need advice asap.....!!!!

[Beebo]

long story short. have not called my gf in a week, she as well. we both met at a work related dinner...she told me she was not going...she did. surprised. did not say one word to another. really awkward. two different people telling to two different stories about what they have heard. both are sort of opposites. i am thinking of calling her and asking just what is going on. we are both stubborn people who i think are waiting for each other to make the first move. but i need to know....NOW! just what is the deal. I was thinking of writing a letter and leaving it in her mailbox tomorrow but i was thinking this instead. No sappy stuff, just straight to the point questions, no lovely dovey stuff. Just wanna know.

 

[2N Turbo]

This does not look good. I once went a week and half not talking to my gf (ex now). Was busy at school had exams and what not. Next thing you know there is no you and her anymore. I would go for the face to face convo. Leaving a letter makes it look like your scared or something.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. leaving a letter in her box is pu*ssy.
2. Go face her as a man and stop being a stubborn idiot. be the one who takes control and step up...I don't know what the circumstances are but they obviously need to be resolved.
3. When you step up either in person or on the phone if you just can't stomach it...stay in control...don't let her stubborness weaken you and make you into an afc.

 

[vegasguy]

Time to leave her

Hi It seems like your girlfriend is a user.Some girls who are very pretty get what they want.In order to obtain everything, they step on everyone they can.You my friend happen to be one of those people.My advice is to leave her, not call her and even change your phone number.Its better to get out while the hurt is at an early stage.One of the best things is to show no interest at all, that may get her attention if it doesnt then you dont have to waste your time chasing her.Maybe there was a major argument over an issue or you pissed her off then there is no reason to keep ties with her.Pease dont leave notes or talk to a friend of hers on msn its really none of her business.That may not be helping your case as they may be closer than you think.The less you say the better it is.

 

[Bungo Pony]

Hey fellow Winnipegger! When 5hit starts to get awkward between you & your gf, it's a bad sign. Sounds like her IL has dropped. Instead of dragging this out longer than it should, you should make the first move and cut her loose. Don't bother asking her what's going on. You should know by now that she wants to move on just by her actions. She may have already moved on.

Just call her up and tell her that you've decided to move on. Take total control of this breakup. If you let her have all the control, she'll drag it out as long as she can. When women do this, they think they're letting you down lightly. Eliminate the bull5hit and cut her loose. It'll help end the emotional crap you're going through a lot faster. There's no salvaging this one.

 

[vegasguy]

bungo is right on

Hi bungo you are so right on the comment about beebo leaving his so called girlfriend.Im with you.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Do not call her, do not send her a letter, NOTHING!