Just an update if you guys are curious.......
Natalie had initially called me Friday night (the same night she took my number) and called and left the message I spoke of earlier.
Well I hadn't set foot in blockbuster since then, and had been busy scoring some other chicks #'s (especially a Lyndsey at the super market, who I approached as she was buying groceries, a total hottie I'd say 9.0 easy) I did this after scoring 3 #s at the mall and my confidence was soaring. Man this site rules.....
Anyway, so I hadn't heard from Natalie in awhile, so I called Blockbuster this evening (Mon) and she answered......I was like "Hey Natalie, this is Kevin I got your message the other day and just wanted to follow up, figured if I can be lucky so can you"
I said we should get together and have a drink, she says "I lost your # that's why I didn't call again" I said "see if you had given me your # that wouldn't have happened....." I don't even like to give out my # as a matter of fact, too many stalkers lol" She laughed and said she had the same problem....I was trying to makeup for the error of the other day in letting her have my #.
I say, "what time are you off?" She says "I work until 10 pm, I say we should do something afterwards...she says "OK Stop by at 10 then"......I say ok... see you then.
I show up a minute or two past ten, and I don't see here anywhere...I went inside, asked the dude working the counter if Natalie is around and he says "yes she is out back". I figure she must be changing.....which she did.
So I wait a bit, and she shows up lookin hot! Way better than inher blockbuster clothes.....I have upgraded her back to a solid 9.0.
She was acting kinda weird and said something, that I didn't catch and I thought it was like something to the effect of I'll meet you outside in a sec....so I go outside to the car.....she is walking around inside near the counter as if he was looking for something? Looking like she was lost...stalling.
She then comes out and walks towards her car, I open the window and say "Natalie where you going!", she turns and says "to my car"......I say........"come over here"
She walks towards me and I'm like "where are you going?" She says, "I called and left you a message, I found your #, but I have to go babysit my nephew (whatever, she was making an excuse, I think she was a little uncomfortable about the whole thing, not knowing me and me being older etc, I felt if I could just get her to get in the car with me and agree to go for a drink I can work on her and make her more comfortable).
At this point I am NOT letting her blow me off! After coming this far.....
I feel if I can just get her to come with me, it will improve.
I say we'll go for one drink, it'll be fun, and we can get to know a little more about each other (the phrase she had used on her 1st message when she called). She says how old are you? I say I am a little bit older than you........she says how old? I say not old....older....she is like what 26? I say yeah around that......She finally agrees to go for a drink, and that she has nothing to lose, she seemed nervous and hesistant.......I had to work her there.......she leaves her purse in my car and goes back to hers to get her coat comes back and hops in. I had a plan where I wanted to take her, as I didn't want to seem indecisive.
So as we are driving she is like telling me that all these guys are always hitting on her at work and that she gets corny pickup lines all the time.....and that she never goes out with them or gives out her #. She then says no one had ever said my line...."you are kinda cute I'd ask for your # but your probably too young" the line I had used, she said she was surprised the night I said that....and actually kept bringing it up all night......I kept saying "yeah you are kinda cute lol" She says "I'm just KINDA cute?" as if she is shocked that I only said that....like she knows she's hot. I assume EVERY guy tells her she's hot.......So she was a little reserved at first, but opened up a lot as the night progressed......later she said you have really nice eyes.........has any girl ever told you that before?
She is telling me about some bikini contest she was in the other night....how do you deal with this stuff lol
So later she is staying things like, do you date younger girls much/exclusivley? When was your last GF, you don't look your age at all, more like 23 she says......told me about her last BF of four years, that he was always cheating on her etc.... She then says almost daringly that she would be hard for me handle as if she was so wild etc....she seemed to warm up to me as the night progressed......playing with her hair, mirroring, eye contact etc, laughing, smiling, telling me she liks cars and mine.......she asked me to tell her how I would describe her in a few words...........a test I presume, which I think I did well in answering as she seemed happy with my response....She also said you're teeth are so nice, white and straight did you have braces? (at this point I am so thankful to my parents lol) I say yes....she says you can tell they are nice........
Also a bunch of my friends with hot girls where at the club too and they were all waiving at me and she noticed them which I figured was good......
She seemed impressed when I asked her if she wanted to move seats because the music was too lound and we couldn't really hear each other speak......almost had a look to her as if I had read her mind....
When I drop her off later at her car, I tell her to give me her # and she does.....I assume this is a good sign....I tell her I will be talking to her and goodnight using her name.
So I really want to work this girl she looks like a keeper.......she is gonna be tough and I'll need to make use of every resource here and be the best DJ I can........
Also to read about a related situation from the same evening with another chick I had # closed on at the same restaurant...check the link below.
That was INTERESTING to say the least, this other chick saw me with Natalie....
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=297737#post297737
So any advice for me on Natalie, I truly would appreciate it.....Thanks in advance!