need an expert opinion.

[guitarman520]

Here's my story.............

Ive been going thru like 2-3 women a week in search of
"the one". Im getting tired of the chase and all the empty sexual escapedes. I know lots of guys wich they could get laid all the time but to me, its getting old and boring. I would really like to have some real love in my life for once.
I know that sounds like Im a ***** or a wimp or something but Im sure many guys feel this way after a while. I mean Im 41 yrs old and I have nothing more to prove. I know I can get laid.
Anyway, I finally met one that really did it all for me. everything felt perfect. for both of us. she was all over me for like 6 weeks. afternoons, stayin overnight. It just felt right. smelled right, tatsed right...the aura was right. EVERYTHING!!
So....what did I do...............like a fool................I told her how I felt. told her How much I love being with her. How much I love kissing her, making love with her. Told her that waking up with her was better than going to bed with her. All that crap.......
and guess what happened........duh!! she ran away from me and lost interest. then I chased her and totally lost my cool. acted like a whipped puppy......did everything wrong. She told me I gave her the BEST orgasm she ever had in her life. I thought I was IN. So I opened my mouth and told her all my feelings.
question is......
if she felt that much for me..............can I ever re-create that excitement in her again. Im not even sure if I want to or not at this point but still, if it was there and it was very strong........can it come back around again? Can I get the power back that I had for the first month. and i did have total control of the situation in the beginning. I think thats what drew her to me in the first place.
what do you guys think?? (besides that Im a typical **** up who cant control his emotions when the pressure is on.......lol)

 

[Colossus]

It would probably be best to back off at this point. Dont initiate anything, no more spewing your feelings all over her.

Turn the tables for a minute. Wouldnt you be kinda freaked out if she just professed her undying love for you? It may feel good to think about it, but when someone drops the feelings bomb it throws you for a loop.

If you ever manage to salvage the relationship w/ her, tell her you love her VERY rarely in the future.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by guitarman520
Here's my story.............

Ive been going thru like 2-3 women a week in search of
"the one".

I am thinking... how, where do you find 2-3 women each week to go out with?

 

[chili kat]

There is a mature section for people like you and I. Many gripped for weeks & months to get it. Help us out and use it, please.


Anyway, I don't personally believe it possible to tip the powers that be back to an earlier, more prefereable time in any relationship. It's a stretch. I've certainly been right where you are. Truly sorry.

 

[Tazman]

Do women really run away from a guy who gave them the BEST orgasm they ever had in their life just because he admitted to having "feelings" for them? That's a trully depressing thought...

 

[JlN]

wow .. BEST ORGASM EVER and she didn't want anymore of it?

My advice to you is play it cool atm ... don't even bother to contact her .. sooner or later we all know she'll cave back for you if you play the right card..

I'll tell you my story before I unwussified. Same sheit happened to me, i tried calling my ex for like 20 a days when she left . I was too needy, but when i opened my views toward the woman-field .. it became so clear to me. I didn't contact her in anyway .. and in 5-6 months .. she INITIATED the first contact ( i still have feelings fo her ) . off course right now, i'm good at dealing with her .. I controlled myself . n at the moment , she's fking crazy about me .. just today i "decided" not to pick up her calls and she left me like 10 msges ..

just continue living your life my friend .. in the end you'll meet your woman .. and by 2-3 women per weeks?? i'm sure you'll find it real sooooon ...

If you like. Play the jealousy games in front of her .. it's very powerful . prove to her that you don't need her [when u do ] .. never reveal anything to her ...

best in all - good luck

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She is a corrupt hor and you spoke to her as if she was a woman????? Is it no wonder she took flight!!!!!

Treat hors like a hor and they will be your hor - until they find another pimp!!

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Do women really run away from a guy who gave them the BEST orgasm they ever had in their life just because he admitted to having "feelings" for them?

You know, I was wondering the same thing myself, and if she was telling the truth when she said it, I'd say she's not going to want to run away from it. Women love sex too, and I wouldn't think she'd vanish like vapor unless there was an overriding reason. Like Colossus said, maybe you freaked her out. Maybe there was a roaring AFC in her past that spooked her...never know.

You put her on a pedestal with all of your talk, made her social value much higher than yours. She now became the catch. You made it clear that she had you, and from that point on, there was no more "wanting". Go see a couple of those women you've gone through, and don't jump on the first opportunity you get to see lady #1 again. Let her stew for a little while and wonder what you're up to. If what she told you about her orgasm was true, she'll be thinking about you. Count on it. Ever notice that thinking about what you can't have can be better than when you actually get it?