Okay guys I need some help,
Let me give you a quick history about me and the girl that I am currently dating. I meet her about 7 months ago at a friends Party (she is 7 years older than me by the way). Well I was not really interested in her first because she was older but the more time we spend together and alcohol we drank we became closer. She gave me her number and I called her several days later. When we finally went out it went great and I ended up kissing her that same night. Well later her she became my first (you know what I mean) and things were great. But like anything else the good times cannot last forever. She started becoming more distant and I did not know what was going so instead of caching my head and doing nothing I decided to go on a quest to figure out what women wanted. That is were I found this website which has helped me a lot. Well with the things I learned here help me improve myself in getting more confidence and understanding women. It helped me solve some of the problems I was having with this woman (I was to clingy, not confident enough, look for approval and did too many nice things for her). When I did the opposite of what I mentioned it went great. I now felt like I was in control.
Back to the Present
Then thing know is she has started gaining back the control which is nice because it gives me a good challenge. Except this time I need you guy’s advice on how to change things around again. Well any ways she likes playing these mind games that make me chance after her which I think it is fun because it is a challenge for me. Here is an example of something she does. When I move in to kiss her she kind of allows me to but then breathes hard on me through her noise which makes me stop kissing her. For some reason this makes me try again just to get the same results which I figured out it is a way for me want her more (We want what we cannot have). I need some advice on how to turn the table and get the upper hand on this situation.
Thanks,
Let me give you a quick history about me and the girl that I am currently dating. I meet her about 7 months ago at a friends Party (she is 7 years older than me by the way). Well I was not really interested in her first because she was older but the more time we spend together and alcohol we drank we became closer. She gave me her number and I called her several days later. When we finally went out it went great and I ended up kissing her that same night. Well later her she became my first (you know what I mean) and things were great. But like anything else the good times cannot last forever. She started becoming more distant and I did not know what was going so instead of caching my head and doing nothing I decided to go on a quest to figure out what women wanted. That is were I found this website which has helped me a lot. Well with the things I learned here help me improve myself in getting more confidence and understanding women. It helped me solve some of the problems I was having with this woman (I was to clingy, not confident enough, look for approval and did too many nice things for her). When I did the opposite of what I mentioned it went great. I now felt like I was in control.
Back to the Present
Then thing know is she has started gaining back the control which is nice because it gives me a good challenge. Except this time I need you guy’s advice on how to change things around again. Well any ways she likes playing these mind games that make me chance after her which I think it is fun because it is a challenge for me. Here is an example of something she does. When I move in to kiss her she kind of allows me to but then breathes hard on me through her noise which makes me stop kissing her. For some reason this makes me try again just to get the same results which I figured out it is a way for me want her more (We want what we cannot have). I need some advice on how to turn the table and get the upper hand on this situation.
Thanks,