Need some help here, I like her but tricky situation

[NealIRC]

It’s not a professional situation. It’s the installation of a home security system. For all we know, this girl works at best buy.

Professional situations are amongst colleagues, or when the situation is on a recurring basis.It sounds like he’s got one more day with her and then it’s adios. And she is not the kind of girl you take out after the work is done.

Is anyone surprised this company only sent 1 girl all this time? Rather than a group of guys?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Is anyone surprised this company only sent 1 girl all this time? Rather than a group of guys?

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

 

[NealIRC]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

No.

 

[Divorced w 3]

No.

Then respectfully, the amount of time you’re wasting thinking about this girl is going to give you anxiety. My uneducated guess is her man is not getting it done back at home and she is sending you a huge bat signal to bend her over your kitchen counter. If you don’t want to move on it , that is your right. Look into her eyes. They’ll give her away. That’s all you need to know if you should move on it or not.

 

[TheGambino]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

No ofc not

 

[NealIRC]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

But in USA, I don't know of any types of companies that would either send a solo woman to your place or group of women to your place. Any kind of setup or installation, it's always going to be guys.

The only example I ever seen is a pizza girl delivery, but all her cohorts were guys.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Why is this a tricky situation? She has been at your place at night, you should have made a move. If she rejects you then so be it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why is this a tricky situation? She has been at your place at night, you should have made a move. If she rejects you then so be it.

This. Lock the thread.

 

[NealIRC]

This. Lock the thread.

The answer is still not enough information. Topic starter hasn't answered if the woman showed progressive cleavage, or if he actually went to the office in person 1st, and met the staff, including the woman, there. That increases the likelihood of sending a solo woman to his place.

 

[Divorced w 3]

The answer is still not enough information. Topic starter hasn't answered if the woman showed progressive cleavage, or if he actually went to the office in person 1st, and met the staff, including the woman, there. That increases the likelihood of sending a solo woman to his place.

I got this backward. You are not OP. you seemed that way given your commentary. My fault.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

OP,
Although monkey branching may work at times, look at what being cautious and polite has done for you. Pedistalizing and overthinking what to do next, how to get her, etc. On this path you may get her at some point, but with a lot of patience and smooth, calculated moves. Girls with boyfriends are more likely to cheat on them if you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious, just something casual. Now she is able to have her cake and eat it too, with far less drama and soap opera crap. I love being rejected by girls with boyfriends or husbands... It hurts their ego when a bold confident man isn't afraid to tell her exactly what he wants and isn't phased by her relationship status.

 

[NealIRC]

I love being rejected by girls with boyfriends or husbands... It hurts their ego when a bold confident man isn't afraid to tell her exactly what he wants and isn't phased by her relationship status.

Me too, but I also love being rejected by pregnant women, whom aren't necessarily saying they're taken. By making moves on pregnant women, you're showing her you're not bothered by her pregnancy. XD

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Me too, but I also love being rejected by pregnant women, whom aren't necessarily saying they're taken. By making moves on pregnant women, you're showing her you're not bothered by her pregnancy. XD

Shouldn't you be trying to lose your virginity?

 

[NealIRC]

Shouldn't you be trying to lose your virginity instead of trolling all over my d*ck?

No, I'm a visual guy. So a preggo women sending exotic photos of her is eye candy for me.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

No, I'm a visual guy. So a preggo women sending exotic photos of her is eye candy for me.

Whatever keeps you from shooting up innocent civilians.

 

[bat soup]

Just whip it out and see if she runs away screaming.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

So if she repeatedly lies the guy that she has a boyfriend, but then she still hangs around him entirely out of her free will and then opens her legs for him, she will manage to use her lying as a successful defense in this imaginary court of justice? C'mon man.

Yes, that's how women operate. She will justify it in her mind by thinking she has mentioned that she has a boyfriend and if he tries to have sex with her (whether successful or not), she is not in fault, cause she has already acted "properly".

No person in his right mind is fooled by this and that's why I said she must be pretty messed up if she tricks herself with this kind of nonsense.

You're talking in men's language. That's not how women think and operate.

 

[pipeman84]

Yes, that's how women operate.

No, that's how hoes operate. Just think about what you're saying ... it would mean that if you have a woman, you can't let her out of the house because she would fvck any moron that hits on her. And if you find out, she'll say: but I told him I have a boyfriend. And you'll be like: oh, well, that's how women operate.

 

[NealIRC]

^ If she's a hoe, then sounds like she's available.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

So if she repeatedly lies the guy that she has a boyfriend, but then she still hangs around him entirely out of her free will and then opens her legs for him, she will manage to use her lying as a successful defense in this imaginary court of justice? C'mon man.
No person in his right mind is fooled by this and that's why I said she must be pretty messed up if she tricks herself with this kind of nonsense.

We really need to stop using person to refer to men and women as some homogeneous group of people, who think, act, and operate alike. You'd be amazed to know how many women I know (they aren't random 304s, just normal women working normal jobs) operate like this. Also actions speak louder than words:

We have some more cexual jokes here and there, I kino touch her sometimes but nothing special, I didn't want to make it akward since she has a bf and I am trying to make her monkey branch but I also want to make sure that she doesnt know where I stand. She keeps flirting, she definetley trusts me, but she didn't really make a move, sit on the couch with me or make it very clear that she has interest. Just plays and fun.

That being said, I don't recommend OP keep pursuing her. At this point, it seems to me that she is mostly using him for attention, food, and money.