Need advice girl getting distant... about to go to dinner with this girl (AW post)

aix237

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I had an AW gf for 2 years before i met this AW and know how they are. So me and this AW started hanging out like a month ago or so. I knew her before that but not like this. She stopped seeing some dude she was seeing for 2 months or so. She called me one day out of the blue cause she can't be alone apparently, shes an AW.

From that day she slept over and we saw each other like 28 days in a row. We make out, show a lot of PDA, she says she likes me, and talks about me to her parents and sister etc. BUT WE DONT HAVE SEX. she claims its because she doesnt want to be a "ho" and will only fvck a bf. she really doesnt seem like a sexual ho just a tease at most. Last week she said well we are dating now. Ok whatever.

I went out with her saw her do some AW sh1t and called her out on it. From there she has gone on to say I have an attitude etc. and laying the blame on me. So now she has been acting distant for the last two days or so.

She actually didnt sleep over my house for the first time last night. She texted me goodnight babe! i texted back. This morning i called her and asked her if she was feeling better. she said well i got no sleep cause my neighbors etc. I then went onto say what are you doing tonight? she replies with saying well marcus and brian (guy friends i met that have nothing on me) called me to go to this bar so i might go out with them. I said well youre coming to dinner with me then she said well thats fine but i cant promise anything afterwards.

After I got off the phone i was like fvck this b1tch. I texted and said nevermind dinner, its not a good night but maybe i will see you later. Right after, as expected i get a phone call. she says wtf etc. dont have an atttitude cause im done dealing with it. I give her an attitude only when she says some sh1t about haning out with guys infront of me cause i know she does it on purpose. she literally only has guy friends. I tell her i was fcking joking and to calm down and ill pick her up a 7.

I know this b1tch is getting distant on me right now i can sense it. should i just talk to her normal at dinner or bring up why she is acting weird. Im thinking about just saying we should just be friends then cut off contact cause she gives me no sex and she disrepects me by acting all stupid with guys. I really like this girl but fvck i have no clue what do (actually i do i know i should leave but i dont want to).

I so want to tell her how much better i am than any guy she will get cause i know i am and she knows it too. but thats probably not good. should i just ljbf her, ask her whats up with her, or say you seem like you need some space so im going to give it to you and cut of contact with her. Im even thinking about not calling her and ditching her.
 

aix237

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so i shouldnt take her out to dinner tonight?
 

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aix237 said:
so i shouldnt take her out to dinner tonight?
DonS said:
Dude, she isn't sleeping with you because she isn't that attracted to you; and then she blew you out of the water with **** tests to confirm you were AFC so she could end the relationship. You lost all emotional control-AFC style and she lost what little attraction she had left for you. This is the beginning of the end unless you get with the program.

You really like this girl? And you say you want to tell her to stay with you because you are better than the other guys? You pulled an attitude when she flirted at the bar? You invite her to dinner, but she isn't sure so then you get all emotional and tell her never mind?

OK, I do not have the time to retrain all your mistakes. I'll just give you a sample of the mindset you need. When my girl flirts heavy with other guys, I walk up to them and say with a smile, "Isn't this chick something? Just so you know, I rent her out for a dollar a pound." with a chuckle. This is the winners attitude, the attitude of the man who is the prize, the attitude of a man with lots of options; and women are crazy attracted to guys like that.
Rough Translation = No
 
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