Need help... shy girls......

[cyp6]

ok... i went out with this shy girl right... she totally digs me... but act way too shy around me... how do i get her out of her shell?details..
ok here are some of the details:

shes a jr. in my school, very cute but isnt very populer... she just moved here from colorado.. her parents are really strict i guess cause i was her first real date...

Im a seninor at my school.. i would say ima prity much a populer guy... me and her never talk in at school... only online.. but she always massages me... so i know there is high intrest..

situation; I asked her out like 2 weeks ago she said it would have to be a group thing.. I said ok.. and blew it off.. then i asked agin last week... then she got permission with her parents so we can go out... tonight we whent out... when i showed up at the house we had one those classic tv momement when the dad comes and intimates you... (played it cool)... gave mom a hug.. we when to to the movies... dint talk much in the car.. not much at the movies.. i left in the middel of the movie to buy some pop corn she dint want any... ride back not much convo.. droped her off she said she had fun... i got no read on this girl..

 

[EquityPrivate]

Originally posted by cyp6
ok... i went out with this shy girl right... she totally digs me... but act way too shy around me... how do i get her out of her shell?

Happy to help but I'm going to need more details here.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Is she speaking quickly around you or blushing? She might be intimidated by your presence.

As the man said, we need more details.

 

[cyp6]

details..

ok here are some of the details:

shes a jr. in my school, very cute but isnt very populer... she just moved here from colorado.. her parents are really strict i guess cause i was her first real date...

Im a seninor at my school.. i would say ima prity much a populer guy... me and her never talk in at school... only online.. but she always massages me... so i know there is high intrest..

situation; I asked her out like 2 weeks ago she said it would have to be a group thing.. I said ok.. and blew it off.. then i asked agin last week... then she got permission with her parents so we can go out... tonight we whent out... when i showed up at the house we had one those classic tv momement when the dad comes and intimates you... (played it cool)... gave mom a hug.. we when to to the movies... dint talk much in the car.. not much at the movies.. i left in the middel of the movie to buy some pop corn she dint want any... ride back not much convo.. droped her off she said she had fun... i got no read on this girl..

 

[Boner da Stoner]

haha same question from me too!!!

equity tink bout it!

she's shy... think shy guy, but with a girls body.

What's the solution, I can elaborate but I'd be playing on a ton of angles....

let's just say, she's got the eyes, she reciprocates, shes smart, but she doesn't flirt, she doesn;t get excited, and worst of all she's got horrible body language.... like she is a limp dog waiting to be beaten cause she just ate the roast beef offa da dinner table.

basic yeah, but work with me, I liked your response to Jcrew.

Don't be slaving try and give me an indepth response to the entire subject, don't subjectify as per comment, I don't want to play you, I want to learn.

If you continue to respond to peoples posts while agreeing with their viewpoint you fail to see the entire picture, and thus fail to solve their problem, you are only entering their dilemna and telling them what is wrong.

please answer carefully, I want to throw my game to a new level with your response!!!

 

[Boner da Stoner]

YIKES I posted a little late, lol, damn was my interpretation of shy and yours wayyyyyy off cypress.

Culture clash here for real!!! Redefine shy dude, your not askin that question!!

"massages" you... nice:crackup:

the dad "intimates" you:crackup:

Did your mom teach you about catching Situationally Transmitted Discussions too, like getting sniffylis or diarrhea?

Your engrish is good, but could get better, work on that.

 

[SynapsyS]

situation; I asked her out like 2 weeks ago she said it would have to be a group thing.. I said ok.. and blew it off.. then i asked agin last week... then she got permission with her parents so we can go out... tonight we whent out... when i showed up at the house we had one those classic tv momement when the dad comes and intimates you... (played it cool)... gave mom a hug.. we when to to the movies... dint talk much in the car.. not much at the movies.. i left in the middel of the movie to buy some pop corn she dint want any... ride back not much convo.. droped her off she said she had fun... i got no read on this girl..

Do you think it might be you? You didn't make any noticable effort to engage her in some unusually vibrant conversation

Syn.

 

[EquityPrivate]

You are the guy here.

And you are a Man of Action(tm).

Men of Action(tm) lead their dates through a whirlwind adventure not even giving them a minute to think they are bored or uninterested.

Men of Action(tm) are daring badboys who artfully tease and tempt the current object of their attention and who make decisions without consulting any of their three lifelines.

In short, shy girls are just waiting to be led through your world. If she isn't talking much give her the old:

"Well, I believe we should head to the beach and walk down the shore for awhile."

(Note, this is not a question).

If she says nothing, head to the beach, give her a big wet kiss by the waves.

If she says something, well at least you got her talking.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

please elaborate, when I want this girl to participate and increase the excitement what can I do?

I routinely want to wing for my men, and sometimes I am stuck with a sourcat. She's nice and all, she reciprocates the kino, she enjoys the jokes, but she's tight lipped, goof bj's all in all, but tightlipped in the conversation department. She's totally frigid, cold shoulders but I think a cat's got her tongue. I can get shy girls laughing from here til next sunday without her saying one word back, just laughs punches pokes and kisses.

How do I get the girl to SPEAK!!!!

?

 

[EquityPrivate]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
please elaborate, when I want this girl to participate and increase the excitement what can I do?

I routinely want to wing for my men, and sometimes I am stuck with a sourcat. She's nice and all, she reciprocates the kino, she enjoys the jokes, but she's tight lipped, goof bj's all in all, but tightlipped in the conversation department. She's totally frigid, cold shoulders but I think a cat's got her tongue. I can get shy girls laughing from here til next sunday without her saying one word back, just laughs punches pokes and kisses.

How do I get the girl to SPEAK!!!!

?

Are you crazy? You found the perfect woman. Don't fvck it up!

 

[Boner da Stoner]

lol, she's boring

how do I make her fun?