Hey guys, a problem I just started having with my new girlfriend. I'll try my best to keep it as short as possible, but it is very complicated.
Information you should know before I ask my questions:
I started going out with a girl last week, first 4 days were great! However, there is some history with this girl that should be noted. 3 months ago, I liked this girl and this girl liked me; however, she did not know I liked her, so she went out with this other guy in attempt to get me jealous. She liked this guy a bit, but everybody knew she REALLY liked me at this time.
Anyway, she went out with this guy for 2 months, and than she ended it with him because he got touchy, etc.
NOW, I still liked this girl, and I found out that she only went out with him to get me jealous 2 weeks AFTER she broke up with him.
What did I do? I started talking to her again, she still liked me, I still liked her. So we hooked up. (We hooked up a month after she broke up with him.)
Now, I'll get to my questions...
First question:
Now, we have been talking on the phone ALOT since it is the summer and I cannot see her in school; we only go out to see each other once every 2 weeks. She ALWAYS calls me, and I've noticed we talk on the phone too much that we almost run out of things to say... how do I just cut this down? Do I stop picking up my phone? Because our conversations are starting to get dull... I don't want to attraction to get lost.. this leads onto my next question.
Second question:
Just today, she sent a text to one of her close friends, BUT she sent it to me by accident.. it read this:
"Jenna, I don't know if I do like him enough to go out with him... I just don't want things to end up like me and Joe... I miss him... but as a best friend."
Jenna = Her close friend
Joe = My girlfriends ex-boyfriend
Him = Referring to me.
No idea how to deal with this situation and I need some mixed views.
Would appreciate fast responses,
Nick.
Information you should know before I ask my questions:
I started going out with a girl last week, first 4 days were great! However, there is some history with this girl that should be noted. 3 months ago, I liked this girl and this girl liked me; however, she did not know I liked her, so she went out with this other guy in attempt to get me jealous. She liked this guy a bit, but everybody knew she REALLY liked me at this time.
Anyway, she went out with this guy for 2 months, and than she ended it with him because he got touchy, etc.
NOW, I still liked this girl, and I found out that she only went out with him to get me jealous 2 weeks AFTER she broke up with him.
What did I do? I started talking to her again, she still liked me, I still liked her. So we hooked up. (We hooked up a month after she broke up with him.)
Now, I'll get to my questions...
First question:
Now, we have been talking on the phone ALOT since it is the summer and I cannot see her in school; we only go out to see each other once every 2 weeks. She ALWAYS calls me, and I've noticed we talk on the phone too much that we almost run out of things to say... how do I just cut this down? Do I stop picking up my phone? Because our conversations are starting to get dull... I don't want to attraction to get lost.. this leads onto my next question.
Second question:
Just today, she sent a text to one of her close friends, BUT she sent it to me by accident.. it read this:
"Jenna, I don't know if I do like him enough to go out with him... I just don't want things to end up like me and Joe... I miss him... but as a best friend."
Jenna = Her close friend
Joe = My girlfriends ex-boyfriend
Him = Referring to me.
No idea how to deal with this situation and I need some mixed views.
Would appreciate fast responses,
Nick.