Ok I'm new here and I know it says to read the bible before posting but i have a sorta different problem. I am 23 yrs old and I haven't had sex in 1 yr and 7 months. It's not that I haven't gotten the opportunity to because i have. Here's the problem, I can't seem to perform when the situation arises. This has happened to me once in highschool when i was with my gf but it went away. Then I had casual sex for 2 yrs before joining the army.(although I always thought about it before having sex with a new partner but it seemed i could block it out pretty good.) When I joined the army I was stationed in korea for a yr on a all male base. About 7 months into the tour i had sex with some random girl and i was really drunk. About 2 weeks later i meet this girl and i become interested, We go out and drink go back to her place and bam can't get it up. Ever since then I've had trouble in bed. I need to know what to do to get over this bull ****. It's like I can't control my erections.