Need some feedback on msn convo with hb7

[Ratisson]

so ya, i need some feedback on what u guys think i did right and what i did wrong. I met this girl (a cute hb 7) in the library about a couple weeks ago. She gave me her email (which was a sign already that she has low interest) instead of her phone number and right then and there i new she probably wasnt interested. But today i finally decided to add her because i wanted to be a 100% sure she wasnt interest. So here it is:

Hb :hey, not to be a totally ***** but who are you lol besides *Ratisson*?
Me; how do u know my name is *Ratisson* if u dont know me?
Hb: lol well ur name says *Ratisson*
Me: we met in the library na couple weeks ago
Hb: oooo alright
Me: so how u doing
Hb: im alright how are you
Me: good, how was reading week?
Hb: reading week was alright, i didnt do much, hung out with some friends and family, didnt do ANY school work so im pretty screwed right now as far as that's concerned
Hb: how about yourself?
Me:i went to Hef's house to visit my 3 playmates
Hb: wow thats cool

Me: ya im pretty screwed to with school. I dont know why they call it Reading week no one really reads anything during that time
Hb: yeah so true, thats why most places call it spring break

Me: so what are u doing thursday night, i wanna take u out
Hb: lol thursday night im having people over to my place and then we're all going to club x
Me: mmmmhhhmm
Hb: yeah it should be fun we've had this planned for the past 3 weeks so im excited
Me: i takes 3 weeks to plan a night out?
Hb; lol well, these are my friends we're tlaking about lol everyone is always busy at different times so yeah takes 3 weeks lol
Me: man, id like to know how long its gonna take u guys to plan a wedding
Hb: lol well im never getting married so..
me: thats the spirit
me: so u cant make it thursday, tell me whats ur next free night
hb: um.. i donno.. why what did you want to do?

Me: go shoot some pool, why
Hb: i donno just wondering
Me:so tell me what night ur free
Hb: im thinking
Hb: i dont really know depends on when my next interview is
Hb: probably free sometime next weekish
Me: lol, im smarter than that
Me: give me a specific day
Hb: i honestly dont know
Hb: like i said i have an interview some time and it really depends on when it is
Meh thats too bad! i really thought i could have added u to my collection of playmates, u could have been my 4th
Hb: lol nope not me not like that
Hb: my friend is a playmate though
Me: really, what month?
Hb: *month xxx*
Me: of what year

Hb: *year x*, she was center fold
Me: ya, she's one of mine
Hb: lol no she isnt
Me: lol
Me: how do u know her
Hb: went to high school with her
Me: what school
Hb: *School X*
Me: never heard of it
Me: so why didnt u become one?
Hb: lol because a) its not my personality and b) im not nearly pretty enough... but its all good
Me: come on

Me: give me her number, i really need a 4th
Hb: lol no cant do that
Me: yes u can
Hb: lol thats why she doesnt even use her real name
Me: so tell me her real name then and then tell me her number
Me: she'll like me, im cool
Hb: haha if you knew her real last name you would know her name, shes the only one in City X with her last name but no she has a bf that shes been with for... at least 6 years
Me: dont lie, u just dont wanna give me her number because ur afraid that if we hook up, and fall in love that u will regret passing up the chance u had with me
Hb: haha nope not at all
Me: no, its the truth.
Hb: lol haha ur ****y eh

- So ya, turns out she was a flake, but anyway, practice makes perfect i guess. any thoughts/ comments. thanks.

 

[The Master Disaster]

1 word: Horrible.

First) You pounded her about a free day. If she said I dunno or a bogus excuse move on and keep your diganty.

Second) Playmate idea? Dumb. Never ever tell a girl before you date her about ex's or the number of girl friends you had. Why did you pick three? The popularized Rule of 3 probably told her that'd you have never dated before.

Thrid) Your beating a dead horse with the whole friend chasing. Who cares about a made up friend? It was cute at first, but every additional blow made me feel sorry for you.

Just move on, and hope that she doesn't spread the conversation around.

Better luck next time.

 

[djbr]

So ya, turns out she was a flake, but anyway, practice makes perfect i guess. any thoughts/ comments. thanks.

Noooo!!!!!! Cut the MSN contact! Cut it! Cut it! CUT IT!.

You'll not gain useful experience from this. In the real world every insecurity of yours will pump up right in your face and you'll have to deal with it. MSN will just retard this process.

Also, MSN devalues your attention. Trust me on this -- I made the same mistake recently.

Never do it again. Always talk face-to-face. It could be hard at first, but you can keep it light and escalate from there. Like, start talking with girls you have zip interest. You get more social practice. Then you repeat with girls that you have a higher IL in. Rinse and repeat.

edit: forgot to mention that most girls SAVE their conversations on MSN. You have no idea how this stuff can make a mess...

 

[BxPrince24]

Noooo!!!!!! Cut the MSN contact! Cut it! Cut it! CUT IT!.

You'll not gain useful experience from this. In the real world every insecurity of yours will pump up right in your face and you'll have to deal with it. MSN will just retard this process.

Also, MSN devalues your attention. Trust me on this -- I made the same mistake recently.

Never do it again. Always talk face-to-face. It could be hard at first, but you can keep it light and escalate from there. Like, start talking with girls you have zip interest. You get more social practice. Then you repeat with girls that you have a higher IL in. Rinse and repeat.

edit: forgot to mention that most girls SAVE their conversations on MSN. You have no idea how this stuff can make a mess...

There are situations where you don't get to talk to a girl face to face though. like yall met on a site and you wanna hook up, you're gonna have to type to her 1 way or the other

 

[BxPrince24]

1 word: Horrible.

First) You pounded her about a free day. If she said I dunno or a bogus excuse move on and keep your diganty.

Second) Playmate idea? Dumb. Never ever tell a girl before you date her about ex's or the number of girl friends you had. Why did you pick three? The popularized Rule of 3 probably told her that'd you have never dated before.

Thrid) Your beating a dead horse with the whole friend chasing. Who cares about a made up friend? It was cute at first, but every additional blow made me feel sorry for you.

Just move on, and hope that she doesn't spread the conversation around.

Better luck next time.

I agree, should dropped it a long while ago, but live and learn right?

 

[Nighthawk]

Sorry, Terrible. You want to talk about Reading Week? You ask her out before establishing rapport or making her laugh (the Hef one was politeness, as she remained)? Then beg and hector for another after it should be her turn to reschedule if she's interested.

And NO SMILEYS!!!!!!!

 

[GaryUranga]

k not to be lame but I found something interesting, the dudes that are good with chicks usually type lots of lines instead of whole paragraphs.