Need advice on first date with an ex

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I am pretty sure things will go well but I just needed some tips from you guys who have a lot more experience than I do. When we broke up before I was your typical AFC. Just wanting some tips on how to be on the first date with an ex who has asked you out. Thanks in advance as I hope things go well for us. We should have never broken up in the first place.
 

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Yeah - take it very slowly. Grave-digging is a really bad idea no matter who did the original breakup so don't just jump in with both feet first.

We should have never broken up in the first place.
Remember there was a reason you broke up, so you need to work out what's changed that'll make it any different this time round.

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She was presuring me to marry her. She says that she understands why now and that we have plenty of time.
 

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:rolleyes:

Well, I'll tell you exactly how I did it (one out of the two times).

The bytch had asked me back out and I told her I really need to do some thinking about it. I made her wait for a fukkin week before giving her an answer. I told her "Meet me at blabla and I'll give you my answer"

So I met up with the wh0re, and we had some fun conversation, mad her laugh, smile, all that other fake 5hit. Then I put her in total suspense.

Me: So you want to know my answer?
Her: I guess (acting shy)
Me: Well, I've done some thinking about all the things you said and my answer is (pause) yes.

I loved the fvcking suspense I put her in. When I walked her to the 5hitty bus stop, she asked me if she could hold my hand. I agreed and we sat there like a couple of dumbass school kids. How fvcking romantic. Wanna hear how the bytch screwed me around?
 

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I'd like to hear it. I love a good yarn.
 

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Yes. Is this the one that left you stuck with the appt?
 

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Yes. Is this the one that left you stuck with the appt?
Guess I don't need to tell the story again :D
 

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I only heard a partial in a post you replied to of mine.
 

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Originally posted by Bungo Pony

Guess I don't need to tell the story again :D


This is why you never give them a second chance. Got that, jnallen?
 

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It will probably pan out for me that way too. I will have the walls up.
 

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I only heard a partial in a post you replied to of mine.
Don't worry, the gory details will be in my autobiography :)
 

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Yeah Bungo Pony King of the Don Juans
 

Bungo Pony

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Yeah Bungo Pony King of the Don Juans
That's a fvcking horrible title. I was hardly a DJ before I came to this site. I have a much better title for it in mind. Also, it's not going to be a complete book on how fvcking awesome I am, it's just one person's experience of making changes for the better.
 

jnallen

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Just kidding man.
 

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It looks as if Bungo may be a little on edge today. ;)
 

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Just kidding man.
No problem :)

Even though I disagree with returning to an ex, do your best not to bring up anything bad from your past, and try NOT to continue where you two left off. If anything, bringing up pleasant memories from what the both of you shared in the past will quickly warm her back up.
 

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Thanks Bungo. I always read your posts and appreciate your responses.
 
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