imarockstar
Don Juan
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First off, just wanted to say how great this site is and the DJbible. Thought I was going crazy for a few months, but my game with women is so clutch nowadays. I'm so much more confident with meeting women and creating high interest. I'll make a massive journal soon about how I went from being terrified of not only women but also just being social, but I'm having a problem as of late and I need some feedback on how to get past this.
A little backround info. Lost my virginity to a girl at age 17. I was so comfortable with her, just had a very strong connection I guess. There were a couple girls before her that I tried to lose it to but I just felt so insecure. I couldn't get it up and later these couple girls broke up with me. It f'd me up in the head a little but when I finally lost it I really didn't care anymore. I was a sexual animal with this girl, I could make her c*m at least 4 times whenever we f*cked, but it was usually more.
I guess now it's been implemented into my brain that I need to be in love with a girl to make love to her. But that's not how I want to think. Let me get closer to the point. There's this girl I've been talking to for about a week. She's pretty hott. Her body is slammin. There's no reason I shouldn't want to f*ck. Well we got pretty drunk the other night, and I took her into the bedroom to get down. My d*ck was so hard, even when I put the condom on. But as soon as I got it in my mind started racing with insecurities.
30 seconds later I'm limp. WTF? I took the advice of Jamie Foxx and blamed it on the alcohol. She's still super into me and sent me a text earlier telling me how she was gonna put it on me.
I just dont get it. It's like my first couple sexual encounters are still haunting me. Even after having sex with a girl for 4 years and rocking her world just about everytime. Even after a one night stand. Even after a few girls telling me I have a nice d*ck. With all these instances that should build my sexual confidence, I still worry that I'll either c*m too quick or that the sex won't be good.
It's not about me caring that this recent girl will stop talking to me if I don't adequately please her. I'm honestly not really all that into her, but I do want to bang her. It's confusing to me how some of my friends can just f*ck any girl, pretty or ugly. But even when I have this hott chick craving my c*ck, it's like I talk myself out of f*ckin her.
But maybe I'm way off. Maybe it's the circumstances. I was pretty drunk. I hate condoms. I usually get head before I have sex, but I didn't the other night. Maybe some more foreplay is needed? I don't MB anymore either. It had been like 3 weeks the other night, so I think that might have made me nervous about c*mming quick.
This post sounds crazy even to me, but I guess I'm just putting it out there in case someone else has had this problem and how they overcame it. Or to the guys on here that have been with a lot of different girls, what goes through your head when your about to bang a new chick? I know this is a long a** post but I wanted to get out every detail possible...Thanks
A little backround info. Lost my virginity to a girl at age 17. I was so comfortable with her, just had a very strong connection I guess. There were a couple girls before her that I tried to lose it to but I just felt so insecure. I couldn't get it up and later these couple girls broke up with me. It f'd me up in the head a little but when I finally lost it I really didn't care anymore. I was a sexual animal with this girl, I could make her c*m at least 4 times whenever we f*cked, but it was usually more.
I guess now it's been implemented into my brain that I need to be in love with a girl to make love to her. But that's not how I want to think. Let me get closer to the point. There's this girl I've been talking to for about a week. She's pretty hott. Her body is slammin. There's no reason I shouldn't want to f*ck. Well we got pretty drunk the other night, and I took her into the bedroom to get down. My d*ck was so hard, even when I put the condom on. But as soon as I got it in my mind started racing with insecurities.
30 seconds later I'm limp. WTF? I took the advice of Jamie Foxx and blamed it on the alcohol. She's still super into me and sent me a text earlier telling me how she was gonna put it on me.
I just dont get it. It's like my first couple sexual encounters are still haunting me. Even after having sex with a girl for 4 years and rocking her world just about everytime. Even after a one night stand. Even after a few girls telling me I have a nice d*ck. With all these instances that should build my sexual confidence, I still worry that I'll either c*m too quick or that the sex won't be good.
It's not about me caring that this recent girl will stop talking to me if I don't adequately please her. I'm honestly not really all that into her, but I do want to bang her. It's confusing to me how some of my friends can just f*ck any girl, pretty or ugly. But even when I have this hott chick craving my c*ck, it's like I talk myself out of f*ckin her.
But maybe I'm way off. Maybe it's the circumstances. I was pretty drunk. I hate condoms. I usually get head before I have sex, but I didn't the other night. Maybe some more foreplay is needed? I don't MB anymore either. It had been like 3 weeks the other night, so I think that might have made me nervous about c*mming quick.
This post sounds crazy even to me, but I guess I'm just putting it out there in case someone else has had this problem and how they overcame it. Or to the guys on here that have been with a lot of different girls, what goes through your head when your about to bang a new chick? I know this is a long a** post but I wanted to get out every detail possible...Thanks