Need help, have I messed up?

[SoulMan13]

There's this HB8 I've been gaming. When I asked her when she's next free she said "I'm not sure yet" which I took as a flake, however, the next day I kino'd her hard on the way home and she was receptive (didn't move away or anything).

When it came time for us to part ways she lingered around a bit when normally she just goes on her way. I realise now she was probably waiting for a hug/kiss. However, I was cold, tired and just wanted to go home so I wasn't really thinking straight. I just said bye and stroked her arm and went on my way.

After that, when I see her at college she will smile at me, still make eye contact etc but she hasn't texted me since or tried to make conversation in person. She's also started favoriting this other boys tweets on twitter quite often which may seem like nothing but she never does this to any other boy. She also skipped class today which she never does and I'm pretty sure she probably went to meet him.

Have I messed up? What can I do to salvage this situation?

 

[SoulMan13]

Back off completely.

I had a girl that I didnt give a big kiss too because my breath was bad so half-assed it and a hug go ICE cold on me. (I had already had a few BJs from her but we were just dating at that point even though she wanted to be exclusive.)

What did I do? Invited her to the Barristers Ball. needless to say it was a horrible night(her doing). She ended up blocking me from facebook for no real reason.

Ultimately though, if she wasnt spinning plates the way she is these little things would not be a problem. My girl also was messing around with another guy on Facebook too, I later found out. Its hard to keep a sense of perspective but its more about them than you, ultimately.

So do you think she's interested in this guy and there's definitely no way to salvage the situation (basically she's gone completely off me)?

I've been gaming other girls and I'm sure they'd be interested in dating so there's no problem with dropping her if there's definitely no chance, however, if there is a chance I'd like to go for it. (We were high school sweethearts a few years ago lol)

 

[mustfirstregister]

LOL is this a ****kn joke?

I will ask her out on a date and not walk her home. Date must have good logistics.
On date u build sexual & romantic connection.

Isolate, d1ck in p0ssy. done

 

[SemperDJ]

LOL is this a ****kn joke?

I will ask her out on a date and not walk her home. Date must have good logistics.
On date u build sexual & romantic connection.

Isolate, d1ck in p0ssy. done

D1ck in p0ssy".. Sold it right there

 

[SoulMan13]

LOL is this a ****kn joke?

I will ask her out on a date and not walk her home. Date must have good logistics.
On date u build sexual & romantic connection.

Isolate, d1ck in p0ssy. done

No, this is not a joke. As I explained if the first post she's real flakey. I don't exactly 'walk her home' we live about four doors down from each other and it's a 10 minute walk max and that's if you walk real slow. Also, she's the one that comes up to me and starts walking with me not the other way around. What am I supposed to say, "Go away, don't walk with me"? LOL.

And yeah, I was in a LTR for a while and when I came out of that I hadn't gamed girls for a while. I realised reading through chats and thinking etc that my game has gone really AFC which is why she probably lost interest lol. I'm just going to assume a sexual frame and go back to being how I use to be next time I see her. Do you think that could work?

 

[mustfirstregister]

No, this is not a joke. As I explained if the first post she's real flakey. I don't exactly 'walk her home' we live about four doors down from each other and it's a 10 minute walk max and that's if you walk real slow. Also, she's the one that comes up to me and starts walking with me not the other way around. What am I supposed to say, "Go away, don't walk with me"? LOL.

And yeah, I was in a LTR for a while and when I came out of that I hadn't gamed girls for a while. I realised reading through chats and thinking etc that my game has gone really AFC which is why she probably lost interest lol. I'm just going to assume a sexual frame and go back to being how I use to be next time I see her. Do you think that could work?

Assuming is different from taking action. More action and less talking. Go now and destroy that possy soldier. She will thank you.

 

[Desdinova]

Chicks flake when they're unsure about you. You need to show her some real value if you want her to commit to a solid date plan.

The girl I'm currently fvcking was the same way. I had her avoid committing to two dates I asked her out on. So I made myself single and unavailable, and then flirted like hell with her. The entire exchange is here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209720

Now, she texts like crazy and gets incredibly excited when a date is approaching.