Need help i have a hot roomate =D

[Pathgen]

I just wanted to say that i had an account here a couple months back and you guys helped me out a lot, but i forgot the username so i made this one.

Anyhow i moved out to college and the dorms were full so i got off-campus housing. Im renting a room in a house and im on the third floor. There is this really hot girl on the second floor and im trying to consider if its worth it to get involved with her cause i could see it being really ****ed up if it goes sour because we live together...

Also, im having trouble isolating her cuase we are 7 roomates and its so easy to just dive into your room. She also lives with her not-so attractive friend. Oh **** i forgot to mention she is older than me too, seeing as im a freshman. Hey but i think i still have a shot its college right?

So any advice or ideas on getting her out of her room? i was thinking about cooking something that smells good, but i dont really cook so i would have to cook and learn at the same time.

Thanks

 

[sprint]

don't be retarded. Just stay away from her. You can use her to get her friends but trying to hook up with her is probably the stupidest thing I've ever heard. DO NOT go out with girls you live with or girls you work with. More times than not it will just make things extremely uncomfortable.

 

[MacAvoy]

Don't do it. The last guy that posted a thread about chasing a roommate, ended up making 15 threads about her. Its nothing but drama and headaches. The user was 1984, click this link to see the 15 threads, start at the bottom, This is probably a very bad idea.

You will see that I posted many times to help him out. How was I so knowledgable you ask? I myself went through the same thing and I also made 3-5 threads about the dreaded roommate.

Moral of the story, don't do it. Your in college, you could be better spending your energy nailing 20 other hot women. She's not the only hot women on campus. Don't sh1t where you eat.

Don't say I didn't warn you.

 

[Pathgen]

Allright. I decided not to pursue her, but damn she is hot. I guess if things fall into place later i might go for it. Otherwise, i will stay clear or use her to get to her friends like Sprint suggested

 

[daygameguy]

Allright. I decided not to pursue her, but damn she is hot. I guess if things fall into place later i might go for it. Otherwise, i will stay clear or use her to get to her friends like Sprint suggested

I would befriend her, and use her all the time as social value. Who knows, maybe when she sees you with other girls, it might create jealousy plots and she might start chasing you.

 

[Sandow]

I say go for it but don't stress out if you don't her. Let it be all fun and games. Oh yea and get her drunk when u guys hangout, lol

 

[Columbia]

Don't do it. I dated one of my housemates last year, but she turned out to be a pathological liar, as well as just basically insane. I broke up with her after she broke into my room and read my emails, and then set up at least 2 fake myspace profiles to spy on me.

I'm stuck with her again this year, as I didn't want to leave the house (it's perfect, and I'm not going to let some ***** have me running around town looking for a other crappy student place to live) and it's basically going to be horrible. She's already decided that I cheated on her and turned the whole house against me with her lies.

I don't personally give a **** what they think, since combined they have roughly the same mental capacity as half of Paris Hilton, but what I'm saying is that you don't even have to do anything wrong for this to turn into one hell of a ****ty situation. I LIVED with this girl for 3 months before anything happened, and to all intents and purposes she seemed perfectly nice and normal.

 

[apusislaya]

NO NO NO... Do not stay away from her..

Make friends with her. Be her friend. No kissing. Be her brother, be totally cool, gay, and friend, lol. That relationship will bring you more women through her. She'll introduce you to some of her girl friends, and you will be seen in the dorm as a dude who is cool with women, not a threat.

 

[Igetit!]

NO NO NO... Do not stay away from her..

Make friends with her. Be her friend. No kissing. Be her brother, be totally cool, gay, and friend, lol. That relationship will bring you more women through her. She'll introduce you to some of her girl friends, and you will be seen in the dorm as a dude who is cool with women, not a threat.

I hope that this was a joke. Be gay? How does being gay supposed to cause her to bring him more women/dates?

 

[Pathgen]

Columbia thanks for your advice man. However, im going to see how things play out. Im thinking that the stuff you mentioned could have happened with any girl out there. There are some pretty messed up people out there...

It does suck that it happened to you the way that it does and i feel for you. If she is as messed up as you say she is im guessing your roomates will figure it out sooner later.

Haha i get what being gay around her meant. I just hope im up to the task she is pretty hot i might slip out of gay mode...

 

[Igetit!]

So you're going to try to win this girl over by pretending to be gay. I also got what he meant by it,it's just that I think it is a stupid move. You'd be better off listening to what Daygame Guy said about jealousy plot lines.

 

[Pathgen]

No acting gay isnt to win her over. Its to get to her girl friends. this is my game plan as of right now. Im going to continue talking to her like i would anyone and gauge her interest in me. Depending on that i will either befriend her to get in her friends pants or pull some moves and get in hers. Either way i win =D.

Im not gay and i dont think he meant start really start acting gay. He meant don't go after her and just be a guy who isn't interested in her at all for sex. Like someone who wasn't interested or a gay person if you will. At least thats what i got out of it...

 

[Igetit!]

Oh,ok. You had me worried there for a while.

 

[Columbia]

Columbia thanks for your advice man. However, im going to see how things play out. Im thinking that the stuff you mentioned could have happened with any girl out there. There are some pretty messed up people out there...

It does suck that it happened to you the way that it does and i feel for you. If she is as messed up as you say she is im guessing your roomates will figure it out sooner later.

Oh yeah, this could absolutely happen with any girl out there. That's basically the point I was making - there's always that risk, and why take the risk on someone you're going to have to be near if it doesn't pay off? Better to pick someone that can be made distant quite easily.

However, if you're determined to go for this one, then I wish you luck with it

I'm not really too bothered about how my situation played out, I found the rest of the people in the house (all girls) extremely irritating anyway. Now I can go and cook dinner without all of them instantly piling into the kitchen to talk to me

 

[Alle_Gory]

Suppose things don't work out. You're stuck with her... in the same space.

Better use her and make new friends through her. If she's attractive, chances are that her friends are too.

 

[apusislaya]

Dude, be like her brother, and let her know you view her as your sister. In other words be the coolest guy friend she ever had.


It's true, she has some hot girl friends. You'll get to meet them.

 

[Pathgen]

Hey we will see how this plays out... ill post whatever happens. thanks guys for all your advice.

 

[Pathgen]

ok so i said i would post an update here it is:

yesterday when i was making dinner she came out and started to talk to me. I ended up treating her like a guy and just talking to her. I had No interest in attracting her.

The problem is she is attracted to me. She isnt obvious, but she smiles, plays with her hair, and is kinoing me left and right.

Its getting hard for me not to try and tap that. I really want too and i have all the green lights.

So my question is how do you turn down a girls interest level and just become friends. I mean i get that being an AFC will end the interest, but declaring my love to her and writing her poetry will just freak her out so i cant overdue it... Anyone know the fine line?

 

[GaryUranga]

Dont **** where you eat

 

[Pathgen]

Dont **** where you eat

Very productive.... im trying to befriend her but thats not what she wants apparently. That or im giving off sex vibes or something cause she is in to me. What can i do to get her into the friend zone. I know its a weird question, but its what im trying to do