Need some advice

[Zebedee]

Yesterday I went out with a bunch of work colleagues and I got talking to a girl at work, body HB10 face HB6, we got talking and I went back to her place and fvcked all night. The problem is I think she wants a relationship whereas I know we are not compatible at all and I wanna keep it as a **** buddy situation. Normally this would not be a problem but we work together and see eachother everyday and everyone saw us leave together which will get the gossip mill going at work and believe me this is not a good thing. I really dont know what to do, ive got a feeling that this is gonna turn into a big thing, I really dont like the idea of my personal life being the talk of the office and what with us both looking for different things I can see this getting worse before it gets better.

 

[KontrollerX]

Don't sh!t where you eat.

You have been warned.

Should you decide to continue this which you probably will likely due to having no other options the best thing you can do is simply skirt around her whinings for a relationship and make sure you never promise her anything or agree to any of her relationship talk.

When she brings it up always have an excuse ready for why you have to leave her presence that moment or find some way to ignore her question and move on to talking about something else quickly.

Her: I like you but I feel best in a relationship to keep sleeping with a guy.

You: Thats sweet...anyway you coming to the company picnic this weekend?

Some sh!t like that transition it to.

Its still going to blow up in your face and be a load of needless drama but you could save your reputation with other chicks by reminding everyone whose interested that you never promised her anything or agreed to anything.

You saw it as purely getting your rocks off and made no committment to anything more.

You did not lead her on.

 

[Zebedee]

Thanks. Its pretty fvcked up because if she starts talking to me at work like we are a couple then I will be fvcked and if I ask her to downplay things at work then who knows what will happen, maybe she will be cool with it but more likely I can see it making things worse. Plus a lot of people where I work are liars, they spoke bad **** about me to her just because im confident, ****y and speak my mind at work some people have a problem with me.

 

[Desdinova]

I really dont know what to do,

Write it off as a one night thing and leave it at that. You're already learning why you shouldn't stick your dink in the company ink, now LEARN FROM IT.

Please don't tell me "well, it just kinda happened that way" because it's horse5hit. You have entire control over what you do. You can plan to never fvck another co-worker again and follow through with it. Tell her you're just not ready for any kind of relationship, and she WILL respect you for that decision. She may not like it, but she'll respect you for it.

You are in control of your life, not her.

However, if you continue to fvck her and 5hit goes sour between you, just remember that the only one you've got to blame is yourself because you decided to stick your dink in the company ink, and that ink is PERMANENT.

 

[mtlwlu]

let other posters stated, never ever get into a relationship at work, unless you know youre leaving or she is soon, its a bad idea, rumours start, and it leads to unnecessary high school drama stuff.

 

[scrouds]

You're pretty much already fuucked.

I say take her for a ride and enjoy it while it lasts. The sheiiT storm will happen sooner or later, so might as well live it up.

Then, find a new job.