need help!!! pregnant girl leaving me!!!

[ShortTimer]

Originally posted by Survivor
Man I know you mean well, but from what I've read in your response, two words kept ringing in my head....

Paternity test.

I've been thinking the same thing. Chicks have a way of "trying to do what's best for the babay" and if they think "what's best for the baby" is suckering some better dad/provider into thinking the kid is his than the deadbeat that really knocked her up then she will.

Take it from people who've seen it first hand: this WILL destroy your life in ways you can't imagine right now. First establish if the child is yours, then see if she'll have an abortion. Having a child with a girl who you don't get a long with is a disservice to you and the child.

Originally posted by princelydeeds
Child support laws are really stupid. They go against all logic. What belongs to the mother belongs to the child. What belongs to the father doesn't belong to his child unless he first gives it to the mother?!? Thats just plain silly. Men should support their child in the same way the mother supports the child. Men should be allowed to give and not give to their children. Men should get equal time and equal custody.

In our feminist society that won't happen. All hail the Matriarchy.

 

[dietzcoi]

You gotta see the BABAY, Jerry.....

Man, you are right. The chumps have it all wrong... this moronic marriage and the family crap has ruined many a man.. it is all garbage, it is putting a race horse on plough duty...

Horrible, and I have lived it.

BUT NO MORE!

Dietzcoi

 

[pancakepalace]

Well thanks for your help.

She is leaving tommorow and we are now in NC land. I plan on sticking to my guns. I feel she acted totally immaturaly and mean by not even wanting to talk about things (especially in our situation). I am feeling better now. I'll wait it out for a couple of months and we will see what comes of it. In the meantime I am getting ready to be a father. I will have the test done when the child is born and figure something out to see him most I can if he is mine. It might be complicated because she is moving to another city.

Thanks guys and girls.

 

[pancakepalace]

Another thing,

Let's say she responds better in the next months.

1 - Should I come back on what happened and try to get an explanation or just let it slip?

2 - What would be the best way to act with her. The most respectable way for me and her. I might want her back if she's sorry and calms down a bit, but I am my self respect. any tips?

Thangs again

 

[Derek Flint]

Let this be a lesson to you younger cats out there - sex comes with consequences and responsibilities including huge financial ones.

Use protection regardless of what she says unless you are willing and prepared to be paying out a huge chunk of money for the next 18 years.

And the laws really do screw the Father so be prepared to deal with that as well.

And I think there's a lot more to this than she's telling you.

 

[icecreaman]

Originally posted by dietzcoi
You gotta see the BABAY, Jerry.....

Man, you are right. The chumps have it all wrong... this moronic marriage and the family crap has ruined many a man.. it is all garbage, it is putting a race horse on plough duty...

Horrible, and I have lived it.

BUT NO MORE!

Dietzcoi

LOL!!!! You must have had it bad dogg.