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Master Don Juan
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I wouldn't give her any type of ultimatum. I would just say, it's been fun, you are very dear to me, but it's time for you to see what is out there, and if our paths cross again, then it was meant to be.Justaguy254254 said:Thank you for your advice. I really wasn't thinking too deeply about remaining in a holding pattern for her... That would be destructive for me.
I'm just going to her apartment to drop off a few of her things, and pick up a few of my things...give the talk, which will be "you seem to want to go, so you'll do what you want to do. I've had a great time with you up to this point, and wish you the best in the future. However, I don't want to talk with you again after today except if one of the following is true. 1) You discover you still have something of mine and need to return it 2) You decide in the next few days that you are able to commit to me and not let anyone convince you that you're somehow missing out by not spending time with these guys."
Something along those lines. And I'll get in my car and go home.
Put the tide or emphasis of the breakup on you. That it was your idea. Don't let a teenager control a grown man's life. She may be doing that at the moment, but don't let her think she is.
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