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There is this this girl in my Spanish class whom is drop-dead HOT. I know she has an interest level in me because since week one (week four now) of school I have caught her multiple times each day quickly staring in my direction, only to quickly turn around when I turned to my left to look at her. However, she could have been staring at the "ladies men" who sit next to me (otherwise I would have made a move much sooner b/c I thought she was staring at the other guys). On Friday she gave me a MAJOR signal that told me she IS, in fact, interested in ME. This is where I am stuck. I want to strike up a brief, two minute conversation with her before class on Monday (darn the long wait of these 2 days; she also has my lunch hour which could get me more time if one of you has something that'll be a little longer). What should I say? I know the body language I will use to get her thinking about me, but that won't do much if I SAY something that won't leave a comedic and/or long lasting impression. I already have something planned if nothing better comes along:

Me: *approach from behind while she is seated in her desk, place my hand on her shoulder while kneeling down next to her*

Her: *looks surprised/confused because I am brash enough to get that close to her without knowing her that well*

Me: *make eye contact and smile* "Hey, smell these different colognes I have, will ya? *pull out one, spray it on my hand/arm so hopefully she grabs it and pulls it to her nose or I spray it and I move my hand/arm to her nose, I smile and await her response*

Her: (makes some sorta comment on the cologne)

Me: "Hmm, what about this one?" *does the exact same thing with the first cologne but with other hand/arm, smile and ask which one she thinks is better*

Her: (don't really care as long as she doesn't blow me off)

Do you guys have anything better? I, personally, want to make her laugh and/or say something brash yet funny and/or leave a long lasting impression that will make her think about me in her dreams. BTW, thanks for reading this long post.
 

Black Casanova

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erm... besides the fact that it sounds like ur flirting with onetis

it kinda sounded like she was just being polite...

of course, that doesnt matter...

MAKE TEH HO SAY NO
 
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erm...I guess onetis is another forum member

Believe me! She wasn't being polite! Do you want to know that major signal she gave me on Friday? Well, I guess it isn't major by most peoples' standards, but from what I've seen of her the past few weeks she is shy. For her to not only do the eye thing with me multiple times each day and for her to ask ME to give an opinion about her new clothes and hairstyle while playfully blocking the doorway out of Spanish class, I'd say that is much more than politeness.

Let's pretend I am wrong (since I dont wanna get in an argument over something so trivial with so little time until tomorrow). If I wanted to approach any hot girl with only two to three minutes before class, would my previously mentioned idea work? If not, what would you suggest?
 

Black Casanova

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... I misread your post

I thought the approach had already happened, my bad.

um...

it really depends on the girl.
You know her, I dont. You know best if she would go for that.

I think it sounds pretty goodthough
 
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Re: ... I misread your post

Originally posted by Black Casanova
I thought the approach had already happened, my bad.

um...

it really depends on the girl.
You know her, I dont. You know best if she would go for that.

I think it sounds pretty goodthough
It's alright. I was wondering how the heck someone could read politeness out of eye flirting.

I think it sounds lame but its all I could think of that is casual yet involves both parties touching eachother (and I know how BIG of a key factor touching is).
 
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Not that any of you give a rat's azz but I like to talk about me and reflect upon my successes. I made my move on the girl in my Spanish class today. I didn't have a game plan when I did this. My confidence guided me through the situation.

Me: *walked up behind her, kneeled down at the side of her desk while I put my arm around her far shoulder and rested my head on her other shoulder, smiled* and said, "(Yawn) Gee, I'm tired. Mind if I lean on ya for a sec?"

Her: *looked confused but had a smile on*

Me: *sniffed loud enough so she could hear* "Damn girl, your hair smells nice. What shampoo do ya use?"

Her: "Uhhh...."

Me: *I cut her sentence off, I then started petting the back of her hair* "Hmmm, dang. Pretty soft too. Yeah, I think we're gonna have to do this more often -- me petting your soft hair and all -- just don't tell my dog 'cause she might get jealous and all, you know?

Her: *smiles and cant even make a complete sentence because she is so swept off her feet*

Me: "(big sigh) Well, I think I regained my energy enough to make it to my desk now, unless ya wanna carry me of course."

I think it went smooth like butter. Just thinking about it puts a smirk on my face.
 

AlexTheGreat

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Pretty good, I'm guessing ... but she hasn't said too much, has she ?

lol anyways, you've got a great first impression ! And you played the C&F very well, so, congratulations !
 

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dont really like that cologne idea too well. it is a good c&f way of doing things, but i can think of plenty of other ways to be c&f.

do what you think is right. fi she's got interest in you, dont screw it up, and you can land this HB
 

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I think shes interested you've just gotta get to talk to her outside of class then you've probably got her.
 

big_jeffry

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heres good advice: talk to her about something school related and dont be boring- be outgoing and friendly, and if she's interested she will continue speaking in a friendly manner and then you can get her number from there.
 
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