I guess I'll go ahead and say I'm new to the boards, but not to the site. Alright, now for my dilema.
There's a girl I work with that I like. After a bunch of us started hanging around outside the parking lot at work after hours a few time, she and her friends started inviting me to go do stuff with them. Started with Halloween night. After that, we continued spending time together, but it was always with her friend who we also work with. I've gotten to know them equally pretty much, so it was also going with with 'friends" instead of her. Now, I started realizing after a while that I liked her, and I started picking up things that made me think that maybe she liked me too, like little things. For instance, she started giving me a ride home after work most of the time because we live down the same way, or her taking me to her house for her birthday to meet up with her friend and someone else from work without even asking me, just taking me along. Now, at some point, one of my co-workers I guess found out, even though I told no one, and a while later, she came up to me and asked me if this was true, to which I answered honestly and she told me she didn't like me that way, but still wanted to be friends. Now, I was already feeling depressed with the holiday season around, so I basically kept to myself and didn't talk to anyone for two weeks until she started talking to me again and offered to take me home the last day of work before school was over (obviously, that's where I work). Now, it seems as of late, alot of her actions prove otherwise to what she told me. After the two weeks of me seperating myself from everyone, she told me she'd seem me again over the break when she'd come over to give me my Christmas gift, which was unexpected. She came three days before Christmas to give it to me and we ended up talking outside for a few hours. One weekend, we spend most of the day in the next county in a mall with her friend and her boyfriend, and she even invited me over her house for New Years, where we went with her parents to a friend of hers, and the next two days, we hung out again, for dinner, and then, shopping. She continues to give me a ride home everyday and we talk in the car. And she's told me some pretty personal stuff, like about her grandmother's death, her father's current depression and her ex-boyfriend. I have a friend I've been talking to about this and she thinks that she probably does like me, and doesn't understand why she'd tell me otherwise if she's still be so unusually nice to me, so I wanted to ask you guys here. Sorry if it seems a little long winded, I just want to put in most of the details I thought were important. What do you think?
There's a girl I work with that I like. After a bunch of us started hanging around outside the parking lot at work after hours a few time, she and her friends started inviting me to go do stuff with them. Started with Halloween night. After that, we continued spending time together, but it was always with her friend who we also work with. I've gotten to know them equally pretty much, so it was also going with with 'friends" instead of her. Now, I started realizing after a while that I liked her, and I started picking up things that made me think that maybe she liked me too, like little things. For instance, she started giving me a ride home after work most of the time because we live down the same way, or her taking me to her house for her birthday to meet up with her friend and someone else from work without even asking me, just taking me along. Now, at some point, one of my co-workers I guess found out, even though I told no one, and a while later, she came up to me and asked me if this was true, to which I answered honestly and she told me she didn't like me that way, but still wanted to be friends. Now, I was already feeling depressed with the holiday season around, so I basically kept to myself and didn't talk to anyone for two weeks until she started talking to me again and offered to take me home the last day of work before school was over (obviously, that's where I work). Now, it seems as of late, alot of her actions prove otherwise to what she told me. After the two weeks of me seperating myself from everyone, she told me she'd seem me again over the break when she'd come over to give me my Christmas gift, which was unexpected. She came three days before Christmas to give it to me and we ended up talking outside for a few hours. One weekend, we spend most of the day in the next county in a mall with her friend and her boyfriend, and she even invited me over her house for New Years, where we went with her parents to a friend of hers, and the next two days, we hung out again, for dinner, and then, shopping. She continues to give me a ride home everyday and we talk in the car. And she's told me some pretty personal stuff, like about her grandmother's death, her father's current depression and her ex-boyfriend. I have a friend I've been talking to about this and she thinks that she probably does like me, and doesn't understand why she'd tell me otherwise if she's still be so unusually nice to me, so I wanted to ask you guys here. Sorry if it seems a little long winded, I just want to put in most of the details I thought were important. What do you think?
