guittarjedi
Don Juan
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I'm new to all of this and I need advice. The new girl I work with is an 18 year old Paris Hilton look alike who I got to train her first week. She told my friend and I that she always gets what she wants from her father because she's daddy's little girl. Although I was awestruck by her astonishing beauty, I immediately called her a spoiled brat in a ****y and funny way.
Later when she tried to put my radio on her station, I wouldn't let her and when she said she doesn't like Mustang's(I just bought a red 2003) I threatened to pour her drink over head. That night at work we had very good conversation and I felt a spark and comfortable feeling like I've never had with any other girl. She has a habit of pulling up her shirt and showing her perfect, flat, sexy stomache and she caught me drooling. The next day she told me that a guy we work with was pestering her for a date and that she doesn't date co-workers. I said "Neither do I. I dated a girl for a while and after I broke up with her she started acting like a psycho." This was a completely made up story but I said it to create a demand for myself. Later that night I noticed she was wearing a great smelling perfume and told her it smelled great. I don't know if that was a wuss thing to do but she seemed to coo and relish my approval. I also complimented her on what a good job she was doing her first week so the next day I felt like I should pull back and barely spoke to her. When she bumped in to me I said "Are you drunk?" She laughed and looked deeply into my eyes. I felt like I was struck by lightening. I wanted to ask her out but I began to get scared. I devised a scheme to ask my friend if he wanted to play pool after work. He was to say that he couldn't, then I would turn to her and say "Do you know how to play pool?" and hopefully take her for a game after work. As I discussed this scheme with my friend I began to have an anxiety attack. My inner wuss had returned with a vengeance and I completely forgot everything I've learned from David Deangelo's materials. I feel like my game isn't at the level of this girl but if I don't try I know I'll regret it. What can I do to prevent this from happening again? How can I get past her policy against dating co-workers and what do you guys think of my methods?
Later when she tried to put my radio on her station, I wouldn't let her and when she said she doesn't like Mustang's(I just bought a red 2003) I threatened to pour her drink over head. That night at work we had very good conversation and I felt a spark and comfortable feeling like I've never had with any other girl. She has a habit of pulling up her shirt and showing her perfect, flat, sexy stomache and she caught me drooling. The next day she told me that a guy we work with was pestering her for a date and that she doesn't date co-workers. I said "Neither do I. I dated a girl for a while and after I broke up with her she started acting like a psycho." This was a completely made up story but I said it to create a demand for myself. Later that night I noticed she was wearing a great smelling perfume and told her it smelled great. I don't know if that was a wuss thing to do but she seemed to coo and relish my approval. I also complimented her on what a good job she was doing her first week so the next day I felt like I should pull back and barely spoke to her. When she bumped in to me I said "Are you drunk?" She laughed and looked deeply into my eyes. I felt like I was struck by lightening. I wanted to ask her out but I began to get scared. I devised a scheme to ask my friend if he wanted to play pool after work. He was to say that he couldn't, then I would turn to her and say "Do you know how to play pool?" and hopefully take her for a game after work. As I discussed this scheme with my friend I began to have an anxiety attack. My inner wuss had returned with a vengeance and I completely forgot everything I've learned from David Deangelo's materials. I feel like my game isn't at the level of this girl but if I don't try I know I'll regret it. What can I do to prevent this from happening again? How can I get past her policy against dating co-workers and what do you guys think of my methods?
