Need some motivation!

[Mr.Freestyler19]

firat of all i hav a very bad problem which is tht i always like to win....this makes the fear of rejection even greater......how do u guys overcome the anxiaty of not getting results fast.....its only been like 2 months sunce u started to change and i hav seen a great improvement in my social life regarding female friends..........i need some motivation guys
Spring break is here so any ideas of what should i do.......remember i am only 15 and i am not free to go every where i want to...

 

[hyper_]

Hey bro,

firat of all i hav a very bad problem which is tht i always like to win....

This is not really a problem... this is actually great that you have a winners mentality.

What you need to do... is set yourself up so you can win every time.

So when you go out... make it your goal to approach say 3 girls... and if you approach... YOU WIN... doesn't matter if you get blown out... it doesn't matter what happens... as long as you approach... then slowly... start setting your goals a little higher...

maybe next time... approach 3 girls... and try and get them attracted to you...

go in small steps... and eventually you will get there while have a good time.

keep going man you are doing great for 15...

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

thnks man....i owe my winner mentality to playing soccer and when doing tricks with the ball i see how girls want to talk to me and want me to show them how i do all the tricks....