Need Feedback (friend Zone Related)

[jumpoff jorge]

so i been cool wit this girl for about...4 yrs ..we talk everyday online hang out once in a blue i got in the friend zone because when i met her i was already dating someone....i used to talk to her bestfriend but nothing never happened we never even kissed..now this girl is older(the one i knew for 4 yrs) and shes lookin alot better she knows me like a book...i feel like shes perfect for me...she tells me im like a brother to her..but i started to grow feelings for her i know this because theres a new guy she talks to named angel and im extremely jealous.. i wanna be wit her...i asked friends but they honestly dont know what to tell me.... but i realllllly wanna be wit this girl i just dont know how to approach it...and i feel if i do everything wrong it'll ruin our friendship...so i come here for help lol...all feedback and comments good or bad are appreciated..thank you

 

[Interceptor]

she tells me im like a brother to her

Not a good start, Jorge.

Bad sign actually.

Tell me, have you seen her in person?
Have you been with her on a social level?
Does she know how you "party" and have fun?
Does she know your personality IN PERSON?
Is there anyway you can show her physically you're interested in her?


Another bad sign:
Women almost ALWAYS have a tight circle of friends that share intimate details of their lives. This includes, BFs , lovers, and sex.
If her friends have not heard a peep about you from her, that is a good sign that she doesn't even think about you. At least not romantically.

Here's the deal.


This is time to be a MAN.


This is when you grab you Nuts, and your heart and get ready to say "Geronimo, B*tch!"


Here is what you should NOT DO:
Don't tell her, or write to her your "feelings" for her.
Never. Ever. NEVER EVER.....
Read that again.

IF...I say IF you can get NEXT to her, and be out socially with her.
Begin to move into her personal space a little more. LEarn the Art of Seduction.
And be prepared for rejection.
You're new, and you probably have little "Game".
This is going to be tough.

You may find success only if she has a romantic Interest Level of 60% or higher with her. Not likely. But there's always a possibility.
You need to keep "gaming" her, and working on that IL.

BE patient! Be in control!
Know how to be a challenge.
And SHOW (don't tell) her you are sexually interested in her.
Touch her softly occasionally. Look into her eyes. Smile a lot.
Laugh at her funny jokes. Show her she can be comfortable around you , and can trust you.

NUMBER ONE RULE:
Do not ever break this one:

NO EXPECTATIONS.
Read that again.


NO EXPECTATIONS!


Good luck.

Keep Band Aids nearby.
You may need them.

 

[jumpoff jorge]

Not a good start, Jorge.

Bad sign actually.

Tell me, have you seen her in person?
Have you been with her on a social level?
Does she know how you "party" and have fun?
Does she know your personality IN PERSON?
Is there anyway you can show her physically you're interested in her?


Another bad sign:
Women almost ALWAYS have a tight circle of friends that share intimate details of their lives. This includes, BFs , lovers, and sex.
If her friends have not heard a peep about you from her, that is a good sign that she doesn't even think about you. At least not romantically.

Here's the deal.


This is time to be a MAN.


This is when you grab you Nuts, and your heart and get ready to say "Geronimo, B*tch!"


Here is what you should NOT DO:
Don't tell her, or write to her your "feelings" for her.
Never. Ever. NEVER EVER.....
Read that again.

IF...I say IF you can get NEXT to her, and be out socially with her.
Begin to move into her personal space a little more. LEarn the Art of Seduction.
And be prepared for rejection.
You're new, and you probably have little "Game".
This is going to be tough.

You may find success only if she has a romantic Interest Level of 60% or higher with her. Not likely. But there's always a possibility.
You need to keep "gaming" her, and working on that IL.

BE patient! Be in control!
Know how to be a challenge.
And SHOW (don't tell) her you are sexually interested in her.
Touch her softly occasionally. Look into her eyes. Smile a lot.
Laugh at her funny jokes. Show her she can be comfortable around you , and can trust you.

NUMBER ONE RULE:
Do not ever break this one:

NO EXPECTATIONS.
Read that again.


NO EXPECTATIONS!


Good luck.

Keep Band Aids nearby.
You may need them.

Tell me, have you seen her in person? yes...i was just with her last friday
Have you been with her on a social level? yes
Does she know how you "party" and have fun?yes
Does she know your personality IN PERSON?yes
Is there anyway you can show her physically you're interested in her?yes


Thanks for the advice...its greatly appreciated

 

[jumpoff jorge]

4 years and you STILL haven't made a move? 4 years in the "friends box"? 4 years is way too long. It's a done deal, man. First impressions last forever, bro.



Very rarely will a girl go for a guy who's younger than her...especially if it's past 3 years.Trust me on this. You can pull it off if you're REALLY mature or you got game..but no offense...I don't think you have that yet.




Peace out. THAT was your calling card. Grab some balls and fuk this bytch. time for you to move on.



Read this post by Pook.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16926


And when you're done with that.

Read this thread below.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=23337&highlight=Angstrom

Very rarely will a girl go for a guy who's younger than her...especially if it's past 3 years.Trust me on this. You can pull it off if you're REALLY mature or you got game..but no offense...I don't think you have that yet.

what i mean was she got older...im older then her tho im 20 shes 18

 

[Bizzaro]

@Interceptor- Love your post man! Superb!

 

[Bizzaro]

Very rarely will a girl go for a guy who's younger than her...especially if it's past 3 years.Trust me on this. You can pull it off if you're REALLY mature or you got game..but no offense...I don't think you have that yet.

Might be rare, but its not impossible.

When I was 16, I got this 20 year old girl going for me.

And shes still on about me now.

 

[foamy]

"she tells me im like a brother to her"

Then say something stupid, "Then what do you think about incest? Let's get the inbred freak on!"

Note: I did that 3 weeks ago and it worked, within 15min I was making out with her.
HOWEVER: You have to already have the humor skills to pull that off, I find that being I already say loads of funny things I can do it.


Foamy

 

[Bizzaro]

"she tells me im like a brother to her"

Then say something stupid, "Then what do you think about incest? Let's get the inbred freak on!"

Foamy

Not bad, I'll have to use that.

 

[jumpoff jorge]

come on guys no other advice?