OK. I went to a my 10 yr. high school reunion this past weekend and I came across this really hot looking girl that I knew back then.She is a 10. We were pretty good friends. We use to go out to lunch together a lot.
Anyways, when I first got there and saw her. She came over to me and gave me a big hug and one of the first questions I was asked was are you single? I said yes. So she said, we are starting a singles table, why don't you come join us. I went and got my food and she saw that I was at a different table. She then asked for me to come over there. I neglected because I was already sitting with a friend (male) and the wasn't room for the both of us at the other table.
So, night goes on everyone is just running around talking to old friends and I decide that I an tired and I had enough. So I go up to her and say look I am gonna take off. And she says, No, don't leave, Stay. And I give the eh!!! look. She then says "You got to give me your number". She asks me if I have a card and I say no. She then gives me her cell phone to type my number into. She also gives me her business card. She works with underpriveledged kids (Good Girl in my eyes) After I am done typing my number into her phone. She decides to immediately call my cell so that I have her cell number stored in my phone and she tells me to save it. I do.
Last thing she says to me is, do you want to see my son? And I was like Oh Come On Dammit. She then pulls out a pic of her dog and I laugh. I then say I have a dog to, and I am single also, you're right.
Now what I am unsure of is basically everything. I have crashed and burned when I try all angles. I have tried showing I am interested from square one and It hasn't worked. I have tried playing it off as showing a little interest and then retreating as if I do not care if she calls me. That has failed also. They usually just move on to another.
It is a double edged sword. Show too much interest, you are a desperate loser. Show little interest. They don't care really.
I am contimplating how I should interact with her from here on. I have her e-mail on the card. I have her cell number. Which one do I chose, when is a good time to do it and how should I do it?
It is just like Will Smith says in Hitch. "A guy cannot just go up to a girl and say, "I Like You". He has to have some angle to get noticed"
Confused,
any guidance is appreciated
Oh yeah I am 27
Anyways, when I first got there and saw her. She came over to me and gave me a big hug and one of the first questions I was asked was are you single? I said yes. So she said, we are starting a singles table, why don't you come join us. I went and got my food and she saw that I was at a different table. She then asked for me to come over there. I neglected because I was already sitting with a friend (male) and the wasn't room for the both of us at the other table.
So, night goes on everyone is just running around talking to old friends and I decide that I an tired and I had enough. So I go up to her and say look I am gonna take off. And she says, No, don't leave, Stay. And I give the eh!!! look. She then says "You got to give me your number". She asks me if I have a card and I say no. She then gives me her cell phone to type my number into. She also gives me her business card. She works with underpriveledged kids (Good Girl in my eyes) After I am done typing my number into her phone. She decides to immediately call my cell so that I have her cell number stored in my phone and she tells me to save it. I do.
Last thing she says to me is, do you want to see my son? And I was like Oh Come On Dammit. She then pulls out a pic of her dog and I laugh. I then say I have a dog to, and I am single also, you're right.
Now what I am unsure of is basically everything. I have crashed and burned when I try all angles. I have tried showing I am interested from square one and It hasn't worked. I have tried playing it off as showing a little interest and then retreating as if I do not care if she calls me. That has failed also. They usually just move on to another.
It is a double edged sword. Show too much interest, you are a desperate loser. Show little interest. They don't care really.
I am contimplating how I should interact with her from here on. I have her e-mail on the card. I have her cell number. Which one do I chose, when is a good time to do it and how should I do it?
It is just like Will Smith says in Hitch. "A guy cannot just go up to a girl and say, "I Like You". He has to have some angle to get noticed"
Confused,
any guidance is appreciated
Oh yeah I am 27
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