Befuddled
Don Juan
Hey people,
how you all been ? i seem to need some advice here.
I've mentioned this chick before, the one i hooked up with when i was totally wasted. She seemed 'into' me after that, and i wouldnt have minded pursuing it, until i found out that she hooked up with a friend of mine shortly after me, and then some random guy shed never seen before. The concensus after that point was... 'get the hell out of there', which i wanted to do as well. so i did, i moved on, dated a couple of others girls, butthe proximity of this girl makes it kinda annoying. Shes become good friends with my roommate(chick) so shes over more often than i like.
We had a few pictures up in the living room with other friends. And this girl ALWAYS starts with the kino and compliments...'your the cutest one in that picture" while locking arms with me or brushing my hair.. stuff liek that. She keeps looking for reassurance as well... which i dont really bother with. "oh ive gained weight", etc... i just stand there and change the subject or talk to other ppl.
Was going to the video store so she decided to come along.... didnt really care cause at that point it was pretty clear that nothing was going on just innocent flirting. So we're at blockbuster and shes all over me..... arms around me from behind...pinching me(playfully), standig so close to me with her arms around me and stuff. Bear in mind that i didnt respond to this stuff AT ALL, i mean NOTHING.just cause i knew what she was about. And this amount of kino was excessive in my opinion.
So anyway, we get back, pop the movies in, and once again , i sit in my favorite seat, even though she tries to get me to sit with her. After the first movie the people were getting ready to leave, and i wanted to watch a movie i had rented (a movie i liked as a kid). So i pop it into the player and shes comes back and says 'might as well watch this as well'. This time on the couch and she cuddles up with me...wrapping my arms her. i was a bit annoyed but didnt know how to pull away...so watched the movie that way. At the end, she starts tickling me n stuff like that, i try tickling her back...and we end up just sitting there for a like 5 minutes.
At this point....i was confused once again. It was a classic penis vs brain issue for me... do i invite her up to spend the night ? or do i walk away. I picked the latter cause i remember how she fvcked with my ehad before, and im not one for dramas. She told me to come over the next morning for breakfast... i said sure. The next morning she tried calling and knocking on the front door. i didnt want to wake up so i just slept in.
Went out with the boys the other night, and one of them who was there during the video store incident and didnt know we had hooked up before, brought it up, and tried to ask me if there was something going on between us, and that i could easily hook up with her if i wanted to. I didnt really respond, except chuckle a bit....he dosent know the girl too well either. To me, when people start noticing stuff like that...is when i start getting annoed, cause i dotn want other potential girls getting the wrong idea, or even friends getting the wrong idea that there's somethign going on between us. ( a couple of other people have brought it up as well...and asked me if shes my girlfriend, which she most certainly is not)
I guess i need some advice here.... i hate it when it comes down to penis vs brain. Am i handling this the right way ? cause my heads getting all confused again.... and its annoying. i try avoiding her when i can, and when shes around i just treat her as a friend and she comes onto me in this way...and i get all worked up about it. ANY input would be appreciated.
Cheers
how you all been ? i seem to need some advice here.
I've mentioned this chick before, the one i hooked up with when i was totally wasted. She seemed 'into' me after that, and i wouldnt have minded pursuing it, until i found out that she hooked up with a friend of mine shortly after me, and then some random guy shed never seen before. The concensus after that point was... 'get the hell out of there', which i wanted to do as well. so i did, i moved on, dated a couple of others girls, butthe proximity of this girl makes it kinda annoying. Shes become good friends with my roommate(chick) so shes over more often than i like.
We had a few pictures up in the living room with other friends. And this girl ALWAYS starts with the kino and compliments...'your the cutest one in that picture" while locking arms with me or brushing my hair.. stuff liek that. She keeps looking for reassurance as well... which i dont really bother with. "oh ive gained weight", etc... i just stand there and change the subject or talk to other ppl.
Was going to the video store so she decided to come along.... didnt really care cause at that point it was pretty clear that nothing was going on just innocent flirting. So we're at blockbuster and shes all over me..... arms around me from behind...pinching me(playfully), standig so close to me with her arms around me and stuff. Bear in mind that i didnt respond to this stuff AT ALL, i mean NOTHING.just cause i knew what she was about. And this amount of kino was excessive in my opinion.
So anyway, we get back, pop the movies in, and once again , i sit in my favorite seat, even though she tries to get me to sit with her. After the first movie the people were getting ready to leave, and i wanted to watch a movie i had rented (a movie i liked as a kid). So i pop it into the player and shes comes back and says 'might as well watch this as well'. This time on the couch and she cuddles up with me...wrapping my arms her. i was a bit annoyed but didnt know how to pull away...so watched the movie that way. At the end, she starts tickling me n stuff like that, i try tickling her back...and we end up just sitting there for a like 5 minutes.
At this point....i was confused once again. It was a classic penis vs brain issue for me... do i invite her up to spend the night ? or do i walk away. I picked the latter cause i remember how she fvcked with my ehad before, and im not one for dramas. She told me to come over the next morning for breakfast... i said sure. The next morning she tried calling and knocking on the front door. i didnt want to wake up so i just slept in.
Went out with the boys the other night, and one of them who was there during the video store incident and didnt know we had hooked up before, brought it up, and tried to ask me if there was something going on between us, and that i could easily hook up with her if i wanted to. I didnt really respond, except chuckle a bit....he dosent know the girl too well either. To me, when people start noticing stuff like that...is when i start getting annoed, cause i dotn want other potential girls getting the wrong idea, or even friends getting the wrong idea that there's somethign going on between us. ( a couple of other people have brought it up as well...and asked me if shes my girlfriend, which she most certainly is not)
I guess i need some advice here.... i hate it when it comes down to penis vs brain. Am i handling this the right way ? cause my heads getting all confused again.... and its annoying. i try avoiding her when i can, and when shes around i just treat her as a friend and she comes onto me in this way...and i get all worked up about it. ANY input would be appreciated.
Cheers
