bcollarmechanic
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first time post, been reading this forum for a few weeks now, looking for advice on a girl i just meet
im sorry this is so long
Im going to try to explain the story the best I can. So I met this really nice, really cute girl, I got her number and we started texting, after a day of texting I asked he if she wanted to go out on Sunday for lunch (asked her on Friday), she said that sounded like a great idea, I didn’t set a time to pick her up or where to pick her up and I know this is where I majorly messed up (every man knows to try to make the date as concrete as possible and I was just so caught up in her I forgot and now im beating myself up over it)
Anyways at first it seemed like she was completely into me, Friday night I was driving down to Philly from NJ for work and she would constantly text me like, “be careful driving!”, “let me know when you get theyre!!!”, “let me know your safe!” and blah blah blah
Skip to Saturday night and we’re texting again but just about bull like work and what we did that Saturday, what we were specifically talking about at about 9pm was her old job as a kindergarten teacher, my last text to her was something along the lines of, “my sister had the same job and it was a love hate relationship for her”. And that’s where it stopped, it was completely random, she didn’t respond at all, though i didn’t think much of it at first. But in an hour I sent her another text basically saying, “where do you want me to pick you up tomorrow for our date cutie”? No response again.
Again I didn’t think too much about it, maybe her phone died or she fell asleep. So late at night at about 11pm I go on a chatting website I use, one she’s on too. It shows she’s online so I think what the hell let me message her. I message her something like, “hey is everything ok, I tried to text you about our date tomorrow”
Right away I get a response basically saying “hey this is Amys friend Kat!!! Amys phone completely broke down tonight!! She cant call or text anyone!! But give me you’re number and ill have her text you tomorrow from my phone!!!
I don’t respond right away but then I get another message “ Also Amy asked me to delete this web chat for her!! She said there is to many creepers on here!! But give me your number and ill have her message you first thing in the morning from my phone!!!
So I gave her my number and said thank you
Then I get another message “no problem she’ll message you tomorrow!!! And just so you know she mentioned you to me today!!! So good luck on her!!! And good night!!
I say something like “thanks for the luck and good night to you too” and then her account is deleted
Now all the grammar mistakes and exclamation points are there for a reason, because that is how Amy texts, when she texted me she used a ton of exclamation points for no reason and had no idea what the difference was between, your or you’re, their, there and they’re or even to and too
So after the first message on the chat I automatically thought, “this is amy pretending to be someone else, but why would she do that”? “And if it was Amy why would she say something like” “no problem she’ll message you tomorrow!!! And just so you know she mentioned you to me today!!! So good luck on her!!!
It makes no sense to me, if I were pretending to be someone else I would keep it short and simple and definitely not say something like good luck on me lol
Anyways here I am today, no texts or calls on Sunday and no texts or calls for the rest of this week, its like she completely disappeared, I also did not try to make any contact with her since Saturday. A friend did take my phone Sunday night to get her number and tried to call her from his phone a few times while I was in the bathroom, I have no idea why, I told him the story and I think he was just trying to help make me forget about it because he said something like “see she didn’t answer my number and she doesn’t know my number so maybe her phone really is broken, so just wait”
Well its Thursday and no contact from her. What should I do? Im thinking to try to call her on my work phone to see if she answers and try to bull**** her like, “my phone got crushed at work a few days ago and I didn’t want you to think I was ignoring you so I decided to call you from my work phone”, and maybe try to set up a more concrete date for Sunday
Any and all advice is appreciated
im sorry this is so long
Im going to try to explain the story the best I can. So I met this really nice, really cute girl, I got her number and we started texting, after a day of texting I asked he if she wanted to go out on Sunday for lunch (asked her on Friday), she said that sounded like a great idea, I didn’t set a time to pick her up or where to pick her up and I know this is where I majorly messed up (every man knows to try to make the date as concrete as possible and I was just so caught up in her I forgot and now im beating myself up over it)
Anyways at first it seemed like she was completely into me, Friday night I was driving down to Philly from NJ for work and she would constantly text me like, “be careful driving!”, “let me know when you get theyre!!!”, “let me know your safe!” and blah blah blah
Skip to Saturday night and we’re texting again but just about bull like work and what we did that Saturday, what we were specifically talking about at about 9pm was her old job as a kindergarten teacher, my last text to her was something along the lines of, “my sister had the same job and it was a love hate relationship for her”. And that’s where it stopped, it was completely random, she didn’t respond at all, though i didn’t think much of it at first. But in an hour I sent her another text basically saying, “where do you want me to pick you up tomorrow for our date cutie”? No response again.
Again I didn’t think too much about it, maybe her phone died or she fell asleep. So late at night at about 11pm I go on a chatting website I use, one she’s on too. It shows she’s online so I think what the hell let me message her. I message her something like, “hey is everything ok, I tried to text you about our date tomorrow”
Right away I get a response basically saying “hey this is Amys friend Kat!!! Amys phone completely broke down tonight!! She cant call or text anyone!! But give me you’re number and ill have her text you tomorrow from my phone!!!
I don’t respond right away but then I get another message “ Also Amy asked me to delete this web chat for her!! She said there is to many creepers on here!! But give me your number and ill have her message you first thing in the morning from my phone!!!
So I gave her my number and said thank you
Then I get another message “no problem she’ll message you tomorrow!!! And just so you know she mentioned you to me today!!! So good luck on her!!! And good night!!
I say something like “thanks for the luck and good night to you too” and then her account is deleted
Now all the grammar mistakes and exclamation points are there for a reason, because that is how Amy texts, when she texted me she used a ton of exclamation points for no reason and had no idea what the difference was between, your or you’re, their, there and they’re or even to and too
So after the first message on the chat I automatically thought, “this is amy pretending to be someone else, but why would she do that”? “And if it was Amy why would she say something like” “no problem she’ll message you tomorrow!!! And just so you know she mentioned you to me today!!! So good luck on her!!!
It makes no sense to me, if I were pretending to be someone else I would keep it short and simple and definitely not say something like good luck on me lol
Anyways here I am today, no texts or calls on Sunday and no texts or calls for the rest of this week, its like she completely disappeared, I also did not try to make any contact with her since Saturday. A friend did take my phone Sunday night to get her number and tried to call her from his phone a few times while I was in the bathroom, I have no idea why, I told him the story and I think he was just trying to help make me forget about it because he said something like “see she didn’t answer my number and she doesn’t know my number so maybe her phone really is broken, so just wait”
Well its Thursday and no contact from her. What should I do? Im thinking to try to call her on my work phone to see if she answers and try to bull**** her like, “my phone got crushed at work a few days ago and I didn’t want you to think I was ignoring you so I decided to call you from my work phone”, and maybe try to set up a more concrete date for Sunday
Any and all advice is appreciated
