Need help here!

[chese12]

I'm in college and i really don't know what to make of this situation.

I've been in college for almost a 3 months and met this one girl during my first month here. First we did start as friends and i only had small feelings for her. But over the last 2-3 weeks this has been rapidly changing in a good way.

First it started with hold hands for more than an hour or so then it went to me holding her by the waist for another 20 minutes or so. We have been having random tickle and it always ends with cuddling. We have slept in the same bed together and we cuddle and hold each other throughout the night.

Seems that i have really good chance of pulling her in and recently i find out that see has a boyfriend that live 8 hours away. What am i supposed to do in this situation?

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

Sounds to me like she totally digs you, but you are moving way too slow.

You are taking too long to seal the deal, if you know what I mean.... and you had better do it fast or else she is going to be with someone else and you will be left standing there with your d^ck in your hand.

What to do - next time you are "cuddling", and have good rapport.....push her away. Look at her and tell her..."I don't know about this, I don't think my mother would approve....." with a smirk. Maybe even leave the room, and again with a smirk on your face, tell her..."See ya later, I have an 8 o'clock...."

This totally turns them on.... 2 steps forward one step back...if you are familiar.

Do this, and make sure you have some condoms.

Don't mention the boyfriend. 8 hrs away is non existent.

 

[The Piano Master]

Screw the boyfriend - better yet, screw the girlfriend, bro!!! LOL.

 

[chese12]

Thats what im thinking of doing. so the sooner the better right?

 

[chese12]

today she actually said she was committed. should i still escalate?