NEED HELP ASAP!! NO CONTACT IN 5 DAYS? Does it work?

[cablecow15]

wow looks like your religious and trying to push crap on her , that doesn't go well either way if a girl ever try's to "save" me id immediately lose interest . maybe its the same with here , if u want her don't keep pushing religion crap on her

 

[tony-montana]

can someone ban this retard? even if he isn't a troll he's got some major issues lol. this woman thinks you're a joke and so do we. PATHETIC.

 

[rea001]

It's not funny. No, it is funny. It's too funny. No woman on the face of this planet is worth what you're putting yourself through, and remember you're putting yourself through it, not her.

As far as "dumping her a$$" goes, she's already dumped him. He just needs to get over it and forget about her.

Dude, every guy has been through it. It's not just you. You need to learn to take rejection a little better. Also, how would you react if she was acting this way towards you? You'd be so turned off and running so fast... STOP ACTING CRAZY!!!!

Oh, yea, you only saw her for 2 WHOLE MONTHS. Stop being a baby!

 

[crazyboy]

we have captain save a ho here. that all it is. ugh make me sick

 

[SteveTheDon]

she texted again.. then called and asked why we never did fun things and I said she always blows me off...not sure how to swing this..

 

[Korrupt]

You should burn a cross on her front lawn.. That always works.

 

[rea001]

she texted again.. then called and asked why we never did fun things and I said she always blows me off...not sure how to swing this..

Having a chick blow me IS fun!

 

[SteveTheDon]

K after High IL I started getting low IL from her and went all crazy AFC... thats before I knew about being a DJ... so yesterday she was supposed to come over, we were talking etc then her phone kept going to voicemail when Id call.. all night then at 2 am I get this message on facebook:


I can only imagine how pissed off you are at me. My intentions aren't to hurt you and I am not going to give you excuses as to what happened because I know you don't want to hear it. I will tell you that I wont be able to call you anymore because I don't have my phone and that is the only place I had your phone number stored. I don't have enough money to pay for a new phone at this time so I have no way of contacting anybody for a while.

Please forgive me. I know this had to be difficult for you to deal with today and it's not fair to you or your son. However, it is beyond my control. I feel absolutely horrible about this. I care about you so much and the thought of hurting you is unbearable.


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My question is can I play the Ganji game now? Or should I send her a text back with my phone #?? thanks to all that respond..

 

[Johnnyventana]

"So I called and texted her over 100 times (seriously at least 100, I realize now this was a mistake)" Really? This didn't dawn on you after say 70 texts? Seriously. Stop asking if you should text her again! I think you met your quota for the next 2 years? What exactly do you think will happen when you text her??!

What will happen is that she'll get confirmation that she still owns you. Period.

Never chase. She has 1000% of the power now. It has been 5 days dude! Chill the f out! My gawd. 5 days is nothing. Go do something, anything! Just stop texting her. Why is this so hard for you to have any sense of dignity?

 

[SteveTheDon]

^^^dude, reread, she contacted this morning at 2 am but said she dont have my #, I am going to go full NC but need to know if I should text her my # first..

 

[SteveTheDon]

K after High IL I started getting low IL from her and went all crazy AFC... thats before I knew about being a DJ... so yesterday she was supposed to come over, we were talking etc then her phone kept going to voicemail when Id call.. all night then at 2 am I get this message on facebook:


I can only imagine how pissed off you are at me. My intentions aren't to hurt you and I am not going to give you excuses as to what happened because I know you don't want to hear it. I will tell you that I wont be able to call you anymore because I don't have my phone and that is the only place I had your phone number stored. I don't have enough money to pay for a new phone at this time so I have no way of contacting anybody for a while.

Please forgive me. I know this had to be difficult for you to deal with today and it's not fair to you or your son. However, it is beyond my control. I feel absolutely horrible about this. I care about you so much and the thought of hurting you is unbearable.


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My question is can I play the Ganji game now? Or should I send her a text back with my phone #?? thanks to all that respond..

 

[Delly2000]

I dunno man. She sent u the FB at 2 am. She was probably with another dude which is why her phone was off. Its either that or she is playing games with you.

You could wait a few days and send her a FB with the number. Act nonchalant and tell her to take care. Sounds like she breaking it off and giving you a lame excuse. At this point the more you push the more she is likely to run away. But then again...anything is possible.

 

[Johnnyventana]

"I will tell you that I wont be able to call you anymore because I don't have my phone and that is the only place I had your phone number stored. I don't have enough money to pay for a new phone at this time so I have no way of contacting anybody for a while." Is her way of telling you: Don't text me ever again because I'm banging someone new. Notice she didn't ask for your number. She instead gave some lame excuse of why she lost your number.

Dude, we're worried about you!

 

[terran2k]

i assume she knows where you live, couldn't she just come to your house and talk to you without a phone and get your # while she is at it.
I can see how someone can get like this, with all the BS they make guys believe these days. I'm on the fence if it's real or not.

 

[The_411]

This has to be a troll because no one who would be pathetic as this would be spitting out terms like IL AFC etc because he's just spitting out terms for the sake of spitting out terms without understanding their meaning.

Alternatively he could be on some heavy drugs ...

Hell, I don't know.

If he is serious he needs to see a shrink and get his head checked, but not even in my most AFC state have I ever come remotely close to this type of behavior.

 

[ArcBound]

Ganji games and no contact are bullsh!t.... you don't make a woman love or want to fvck you more because you're gone. We all want shortcuts in life and the Ganji method is the ultimate method of a shortcut: Ignore a girl and she will be all over you!

That's only true if she's already DTF. If you ignore a girl that doesn't want or respect, congratulations you accomplished nothing! At most you will pique her curiosity as to where you went. It won't make her want to fvck you.

 

[phoreus1911]

The way I see it if she likes you, truly she wouldn't be doing this to you. I think she's letting you down slowly, but hey that's just my take.

 

[Johnnyventana]

This --> "Please forgive me. I know this had to be difficult for you to deal with today and it's not fair to you or your son. However, it is beyond my control. I feel absolutely horrible about this. I care about you so much and the thought of hurting you is unbearable." is a pretty big apology for not having a phone. What it really is, is her breaking up. Period. Or maybe, because she doesn't have a phone, she can't like come over, or meet you somewhere. Interesting that she has Internet, but can't be bothered to communicate via email, moving forward. This chick is soooo gone.

 

[SteveTheDon]

thanks everyone, I figure its over.. I replied to her this morning with this..

Sounds good, I been real busy lately. My # is ***-***-**** if u ever get a new phone or use a pay phone. take care.



I figure its simple, shows me being somewhat not concerned and aloof and puts ball back in her court to contact so I will NC and see if she contacts again.. sucks and hurt but each day it gets a little easier... been on POF a lot, got some prospects.. in meantime gonna take the weekend and read the DJBible in full...

 

[MusicMan450]

Okay, stop being stupid.

How many times do we have to say this?

DON'T FUKING TALK TO HER.

Even if she texts you, DON'T RESPOND.
Don't act all aloof

In fact, screw "ganji games" at this point. You need to take her out of your life, which, it seems she's already done for you. She, the woman, had to man up and drop you because SHE FELT SORRY FOR YOU.

Go out man, find yourself, build your confidence. I don't care if you've been with 8 or 1000 women in the past year, GO FIND OTHER GIRLS. It really seems like you have no life if all you're doing all day is thinking about this girl.

Get out some brah. Right now, it seems like PoF will only hurt you. What you need is a full weekend of just getting out in public and meeting new people. Soon, you'll realize that no one girl is worth this, because there's literally millions more out there just waiting for you.