YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
So I met this girl from plentyoffish a month n half ago. Talk on the phone for a week, then saw her a week later. On the phone we was talking for a couple of hours basically everyday. I asked her out on the phone to be my girl n she said to take it slow 1st. I see her that next week n we have sex in the hotel. That weekend again I asked her n she said not right now.
I see her another time. We live 2 and a half hours from each other . She travels to see me this time. She comes to my crib cuz I got my own place. We do it again twice.
Long story short, we always talk on the phone like 4hours a day, always textin. We talk about the future like kids n stuff. She has problems at home tho. I feel like she might be the one.. She says that we are just talking. Not in a serious relationship but we can't get wit no1 else or cheat. I told her 2weeks ago thru text that I love her.. Yea I made that mistake by saying that cuz I thought she was gonna leave cuz of her situation.. She said she was happy that I feel that way but she doesn't feel the same way yet.
the other day 2 days ago. I asked her is she my girl now. She said no. That we are still talking. That she wants to get to know me a lot more b4 we make that big step. I also messed up a few weeks ago by saying we should move in together.. Yea she said no cuz it was too soon. I kno I messed up big time..
Thing is she still is showing interest but today we was textin. She said if I don't like how she wants to take things slow then I don't have to talk to her then. She said that im scaring her by wantin to commit to a serious relationship, talkin about wanting kids now, moving in. That im rushing things n she is only 21. She said that she wants to live life n likes it when she is single n doesn't have to worry bout no man being jealous n askin her where she is going to a club etc.
I told her that I will calm down n that I want her n myself to b happy together.
What I want to know is how do I fix this situation. Yea I want her to b my girl but wat im doin now aint working. When I try to stop talking to her less on the phone n not respondin to her text messages. She says that im changin n doesn't like it. So wat should I do...
I see her another time. We live 2 and a half hours from each other . She travels to see me this time. She comes to my crib cuz I got my own place. We do it again twice.
Long story short, we always talk on the phone like 4hours a day, always textin. We talk about the future like kids n stuff. She has problems at home tho. I feel like she might be the one.. She says that we are just talking. Not in a serious relationship but we can't get wit no1 else or cheat. I told her 2weeks ago thru text that I love her.. Yea I made that mistake by saying that cuz I thought she was gonna leave cuz of her situation.. She said she was happy that I feel that way but she doesn't feel the same way yet.
the other day 2 days ago. I asked her is she my girl now. She said no. That we are still talking. That she wants to get to know me a lot more b4 we make that big step. I also messed up a few weeks ago by saying we should move in together.. Yea she said no cuz it was too soon. I kno I messed up big time..
Thing is she still is showing interest but today we was textin. She said if I don't like how she wants to take things slow then I don't have to talk to her then. She said that im scaring her by wantin to commit to a serious relationship, talkin about wanting kids now, moving in. That im rushing things n she is only 21. She said that she wants to live life n likes it when she is single n doesn't have to worry bout no man being jealous n askin her where she is going to a club etc.
I told her that I will calm down n that I want her n myself to b happy together.
What I want to know is how do I fix this situation. Yea I want her to b my girl but wat im doin now aint working. When I try to stop talking to her less on the phone n not respondin to her text messages. She says that im changin n doesn't like it. So wat should I do...