she's only been with 4 guys (which is utter bs, but whatever). I invited her out for a drink again for tomorrow and she said she couldn't but could next week. I don't care about getting into a relationship with her because apparently she's obsessed with her ex. But I wouldn't mind having some with her, because she sounds like a kinky girl (she was talking about some pretty sexual things, ie wants to have a 3some with a guy and another girl). I don't get the whole telling me about her f-buddy, whether that's a bad thing or not (though doubt it's a good thing). If you need any other info to help let me know.
 

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sounds like she was calling you the f-buddy and that you shoulda drove your a$$ to her house.
 

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either that or she is taking you for a fool. telling you she wants her **** buddy to come over i would had put her in place.
 

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Tiguere said:
either that or she is taking you for a fool. telling you she wants her **** buddy to come over i would had put her in place.
lol, well obviously she didn't just come out and tell me that she had a f-buddy coming over. What she said was that she hanging out with a guy that she sometimes hangs out with when she's single. So seeing as I'm not a complete idiot I put 2 and 2 together, and teased her about her "friend" a bit.

In other news I had this girl randomly ask me to get on msn and send her pics. Sent her a couple of pics of me (most of just the chest up) and she says to send her body pics (I agree with a requirement, she has to send me some after). So I do that (because I feel pretty good about my body, although there is always room to improve), and she tells me that I'm not bad looking (oh, what a wonderous compliment, lol) but it's too bad I'm only looking for a toy. I just say I'm looking to have a good time right now, and I'm pretty laid back and take things as they come. I tell her it's her turn with the pics and she sends me about 10 (and from what I see she has a nice ass). She logs off after asking me if she's hot or sexy (although I didn't even get time to answer), so I just tell her I'd better see her sexy ass next week.
 

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You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.
 

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todays_news said:
You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.
she said no the first time (well actually she cancelled after saying yes), but a couple days ago she said she wanted to get together next week.
 
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