Need some feed back.

[Eccentric]

Ok I figured I'd post this in here to get feed back from older guys who've been where I've been.

I was first introduced to all this stuff about 4 or 5 years ago. After heavily reading, this secret world started to make sense. Why girls do what they do, and why guys have to do what they do to stay on top. We are spoon fed bull**** right from birth about just being ourselves, nice guys finish last, etc. We were all scared to leave the path because we didn't know what was out there. Finally after getting sick of it, we did... and we started our new lives from scratch. We quickly learned that the days of movie love are over. Thats Hollywood's gimmick to sell movies. Real love/dating/relationships (whatever you want to call it) is a battlefield where only the strongest survive. If you are not totally aware of your surroundings and your strengths/weakness, you are vulnerable. Sites like this taught me how to shed my weaknesses and improve my strengths. Because in the past I was running into enemy fire blindfolded with a bulls-eye on my chest. With little results to show for, insult to injury.

Over the years I've changed as well outside of the dating aspect. Maturity, or a new light thanks to living outside the box? Probably both. Change in clothes, music, new hobby's, politics, you name it. I have to say my life has been good to me so far. I have a union job, good friends, supporting family, never struggled, and I've kept out of trouble. But all of a sudden now I feel that this life is full of side effects. For starters, I get upset to fast and usually end up taking things to personal. Mainly with "fake" people. Why do they bother me? They shouldn't. Is society to blame with it's constant bombardment of cars, jewelry, anorexic beauty, and financial fantasy fiction? Sometimes I feel like the guy on the Matrix who wanted out because he missed the idea of eating steak. Every where I look, I see people desperately trying to fit in with the next over night fad. I know this will never change, but I rarely meet people who feel the way I do. Maybe it's because I'm only 23 and ahead of my time or something? Hell I already avoid college hangouts and head to places with an older crowd, mainly because I can't stand the bull****.

Last year I tried an experiment on MySpace. I took some pictures and thugged out my profile. I had a steady stream of friend requests of girls from 18-25. I took the same pictures and made a clean looking profile with some humor (in a different city of course) and I only had a few requests here and there. Now I know MySpace isn't a great scale to measure intelligent life, but it helps me make my point. It makes me think I'm in the wrong generation. Old enough to know that the younger crowd isn't my cup of tea, young enough not to be taken seriously with the older crowd. I guess this is just another hurdle of life.

Can anyone relate?

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Yo Eccentric,


Sure, I can relate. In fact, I'd hazard a guess that ALL Mature Men can relate. You see, maturity (as I'm sure YOU'VE been realizing), isn't something that's measured by years on earth---but rather by how well you LEARN the lessons that life is teaching you while you're HERE on earth.

I know of people 20 years older than you that are nowhere near as AWARE of the maze of the matrix of life---especially in the areas of male/female relationships. My advice to YOU, soldier, is to NOT let your knowledge of the truth rob you of your JOY in life---this is an easy trap to fall in. But the BITTERNESS that this path leads to is quicksand indeed.

We've all heard the cliche that ignorance is bliss, but how many of us have heard about the other side of the same cliche-----that SOMETIMES, knowledge is a BURDEN. But it only stays that way until our realization of how certain truths benefits us becomes more evident to us.

It's not always "sexy" to know the truth about what goes on BEHIND THE CURTAIN of life, but if we all want to be successful on purpose---it's NECESSARY. My advice to you is to use your knowledge to CONTINUE to make wiser choices in your life in ALL areas. You have the ADVANTAGE.

Don't allow yourself to fall back into the trap of trying to pretend like you DON'T know better. Like NEO, use your DJ powers to see things, women, and situations in SLOW MOTION. Pick and choose what's best for you without the pressure that comes from being overwhelmed by desperation, ignorance, or overwhelmingly RAGING hormones----like lesser men do. Like the UNLEARNED men do.

Be thankful you have awakened from this Matrix at such an early age. Some of us escaped from this trap at a much older age. Many of the soldiers here in this Sosuave Army have the emotional scars, the heart-wrenching divorces, the financial ruin, and the bitterness that comes from continually picking the WRONG women to PROVE we were ONCE entrapped by the Matrix.

But NOW we're free. And we're ULTIMATELY thankful. But one thing we cannot get back are the years that Sleeping With The Enemy (picking, choosing, and falling for the wrong chicks) has cost us. Where you are NOW may seem like a lonely place, soldier, but it's just a temporary illusion. Consider this:

It's OFTEN lonely----AT THE TOP.

But stay the course. Because 10 years from now, when you are either "happily hooked up or still happily SINGLE", you will be able to unfortunately look around you and see how those who COULD have been mighty have fallen----or should I say, are STILL fallen----still trapped within the Matrix.

YOUR mission, if you choose to accept it, is to continue to explore and discover what you want out of life---and to develop the blueprint of the best ways to succeed in the things that are important to YOU. Help your brothers as you travel along your road, and help out your SISTERS as well. Many are WORTH saving if THEY have the will and YOU have the time and inclination...

Keep your physical, emotional, and spiritual eyes open, and the woman, the situation, or the goals that you seek WILL eventually reveal themselves to you. It's only a matter of time.

Do THESE things, and you'll be fine. You ALREADY have the jump on most you already encounter---in ANY age group, because you are AWARE.

Stay READY, soldier. That way, you won't have to GET ready.

March on.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Did you skip college in favor of work? That would make you more mature than your peers, who are just recovering from the non-stop party binge that is the typical college experience.

 

[Eccentric]

I did skip out on college.

 

[IM0001]

Yes I do can fully agree. I too feal that I just don't fit in with my current generation. All they want to do is party, get drunk, hangover, repeat, maby a little sex, etc.

I have never touched a drink and plan to have plenty of the best sex after marrage. But in the mean time that doesn't mean I am a booring guy whatsoever yet thats what this culture seams to think. Oh well. Ill go on racing fast cars, flying planes, and getting a house while they just waste money on stuff they wont remember doing the next day. Sad sad times we live in.

 

[Eccentric]

Glad I'm not the only one. I guess I just have to find a happy medium, because my life doesn't revolve around designated drivers and empty Coors cans.

 

[Last Man Standing]

If you have read my posts you would know that I am against this artificially created homo/hor Matrix!! This Matris is about distorting our sexuality - everything is publically so overlysexualized that 8, 9, 10, year old girls are emulating hors on TV and singers and dressing and acting like them - and guess who is encouraging them? Their mothers!! Sad, very sad!!!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

If you have read my posts you would know that I am against this artificially created homo/hor Matrix!! This Matris is about distorting our sexuality - everything is publically so overlysexualized that 8, 9, 19, years old are emulating hors on TV and singers and dressing and acting like them - and guess who is encouraging them? Their mothers!! Sad, very sad!!!

Well, if you don't encourage your kids... how are you going to live through them?