Need Player Advice

[Sexual]

OK, last time I was in this situation, I wasn't given help in time. Now I'm off to a premptive strike.

I just hooked up with this labonese chick tonight, and not for the first time. I want to start chillin with her cause she's cool as shyt with amazing tits (hey, I just dated this girl with like nothin for months).

I'm hooked up with two dates with two blondes this week, one's a slender bleach blonde sorority girl and the other is a taller more athletic chick. Beautiful eyes. There also are a couple variable girls I'm not completely sure about.

Now, how do I do this. I've mastered not making them my girlfriend and still sleeping with them, but- what do I say when she asks to be exclusive cause she feels like a slut? How do I rid myself of gossip and the facebook nightmare while still staying on it to network (and work more girls)?

I've gotten great advice from The Realnezz and Player Supreme on this stuff a few times, so I'm going to try to keep them on a tight schedule. But I'm still not 100% sure on the attitude to bring because I've never been able to pull it off. My reputation is important to me. Thx.

 

[Sexual]

****, by the way I've got to tell the story of this pull. Credit all goes to my boy for giving me a nut check.

Alright, so we're at this get together and my buddy is literally telling me to get the fukc out of his face so I'll go up to these girls in the middle of the living room and start dancing w/ them. It took like 10 minutes and he didn't give up on me. That's love.

I did my thing, worked the grind and the hands in the right places, and got her thinking about it. Threw in a little 2v2 beerpong with some game.

Suddenly- she disappears! Says she's tired. I'm like, "alright bro, I'm going home." He's like, "what the fukc? she was all over you! go back in there." So I started to charge and he stopped me.... "Tell her this- ask her if she needs some help." I go into her room and it's dark, yet I still fukc it up, though by this time it really didn't matter what I said. "Need some company?" Yup. Bam.

At least 20 minutes of fourplay and 10 minutes of removing clothing =D

 

[Sexual]

Ehhh... did all the guys that know their shyt leave this symp board?

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I think its good to be honest with ur intentions with her that ur not looking for anything exclusive and just want to have casual sex. U might risk losing her, but atleast ur not a symp who will fear losing her and then be in a relationship u don't want to be in. In the game....gonna have to do that if u really want to be a good mack.

 

[Sexual]

I don't agree with this advice.

When a woman brings up the relationship thing, any response but an actual relationship is going to set her off in a bad way.

I've been trying to work this out for about 20 years now and I'll tell you this much: You're better off always having another one on the line, because there's no slick way to stick with a particular few indefinately when they all want relationships. Why? Because it eventually gets far too complicated for you to deal with and you're rarely the one to come out on top. Having one you're reeling in to replace another one that's leaving is much easier.

In the meantime, test them when they start talking relationship. I've never responded to these situations with a yes or no. You start to insinuate that you're testing them to see if they hold up to the moral high ground you think a wonderful relationship should be and what conditions should be present to make such a relationship wonderful (make this up as you go).

This is when you start talking about your "search for true chemistry" and "making sure you're with someone real" and all that horsesh*t. It's a moral angle that buys you time. They can't hate you for seeking out the real deal, and if you're lucky, it'll turn them off in just the right way that doesn't leave a reputation scar so long as you keep up the cool, charismatic pulls to counter the gossip.

If you're unlucky, they'll fall in total love with you.

This is exactly what I wanted to hear. Thanks, especially for the examples at the end. I'm going to copy this and leave it on my desktop until I plant this into my brain. Great stuff!

Once I get into my zone, I become a master at seduction. It's happened to me two or three times in my life so far, but right when I get to where I'm completely happy with three women, one starts to overpower me and I get into a HORRID relationship that shreds me apart, and I'm almost back to where I started. - I always have to keep going so that I can replace that weak link with someone better. That's my goal.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Forget about the grinding thing..to some it's just dancing to others it's intimacy..just forget about her..

Remember that you should let a girl think your exclusive without actually verbalizing total exclusivity..you're building her up but never giving her a payoff.

You're "close freinds"..then graduate to "we're going somewhere"..Do the "exclusive" boy-girl stuff from time and time and realize she will expect you to come when she calls...

Obviously don't talk about other chics,no-show,re-schedule,things like that will only anger her..

It's harder than it sounds as most women want to be in a relationship..

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I think its good to be honest with ur intentions with her that ur not looking for anything exclusive and just want to have casual sex. U might risk losing her, but atleast ur not a symp who will fear losing her and then be in a relationship u don't want to be in. In the game....gonna have to do that if u really want to be a good mack.

Depends on the chic.It's just better to say you wanna be freinds and take it from there..

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I don't agree with this advice.

When a woman brings up the relationship thing, any response but an actual relationship is going to set her off in a bad way.

I've been trying to work this out for about 20 years now and I'll tell you this much: You're better off always having another one on the line, because there's no slick way to stick with a particular few indefinately when they all want relationships. Why? Because it eventually gets far too complicated for you to deal with and you're rarely the one to come out on top. Having one you're reeling in to replace another one that's leaving is much easier.

In the meantime, test them when they start talking relationship. I've never responded to these situations with a yes or no. You start to insinuate that you're testing them to see if they hold up to the moral high ground you think a wonderful relationship should be and what conditions should be present to make such a relationship wonderful (make this up as you go).

This is when you start talking about your "search for true chemistry" and "making sure you're with someone real" and all that horsesh*t. It's a moral angle that buys you time. They can't hate you for seeking out the real deal, and if you're lucky, it'll turn them off in just the right way that doesn't leave a reputation scar so long as you keep up the cool, charismatic pulls to counter the gossip.

If you're unlucky, they'll fall in total love with you.

I disagree with this except for the 'having other women in line thing'.Yes...thats why u have more in line, so if one leaves...then u got the others. But i still think its better to just be honest with ur intention with her after a bit...and so what if she gets a bad reaction from u not wanting a relationship...doesn't mean she'll automatically leave.

 

[Skel]

Never answer a question like this directly. For some that may mean answering a question with a question or changing subjects. It's an aquired thing that you get better with practice. It's like when a girl asks you how many girls you have had sex with. Normally you dont tell the truth