I need some advice. I'm pretty confused right now.
I met this girl a little over 6 months ago. She had just got hired at were at work. I don't know but the first words out of my mouth her "Who the hell are you?" and "What are you doing here?".
I never really gave her much attention besides a hello etc. Well about a 1 1/2 months ago her longtime boyfriend of 4 years cheated on her. He told her while she was at work. She called me and asked if I could fill in for her. Told her No.
Soon afterwards work got pretty busy so we had to work together. At the time I was my usual charming confident self. We hit it off great. Started hanging out together. Two weeks later I asked her out told her I'd like to go to the zoo. She said yes but wants to take things slow. I was like okay.
Well three days before the date. We are hanging out at my place. Just talking and I don't know what happened but we ended up sleeping together.
The next day she had to leave to go visit her family. Which is a bit of a drive was her mother's birthday. She was gone for two days. We'll I saw her again the night before the date and she was acting all weird. Saying the other night scared her and such. She kept telling me she likes me alot but she isn't sure what to do now because she's afraid.
I told her okay. I'm cool with being friends if thats what it comes to. ( I still have to work with this girl.) The next day while she is at work my friend thinking I'm working goes there and asks about me and the began talkin about me. She tells me She wants something with me but wants to take it slow. Fast forward later that night she calls me. Says she wants me to meet her brother who came in from out of town to visit. So I'm like umm yeah I'll meet him. Which I do. He is staying the night at the hotel where we work. Well he leaves us to go shower and comes down later and says lets go out. Well we do. We chill at the martini bar until last call. Then decide to go to a hotel party I know about ( different hotel ).
Which just happens her best friend is at. I don't pay too much attention to her. Say something every now and then to her. Later that night at the party. A friend of mine whose a chick pulls me aside and says I know about you two. So I get this dumb look on my face. Asking her how? Apparently when I called my friend the girl I liked said Hey thats the guy my friend likes. We'll she chit chats with me for a few says just play it cool etc. don't seem too interested.
The next day I hear nothing from her. not a peep. So I just blow it off like whatever. Well the day after I get an email from her saying she went home with her brother and her cell is dead when she gets back she'll call. She does we bull**** on the phone for a few etc.
Yesterday when I wake up I have this just general email from her etc. Just the normal chit chat.
Finally Today I had to work the morning shift. Only had 3 hours sleep. She gets to work as I'm getting off and I say hi and leave thats it. I get home and have 3 emails from her. The first one was just general chit chat. 2nd was a Are you mad at me. 3rd was a please call me.
Eventualy I just say screw it and go to the hotel to visit her. I had also forgotten my cell. I chill with her for about 10 minutes and leave because a friend of mine is calling and wants me to come chill at her place. So I began to leave and she asks me twice not to leave. I do anyway. I visit this friend for a few hours and decide to go say hey for a few minutes. When I get there her roomate is there and we all began bull****ing. We're all talkin about her roomates bf and she brings up "Yeah he is different then most guys. I like the fact that he expresses how he feels etc.". Then the girl I like says something to the effect "yeah i know what you mean about most guys" turns and stares at me then says "I need a smoke break on that note"
We smoke and I tell her I'll see her tomorrow. ( we have a seminar for work we have to go )
Sorry for the lengthy post. I'm just so confused on this chick. I like her and all. She is cute as hell. And she is nice like an actually really nice girl. My problem is what the hell to do? About 80% I am generally a really social outgoing confident person. But sometimes around her I lose all of it.
I aplogize again for the lengthy post.
Any Advice would be appreciated.
I met this girl a little over 6 months ago. She had just got hired at were at work. I don't know but the first words out of my mouth her "Who the hell are you?" and "What are you doing here?".
I never really gave her much attention besides a hello etc. Well about a 1 1/2 months ago her longtime boyfriend of 4 years cheated on her. He told her while she was at work. She called me and asked if I could fill in for her. Told her No.
Soon afterwards work got pretty busy so we had to work together. At the time I was my usual charming confident self. We hit it off great. Started hanging out together. Two weeks later I asked her out told her I'd like to go to the zoo. She said yes but wants to take things slow. I was like okay.
Well three days before the date. We are hanging out at my place. Just talking and I don't know what happened but we ended up sleeping together.
The next day she had to leave to go visit her family. Which is a bit of a drive was her mother's birthday. She was gone for two days. We'll I saw her again the night before the date and she was acting all weird. Saying the other night scared her and such. She kept telling me she likes me alot but she isn't sure what to do now because she's afraid.
I told her okay. I'm cool with being friends if thats what it comes to. ( I still have to work with this girl.) The next day while she is at work my friend thinking I'm working goes there and asks about me and the began talkin about me. She tells me She wants something with me but wants to take it slow. Fast forward later that night she calls me. Says she wants me to meet her brother who came in from out of town to visit. So I'm like umm yeah I'll meet him. Which I do. He is staying the night at the hotel where we work. Well he leaves us to go shower and comes down later and says lets go out. Well we do. We chill at the martini bar until last call. Then decide to go to a hotel party I know about ( different hotel ).
Which just happens her best friend is at. I don't pay too much attention to her. Say something every now and then to her. Later that night at the party. A friend of mine whose a chick pulls me aside and says I know about you two. So I get this dumb look on my face. Asking her how? Apparently when I called my friend the girl I liked said Hey thats the guy my friend likes. We'll she chit chats with me for a few says just play it cool etc. don't seem too interested.
The next day I hear nothing from her. not a peep. So I just blow it off like whatever. Well the day after I get an email from her saying she went home with her brother and her cell is dead when she gets back she'll call. She does we bull**** on the phone for a few etc.
Yesterday when I wake up I have this just general email from her etc. Just the normal chit chat.
Finally Today I had to work the morning shift. Only had 3 hours sleep. She gets to work as I'm getting off and I say hi and leave thats it. I get home and have 3 emails from her. The first one was just general chit chat. 2nd was a Are you mad at me. 3rd was a please call me.
Eventualy I just say screw it and go to the hotel to visit her. I had also forgotten my cell. I chill with her for about 10 minutes and leave because a friend of mine is calling and wants me to come chill at her place. So I began to leave and she asks me twice not to leave. I do anyway. I visit this friend for a few hours and decide to go say hey for a few minutes. When I get there her roomate is there and we all began bull****ing. We're all talkin about her roomates bf and she brings up "Yeah he is different then most guys. I like the fact that he expresses how he feels etc.". Then the girl I like says something to the effect "yeah i know what you mean about most guys" turns and stares at me then says "I need a smoke break on that note"
We smoke and I tell her I'll see her tomorrow. ( we have a seminar for work we have to go )
Sorry for the lengthy post. I'm just so confused on this chick. I like her and all. She is cute as hell. And she is nice like an actually really nice girl. My problem is what the hell to do? About 80% I am generally a really social outgoing confident person. But sometimes around her I lose all of it.
I aplogize again for the lengthy post.
Any Advice would be appreciated.
