Hey, I'm a new guy around here, saw some great motivational posts so I thought I'd join up to finally cast away the damn shell I've stayed in for much of the past 3 years.
Anyways, to describe my situation, I can basically sum it up as minor insecurity, lack of confidence, and an inability to convert my intelligence to wit and sarcasm. I watch so many TV shows but for some reason those connections just don't fire in my brain like educational things do. Other than that, basically for the past two years or so I've tried talking to a lot of girls. The thing that sucks for me though is I always watch as I lose out to other guys who apparently are better socializers than I am. Personally I don't think I have any physical flaws compared to these guys. How can I be more impulsive and unpredictable so its more attractive? Every single time I've become good friends with the girl but I end up watching some other guy I dislike ending up going out with her.
Right now I'm trying to get to know this gorgeous girl I met a few weeks ago. She's really religious and I somewhat am too and we first met at youth group and a friend's house. I already know the basics about her and we say hey to each other, but from here I have no clue how to up the ante in terms of interest. Since she just transferred to our school she's getting massive attention from every sexually deprived guy possible sigh...how can I stand out? I need to learn on the fly so I can actually try something with her!
Anyways, to describe my situation, I can basically sum it up as minor insecurity, lack of confidence, and an inability to convert my intelligence to wit and sarcasm. I watch so many TV shows but for some reason those connections just don't fire in my brain like educational things do. Other than that, basically for the past two years or so I've tried talking to a lot of girls. The thing that sucks for me though is I always watch as I lose out to other guys who apparently are better socializers than I am. Personally I don't think I have any physical flaws compared to these guys. How can I be more impulsive and unpredictable so its more attractive? Every single time I've become good friends with the girl but I end up watching some other guy I dislike ending up going out with her.
Right now I'm trying to get to know this gorgeous girl I met a few weeks ago. She's really religious and I somewhat am too and we first met at youth group and a friend's house. I already know the basics about her and we say hey to each other, but from here I have no clue how to up the ante in terms of interest. Since she just transferred to our school she's getting massive attention from every sexually deprived guy possible sigh...how can I stand out? I need to learn on the fly so I can actually try something with her!
," so I replied with a what's up? She replied "no worries, everything got fixed 