Is kino expected on the first date?
I've been out with this girl once. We went to dinner and the movies, but what sucked about these places was that they didn't lend any opportunity for kino whatsoever. And now i'm clueless as to where I could take her next. I know I could take her for ice cream, or an art show, etc. but these things don't seem like they would lend themselves to any sort of escalation and quite frankly I don't want to get LJBF'ed.
People tell me different things about kino: some say that it will just come naturally when you're comfortable enough with the girl (we've only been out once) and other people say you have to force the kino at the beginning. I'm confused but know for a fact that on our first date I felt very resistant to initiate any sort of kino because it just seemed like it would have been VERY awkward whether it was in the theater or during our walk back to the dorm.
The real problem is that this isn't one of those types of girls that make your job easy by holding your hand, touching your shoulder, etc. She laughs at just about everything and is constantly smiling, but she isn't really giving me any physical IOI's.
Any suggestions would be great.
I've been out with this girl once. We went to dinner and the movies, but what sucked about these places was that they didn't lend any opportunity for kino whatsoever. And now i'm clueless as to where I could take her next. I know I could take her for ice cream, or an art show, etc. but these things don't seem like they would lend themselves to any sort of escalation and quite frankly I don't want to get LJBF'ed.
People tell me different things about kino: some say that it will just come naturally when you're comfortable enough with the girl (we've only been out once) and other people say you have to force the kino at the beginning. I'm confused but know for a fact that on our first date I felt very resistant to initiate any sort of kino because it just seemed like it would have been VERY awkward whether it was in the theater or during our walk back to the dorm.
The real problem is that this isn't one of those types of girls that make your job easy by holding your hand, touching your shoulder, etc. She laughs at just about everything and is constantly smiling, but she isn't really giving me any physical IOI's.
Any suggestions would be great.