So I tried one of those dating sites, and messaged this girl. She got back to me, and a few minutes later I had her number. We moved to texting and pretty soon we were chatting it up on facebook. She lives a little over an hour from me. There was a definite interest. She is an easy HB8. By the end of the night I have plans to go visit her the next day. Easily 8 hours of conversation with her total. She also made it explicitly clear, she wanted a serious thing, not a one night stand, so I told her sure, me too. Sex can wait a few days. (Not really a lie, I am ready for a actual gf)
So I go up and visit thursday with the plan of staying all weekend. Go to her place, we start watching some movies, cuddling, etc. She is really into me. Her roommate gets home and we all go out to dinner. I get the roommate's approval. The original plan for the night is to go out and meet her best friend and her guy around 1am for drinks/hottub. we end up falling asleep during a movie and decide to call it an early night. I get invited to the bedroom. She puts on PJs and cuddles up we are both exhausted and pass out. My thinking being, build of the comfort and we can fool around in the morning when we are not exhausted and then the rest of the weekend its game on.
Instead, we wake up have some pillow chat/heavy kino, I get ready to make a move and mom calls. She wants her help with some family stuff (grandma died a month ago, cleaning out her house) all day, so our plans for the rest of the weekend are shot to hell. she starts actually crying and apologizes. I comfort her, get ready we chill a few minutes and I head out. She grabs me hugs me holds my hand and says she will come to my place for the rest of the weekend if they get the house done quickly, and definitely next weekend to make it up to me. Tells me to txt her when I am home so she knows i made it (I rode the motorcycle.)
I txtd her something about made it home safe, had a good time. Then an hour or so later, as I am unpacking, I realized I left some stuff there, and text her about it. No response yet. I also saw when I logged onto the site later, she was on it too, pretty much all day. The site has a built in IM thing, like facebook chat, so i hit her up on that with a quick message too, but no response.
I am just gonna wait her out and see if she gets ahold of me, then maybe hit her up in a few days if i don't hear from her.
My question is what happend?haha Now I don't really think she will call back. But even hindsight, she seemed REALLY into me the whole time, even up to as I left. But now completely ignoring me. I mean there wasn't even a lack of interest that morning. It was like super hot to absolutely nothing at all. Insight?
So I go up and visit thursday with the plan of staying all weekend. Go to her place, we start watching some movies, cuddling, etc. She is really into me. Her roommate gets home and we all go out to dinner. I get the roommate's approval. The original plan for the night is to go out and meet her best friend and her guy around 1am for drinks/hottub. we end up falling asleep during a movie and decide to call it an early night. I get invited to the bedroom. She puts on PJs and cuddles up we are both exhausted and pass out. My thinking being, build of the comfort and we can fool around in the morning when we are not exhausted and then the rest of the weekend its game on.
Instead, we wake up have some pillow chat/heavy kino, I get ready to make a move and mom calls. She wants her help with some family stuff (grandma died a month ago, cleaning out her house) all day, so our plans for the rest of the weekend are shot to hell. she starts actually crying and apologizes. I comfort her, get ready we chill a few minutes and I head out. She grabs me hugs me holds my hand and says she will come to my place for the rest of the weekend if they get the house done quickly, and definitely next weekend to make it up to me. Tells me to txt her when I am home so she knows i made it (I rode the motorcycle.)
I txtd her something about made it home safe, had a good time. Then an hour or so later, as I am unpacking, I realized I left some stuff there, and text her about it. No response yet. I also saw when I logged onto the site later, she was on it too, pretty much all day. The site has a built in IM thing, like facebook chat, so i hit her up on that with a quick message too, but no response.
I am just gonna wait her out and see if she gets ahold of me, then maybe hit her up in a few days if i don't hear from her.
My question is what happend?haha Now I don't really think she will call back. But even hindsight, she seemed REALLY into me the whole time, even up to as I left. But now completely ignoring me. I mean there wasn't even a lack of interest that morning. It was like super hot to absolutely nothing at all. Insight?
