I agree - 6.5 category.
Where are you from BenWin? This chick wouldn't even come close to the girls in LA. She's an LA 6 if she's lucky.
Back to the point at hand (because, not matter what her rating with me - you wanna tag it, and there ain't nothing wrong with that)
Firstly - this chick see's you only as a friend.
Basically - your to damn nice.
You fix her PC for her, you let her play with your toys (no woman plays with my computer unless I'm tagging her - or any other of my electronic toys)
And you give her blankets and walk her home like a good little boy.
Let me tell you something - women don't like the "Nice Guy" -= and that's what you are to her.
Second thing - don't ask or beg for a back massage. You tell her to rub your back. You don't ask to kiss her, you kiss her.
She has a BF - and she's hanging with you because you a nice guy.
Next time her is what you do.
You don't fix her PC for free - she takes you out for drinks or dinner - preferably for drinks.
When your drinking with a chick at a bar - apply Kino. ****y and funny - you tease her - you play with her. You have her sitting on your lap. you just apply kino and touching.
She's gotta know, that when she's with you, your going to put the moves on her. She's got to know that when she's out with you - your going to flirt, touch and tease her. That way, there's no misunderstanding. When you ask her out for drinks, that girl is going to know there's going to be flirting and kino - no nice guy's here. If she accepts - she's accepting your advances/flirting - if she doesn't - no big deal, you just move on.
Now, I'm not suggesting you be all over her - groping and grabbing - but you apply appropriate kino - there's some good post's about thius in the bible - I suggest you read them.
Lastly and more importantly. If your out drinking with a girl and she comes back to your pad - you got to AT LEAST put some moves on her. Hold her and kiss her. AT LEAST.
She can say NO - pull away - whatever - and thats all fine. But you've got to try. If you played it correctly throughout the night (kino, teasing etc) and have managed to get her back to your pad - 8 out of 10 times your going at least make out with her.
One final thought:
She ain't no HB9.