Need help with what to wear

[rushing dude 123]

I wear all this nikey stuff and i am 18. I am aiming to approach girls 17-40, but i think my clothes make me not very approachable and young, i think at night when i apprach people they think i am going to mug them lol. Guys what do u think or is it just in my head? if not can u giv any advice on some new threads, but don't want to spend loads on it.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I can only speak generally, because the details will depend on your personal style, but:

Layers. Wear jackets and undershirts and stuff like that. Just a t-shirt and jeans is a pretty simple and young look. It'll make you look like your still in high school.

Accessories. I'm not talking to the extent that girls go with this, but a few extra things can help your look. A hat, a loose tie or scarf, a necklace, a watch. Those kinds of things. I'm ashamed to say it, but even goggles a la Mystery can be good.

Shoes. You gotta have nice shoes. Its a given.

 

[Docs]

I normally wear a black tshirt and jeans...sometimes I wear the ones that are aged a couple years and look older, or I'll wear my fancier jeans. I was walking around the mall today, and damn..the glances I get. (I look just a little ripped..I guess)

But not one thing I wear is more then $25.

 

[Magma]

Please don't tell me you wear baggy jeans and Nike basketball shoes. Please. Just get some clothes that fit. You say you want to meet some older women? I don't know any 35 year old women (aside from trailer trash) that talk to guys who make the baggy jeans/Nike shoes fashion choice. You wanna be a DJ? Dress like it. Pride yourself on your appearance. You don't have to spend a lot of money. You just need to quit spending your money on crappy clothing. Sorry if this sounds harsh. That is not my intended tone. And again, I'm not going to tell you what to buy or where to buy it. You can look good and not spend a lot of money. Peace.

 

[rushing dude 123]

u guys got any stores that sell that sort of stuff i can go 2?

 

[Magma]

I just look for sales all the time. Accessories are pretty cheap and add a lot to your ensemble. You can also get some pretty cheap rings, but wear one on your thumb or pinky. You just need to keep your eye out for sales if money is a concern (which it is for me too). A nice belt, maybe a unique belt buckle. Tuck in your shirt so the buckle is exposed. It draws their eyes to your junk. If I were to spend money on one item, I would buy a nice watch. My two cents...

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Be color coordinated. Example; I got a black/white/gold San Fransisco hat. So, I'll wear a black shirt with somthing gold on it; blue jeans and black boots. Or if I wear my white hat I'll wear a white t-shirt with it. Girls like guys who wear clothes that match.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Alright i am good now to start buying some new clothes seeing i came back from my cruise. I might first try some stores not necessairly design brands, but jus look for my style and then i am going to go charity shop and see if they got anythink similar there. I worked there once and i saw jackets that were worth £300 sold for £50 and in very good condition.

Also i might just ask some chicks advice on what cloths i cud get it might act has a good opener.

 

[Royal Ace]

here in portugal if you wear yourself all nikes means you prolly are scum. it's really the way that most rascals wore themselves and now it's really as the "thug" gear. unless you're doing sports the nike look ain't gonna help. plus you can always get better looking clothes for less. nike ain't that cheap

 

[Axcell]

Just wear nice clothes. Instead of purchasing a wide variety of "crappy" clothing, purchase a few nice ones that are well color-coordinated with each other. You can save your other clothes for when you are with the boys!

 

[B4IFURU18?]

-The Gap has some cool threads. Same with Urban Outfitters. Check those places out.

-I think you need to narrow your range of women down to 17-20...Women over 21 will rarely mess with someone under 21. Sorry bro.

-But please, god please don't conform to Mystery, no one can pull off a top hat except Abe Lincoln. Goggles, um no, you look very weird.

-A good example of nice style is Vince, Eric, or Ari's. Don't dress like Turtle, it's awful.

-Whoever said to tuck your shirt into your pants to show off your belt buckle, lol no. Don't do this, you don't see anyone in GQ or Vogue doing this, chances are because it's a huge fashion no no. Pick up a copy of GQ, that should get the ball rolling.

 

[rushing dude 123]

here in portugal if you wear yourself all nikes means you prolly are scum.QUOTE]


yeh think its the same here man lol, but yeh ur right nike is pretty expensive, i will go and have a look round in some of the place u guys sugessted among a few of my own.

 

[rushing dude 123]

-I think you need to narrow your range of women down to 17-20...Women over 21 will rarely mess with someone under 21. Sorry bro.
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i know its hard man, but its possible and with enough experience i will succeed. if i make my range 17-21 i think i wud not have much a wide pool to choose from and by going for all women even if i fail i will b gaining experience so its all good and thank for the tips on cloths i will try gap and have a look round.

 

[rushing dude 123]

wow can't quote properlly don't get the kool box round it.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

LOL, stop kidding yourself man...

Dude, you're 18 ****ing years old. Do you know how many 17-20 year old there are in London? A **** ton.

Hate to break it to you, but you're not bagging many girls over 21...unless you find that really horny drunk cougar who just broke up with her husband...

 

[B4IFURU18?]

lmao, im 18, I could prolly get your mom first date

And show her how to start a website!

 

[B4IFURU18?]

Yep. I'll charge her for that too

PM me for her number and favorite kind of flowers.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

I'm just shedding some reality on him so when he goes out and approaches the umpteenth 35 year old HB10, he's not shocked when she laughs at him for being 17 years younger, has no money, lives with mom and dad, and can't even buy a beer.

But by all means, go get em Tiger!

 

[rushing dude 123]

well man u will never know till u try. I believe anythink is possible if u put ur mind to it, but on this argument i guess i am going to get back to u on it till i have some results because actions speack louder than words.

 

[MooseGod]

-But please, god please don't conform to Mystery, no one can pull off a top hat except Abe Lincoln.

Uh, what about Slash from GnR? :rockon: