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a-rookie

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is it Ok to date girl and her roomate?

there's girl 1, cute etc. went out with her 2twice , 1 st time she was cool. didn't call
her for 2 wks , i saw her 2nd time but I felt she was like uncomfortable around the C& F , I did tease her because she'd changed her hair style, way she'd dress and was acting a bit like a *****,
"I told her she should pay me for walking her" well I got Laid ,then she was like whatever at the end of this date 2. at the end she'd told me to call her to hang again. this was 2 weeks ago.
I called her last week on friday 19th to see her and she said yes,
I waited and she didn't show up. I called up again ( I don't know if this was right) at first she didn't pick up then she said that she can't see me cuz somethin came up and that she'll call me back in ten minutes to let me know if she was coming over. She never called back.

I called her today, since last friday. and she wouldn't pick up. i didn't leave a message, i don't like leaving messages to girls , it sound too needy.

I know she lives with a roomate, close friend (girl 2) whom girl 1 mention alot but i didn't know her. I called her instead to chill, she suprised me and said yes.I worked on her, C&F, never gave her a direct answer, at the end of our short date she tried to kiss me and I back off a little and teased her a bit which made her want to kiss me even more badly. and wanted to see me again like tomorrow and i told her i was busy but that I'll call her.
OK now
The thing is that during our short date , there were little things that girl 2 would pop out of her mouth kind of made me feel uncomfortable:
since the one I like is Girl 1.
Girl 2 said Girl 1 mentioned that I was totally into Girl 1, I put on a face with a grind like "whatever" and told her not to talk about her "Bratty" friend.
Girl 2 said that alot of people say that Girl 1 is *****y, I told her she is just a Brat that needs to be spanked. and she and i just laughed.

Also I noticed that she was talking to girl 1 on the phone right before
I approached her.
i like girl 2 , she's was ok, but Girl 1 is hot and was more of a lover when i banged her.

I don't know what would you guys suggest in this case since girl 1 never called me back, Girl 2 left very impressed and my C&F and Push pull worked on her.
I still like Girl 1, I know girl 2 is going to talk to her about me.

Any suggestions on game:wave:
 
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IamtheAlphamale

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Its risky going after roommates. You gotta start watching whats going on with girl 1. Ok a lot of guys on here will be like its because she has low IL. This IS a possibility but I find it is a lot more common that they are just doing the cosmo hard to get **** on you. So you start paying attention. The reason I think she may be playing hard to get is because first of all shes not being super nice to you, she ****ed you, she asked you to call her again, she accepted your plans. Notice though that you took a while to call her again which could have made her nervous which is why she cancelled. I think thats the most likely senario but its also possible that shes stepping aside for her roomy. Oh you said close friends. MY BAD. :) Yo man seriously the hard to get thing is VERY common with women. I've gotten girls to get rid of it though.. IF you choose to do this its very risky. If you want the long ass story of how I've done it private message me.
 
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Hors do NOT need to be chased - they only need to be found!!!!!

Stop it!!!
 

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I 'd like your input to see where I went wrong dude.

I don't know if this is double edge sword since her roomy is OK but I am more interested in girl 1.
I guess i used roomy to see if how girl 1 reacts, if she does ?

roomy knew and heard about me and went into saying
" my friend said you like her alot",
I totally defelected to talk about her not to sound needy.

Has anyone ever dealt with this situation on the roomys ? or is this a quicksand?

someone slap me to wake up from this p***y trance
 
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The first girl just isn't very interested in you by the sound of it. It sounds like you either did or said something on the second date that really bothered her and turned her off. Going out with her roommate likely ruined your chances with the first girl. If she was left with negative feelings about you after the second date, going out with her roommate would only add to that. If her roommate likes you she probably won't go out with you again if they are friends...especially if the second girl likes you.

Watch you C&F and make sure that you aren't just being mean and not funny.
 

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The roomies are strippers in new jersey according to my friend .

2nd roomie called me up to see me again I called her back next day Sunday and asked her about her friend that
"I haven't heard for awhile."
The only thing she'd say is "she's good."
I then said that i wanted to hang out with her and her friend.
She paused for awhile like not expecting me to say this. and she told me that her friend took off out of town to visit family. and she asked me , if i knew to whom to which girl I was talking to.
I laughed and told her yes and she told me to call her back later.
something better came up and didn't call her, I didn't feel like chasing her.
I called her last night, she called me back but with another number and with another tone of voice,I didn't recognize her at that moment and when she called she said " I got a wrong number."
I called her at her cell, she didn't pick up, I left her a message to call me later that night since i had other things going on.

I think she got jealous, I don't know how to approach this since these stripper chicks are garbage. I do want to go for 3 way .
 
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