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Someone Much cooler

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After my finals my gf Mary asked me to come spend the xmas w/ her I agreed since its an important thing to her and I don’t celebrate it. One of my djs was having a Nye party so mary asked me to stay till nye. I agreed since I had biz in her state for school.

She recently moved into a new place so, Wed I moved her furniture, bags, dishes, clothes and junk into her new apartment. Thursday her & her sis Steph, who admittedly hates me (used to kinda talk to her but she was AW), ran around doing girl stuff like getting hair and eyebrows done & were mad when I didn’t wanna go along. later me & mary met up & we partied. Someone had backed into her car while Steph was driving, so on Friday I replaced the hood, headlamp, mirror & installed a new radio in her car. Saturday I worked on my buick till it started raining. Sunday me & mary went to a junk yard and got a part for my buick & then later I threw out mary’s old furniture from the old apt that she didn’t want. Monday I ran around getting things ready for school, picking my classes and stuff, but I was tired.

Here is where the prblems really started: Mary complained about not getting the house clean in time to get her security deposit back, I offered to clean the apt assuming Steph would help. Mary thanked me. Steph, who had her car, called me, asked me when she should come & I said when ever you want, she was like im not cleaning but I’m dropping you off to clean. I said I was tired and didn’t wanna clean by myself. An argument ensued. Steph said I was her man & since Mary works, pays for most stuff I should also be willing to clean, I said I was willing to help but the job was too much for one person alone, especially since its not my place, stuff or responsibility. @ 10:20pm Stephs said she would pick me up when got mary off work @ 11:30pm. I assumed she would be coming around 11pm, so by 11:45pm when she still hadn't arrived I got tired of waiting and decided to go get dinner. Of course by the time my food came Steph had already gotten mary & of course wanted me to drop my plate & jump for them. Then they started badgering me about how I should clean and how I don’t do anything during the day, by then I was fed up. We scream all the way to the apt that needed to be cleaned & I was pissed. We get there & steph assigns me the dirtiest job of cleaning out the roach infested sink(I told mary to do her dishes but she refuses, so the roaches come & she expects me to clean it) I refused & Steph started screaming in my face. @ about 2am my boy, Alain, came to get me cause Mary told me I couldn’t stay @ her house even tho I had nowhere else to go that time of the night. All my stuff was @ marys other apt but she wouldn’t let me get it. Me and alain tricked mary into letting me in and I tried to go to sleep. @ 4;00 am I had no where else to go. Steph started putting my stuff in the hall way & I asked her not to. Then she threatened to have some guys come if I didn’t leave, since this happened before mary called the cops, another time she had a few guys show up w/ a tire iron & another time yet her dad and grand pa showed up w/ a gun. I took mary & steph seriously, I got a big kitchen knife out and told them that if they had ppl come for me make sure it was someone they didn’t mind getting cut up. I went to sleep w/the knife under my pillow, in he morning mary tried to throw my stuff out again, I knew her toilet was backed up so in a fit of rage I flushed the toilet, 2x, so the fecies filled water would over flow. It did & then I left. I know this wasn’t nice but she deserved it. Do you think I was wrong? Rob said I was, he said I should have moved & cleaned her apt. yas said she is an adult and is accountable for herself.
 

Someone Much cooler

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i know i made alot of mistakes wit the relationship, i know i was stupid for sticking around. i just want yall to tell me as a man should i have cleaned the apt also?
 

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Sounds like a plot for a Bgrade movie.
In all honesty mate it sounds like a absolute fvcking nutcase situation.
Easy for me to say - but i'd exit any sort of relationship with this woman adn her nutso sister immediately.
Sorry I can't be more insightful than that.
 

runner83

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USE PARAGRAPHS!!!

The last big chunk of text was almost impossible to read.

Seems to be a typical story on So Suave:

- Guy is disrespected by a woman on numerous occasions and used as a doormat, doing stuff like fixing her car and moving furniture

- Guy doesn't realise woman is a NUTCASE, or is so pvssy-whipped that he goes along with it anyway

- One day, guy finally snaps and stands up for himself and leaves woman (or more commonly she leaves him)

- Guy comes onto So Suave moaning and wondering why handing his balls over to her on a silver platter did not end up in his favour.


For fvck's sake, have respect for yourself. Don't put up with this sort of b/s just in the search for pvssy.


EDIT: Mods, this guy is not over 25. Please move this sh*t into the main discussion forum where it belongs.
 

Someone Much cooler

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sorry it was a rushed copy & paste.
runner83-We fight all the time in general i have the reputation of being a heel. I wont sit here & lie and say she hasnt helped me through hard times. She wrote me when i was locked up, 2x, drove me around while my license was suspended, gave me food while i was on house arrest. As i have also reciprocated the favor. I met her sis 1st but she was an attention slore so i moved my way right thru the family, the sis(my GF) wanted me along and jump @ it. We dated for 3.5 yrs.
 

Someone Much cooler

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I'm not pvssy whipped in the least i had a new girl last night im just not sure if losing a friend who bent over backwards for me was worth a lil pride. Like marcellus wallace said in pulp fiction Fvck pride.
 

scribblec

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man fk cleaning her dishes after uve already spent so much time helping her move, what the fk does she take u for seriously
 
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