need advanced help with banging ex-profeesional NFL cheerleader at my gym

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Hey thanks to this site I have getting better about talking to women in my gym, every one tells me I’m handsome but I cant talk to women, but now I am, thanks to you fellas.

now please help me with a girl I am sarging in my gym.

she is a tall tanned chick at my gym in her 40’s probly, with big fake tan tits. She wears sexy tops that always show at least half of her tits which are also perfectly tan. She says she use to be a professionel cheerleader for NFL.

Here is what we talked about

Monday—said nothing. Seen this chick a lot before but I was alwys too shy to say anything. she use to also walk around the gym with this dorky-looking giuy, but not lately. i was feeling pumped. She passed and i smiled and said “hi”; she smiled and said “hi.” my heart was singing. i am not use to looking at such women in the eye let alone say hi.

Tuesday—she was sitting doing leg extensions. I walked by and said hi. It was a fluffy conversation. I was mainly trying not to look at her big fake tits. i notice that her face is fine as hell and features no wrinkles. her hair is nicely done. does she want to be fvucked? I wonder. She’s friendly, but she’s fluffy, too. She says it’s too hot in the gym. I tease her a little about it. I walk away thinking she likes me because shes smiling and seems to wearm up to me.

Wednesday—she was doing the peck deck machine. I studied up and had a plan. I came up smiling and she smiles back. She seemed happy to see me. Here’s what went down. It’s not the whole conversation though. I’m just gonna abbriviate it.

Sinrod: hi! I cant stay long. I need to get back to my workout.

Bigtitgirl: youre so positive

Sr: after our last conversation I had a thought about you.

Btg: really? (lsays it like shes interested in knowing)

Sr: I thought about what you were like when you were in high school. You were the shyest girl. Guys sometimes think you are unapproachable, but your not. You like to be approached, right?

Btg: (enthusiastic tone) I use to be shy but I’ve opened up a bit. (she starts telling me story about how being a NFL cheerleader broke her shyness; I don’t act impressed that she use to be cheerleader. )

Sr: hmmm…well, I have to get going, but your going to be here tomorrow night right? OK why don’t you share with me the monet whrn you decided you are no longer shy. Will you share that with me tomorrow?

Btg: Sure! (sounds enthusiastic)


fellas, thanks to you guys, i walked away feeling awesome, dude! i fel so powerful, the guys in the gym were looking at me curious. that felt great.


OK, now guys give some ideas. My plan is to ask her out for coffee. She seems shy in general but really responding to me, thanks to this site. but i dont want to fvuck this up.

Now give me opinions. Should I ask her out for coffee tonight? Ideas. my goal is to bang this woman.
 

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Do it

I would say that you should just go for it and ask her out. I think that if you go in thinking I want to skeet all over this chick, that it will do two things:

1. Make you move too fast by trying to get her in the sack

2. Gauge her interest level higher than it is, because you're interested in her.

I would play it cool and ask for her number first. Then wait to call her 5-9 days later and don't really talk to her at the gym past a hi. If she really has interest she will probably ask why you haven't called yet, but just remember to play it smoove. Invite her to coffee when you do call her. If she accepts go for it, if she declines and doesn't counter-offer, chuck the number and dont bring it up again.

Right now I think you are showing too much interest, play it cool and you'll be fine
 

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There are alot of people on this forum that can tell you many things based on what they've read...

However, what you really need to do is tell her directly that im getting annoyed at seeing you at the gym Only....

Why dont we save our sweat, and cool off at a nice place I know downtown (for example)

Juss take out ur phone and give it to her Shell know what to do....

stay another 3 min flirt and tease her about being shy and go on with your work out...

call her in 2 days and schedule a meet... she IS interested and you wont be turned down...

Unless there is soemthing you didnt tell me

Got It>
 

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Slick101 said:
what you really need to do is tell her directly that im getting annoyed at seeing you at the gym Only....

Why dont we save our sweat, and cool off at a nice place I know downtown (for example)
ha! yes...that can work. love it!


Slick101 said:
Unless there is soemthing you didnt tell me

Got It>
nope. that's the good thing. she really does seem interested in me, i use to think it was impossible for a girl to really be interested. see i asked a girl at the gym out before and she gave me her number but i did not have skills that i do now.

hey slick how should i act toward her if she does not give me her phone number? i hate the thought of seeing this chick every time im in thr gym. i see her 4-5 times a week. guess i could come in earlier.
 
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This is simple. You don't need to play any games, and you don't need any special "tactics". You've clearly build a good rapport with her, and she's clearly somewhat interested in you.

Next time you see her in the gym, strike up another conversation. When the conversation is at its peak, say something like this -

"Let me finish my last few lifts. When we're done working out, let's go across the street and grab a bite to eat (or coffee..whatever)."

Don't ask her, tell her... In a non-threatening, matter of fact sort of way.

Then you can establish rapport with her OUTSIDE of the gym... and get her phone number... and you are golden.
 

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oh by the way, what made me realize she is definitly intersted is that she introduced herself to me. i did not introduce myself to her because i've been learning that a pick up artist should never introduce himself when first approaching.

guys on her say that it is a good sign when a woman introduces herself. must be cause i always used to tell achick my name when i first meet them.

when she introduced herself to me, i felt fvuckin fantastic, thanks to this site.
 

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PhilippeUrielAmancio said:
When the conversation is at its peak, say something like this -

"Let me finish my last few lifts. When we're done working out, let's go across the street and grab a bite to eat (or coffee..whatever)."

Don't ask her, tell her... In a non-threatening, matter of fact sort of way.

Then you can establish rapport with her OUTSIDE of the gym... and get her phone number... and you are golden.
Keep the opinions coming, guys.

this is what i have in mind. there is a smoothie shop up the road. i am going to invite her there. she is intio fitness like me, so this sshould work.

they key is to islaote her, right? i get it.

i just dont wanna move too slow. yes, ive built rapport, no doubt.
 

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Philippe has the right idea... Dont play any games...

Games are for woman your the man that has to step up to his plate...

Your a muscular confident guy, show her that your direct shes deff interested and dont even think about her turning you down....

There is no way she can resist not giving you the number:nono:

However in the future, when a girl resists... confidently tell her its okay its just a number...

Tell her, "It was a pleasure meeting you" with a sincere smile and say it while nodding in a gentleman way... walk away with your head up as if it was her lost and belive me she will feel it....

As a matter of fact, it's actually a killer if she sees you successful with many other girls in the gym always staying macho and smiling....

If other woman go for you.. it MUST mean your a good guy and she was being a ***** to you...

She'll think of a good way to come back to you guaranteed...

And If you do see her next time... dont avoid her juss say hi and even tease her at times...

She might even ask you for a date :cool:












PhilippeUrielAmancio said:
This is simple. You don't need to play any games, and you don't need any special "tactics". You've clearly build a good rapport with her, and she's clearly somewhat interested in you.

Next time you see her in the gym, strike up another conversation. When the conversation is at its peak, say something like this -

"Let me finish my last few lifts. When we're done working out, let's go across the street and grab a bite to eat (or coffee..whatever)."

Don't ask her, tell her... In a non-threatening, matter of fact sort of way.

Then you can establish rapport with her OUTSIDE of the gym... and get her phone number... and you are golden.
 

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Espi said:
Congrats, bro...she's clearly interested; as you say, she introduced herself, and that means that she's open to you.

I would definitely make the move to isolate. Don;t ask for a number. Go halfway and invite her to the Smoothie King. If she accepts, fine. when you get her isolated, talk to her about an hour; in fact, say wehn you invite her that you have about an hour. Just make sure to keep establishing the time constraints. You're doing very good at that. Then ask for her number before you go.

Tonight is defnitely the night to ask her out. You can isolate her, phone- close her, and ask her out this weekend.

She's probably begging for it, bro. If she's dressed like that in a gym, she wants attention.
This actually might be a better idea... if you created rapport you dont need the number your just goin 2 steps back...

Instead, move 2 steps forward. Tell her after your workouts you should get a smoothie accross the street for a quick minute....
Isolate her and number close her there,..

If she moved with you over there, It is IMPOSSIBLE for her NOT to give you her numberrr

Tell me how it went....

P.S Do This ASAPPP or youll loose the attraction
 

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Yo Sinrod,


You seem to be batting a thousand so far, dude. KEEP IT UP! All of these guys have been giving you GREAT advice too, so listen to them. The only things I'd like to advise is that you IMMEDIATELY find something else to occupy your mind with when you're NOT around this chick.

Why? Because you will run the risk of building her up TOO MUCH in your mind, and can run the risk of self-sabotage. Don't put the pusssy up on a pedestal SO HIGH that you make getting this girl HARDER than it has to be.

I agree that she seems to be giving you good signals so far, so go ahead and ASSUME she is attracted to you, but DON'T assume that she's IN LOVE with you yet. LOL

Just keep advancing the interactions with her. Nothing reveals a woman's TRUE interest level in you like going for the number, going for the date, going for the kiss, going for the pusssy, etc. You see, the only thing that separates an interested woman from an Attention Whhore is that the interested woman consistently demonstrates her interest in you through her words AND ACTIONS.

So go ahead and continue on your "mission", soldier. And remember, don't OVERTHINK this too much. Just remember to stay calm, CONFIDENT, relaxed, witty, and insightful whenever you interact with her.

Always give her your undivided attention when you look at her, and make sure you ALWAYS subcommunicate to her by the look in YOUR eyes that "you" are a SEXY MUTHERFUKKER----AND you'd like to fukk the shyt out of her...but do this WITHOUT saying it.

Instead, make her FEEL it subconsciously by infusing your gaze occasionally with some serious "seductiveness", and then "her" imagination will do the rest.

Women LOVE this kind of mindfukking, TRUST ME. LOL



March on.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Sinrod,


You seem to be batting a thousand so far, dude. KEEP IT UP! All of these guys have been giving you GREAT advice too, so listen to them. The only things I'd like to advise is that you IMMEDIATELY find something else to occupy your mind with when you're NOT around this chick.

Why? Because you will run the risk of building her up TOO MUCH in your mind, and can run the risk of self-sabotage. Don't put the pusssy up on a pedestal SO HIGH that you make getting this girl HARDER than it has to be.

I agree that she seems to be giving you good signals so far, so go ahead and ASSUME she is attracted to you, but DON'T assume that she's IN LOVE with you yet. LOL

Just keep advancing the interactions with her. Nothing reveals a woman's TRUE interest level in you like going for the number, going for the date, going for the kiss, going for the pusssy, etc. You see, the only thing that separates an interested woman from an Attention Whhore is that the interested woman consistently demonstrates her interest in you through her words AND ACTIONS.

So go ahead and continue on your "mission", soldier. And remember, don't OVERTHINK this too much. Just remember to stay calm, CONFIDENT, relaxed, witty, and insightful whenever you interact with her.

Always give her your undivided attention when you look at her, and make sure you ALWAYS subcommunicate to her by the look in YOUR eyes that "you" are a SEXY MUTHERFUKKER----AND you'd like to fukk the shyt out of her...but do this WITHOUT saying it.

Instead, make her FEEL it subconsciously by infusing your gaze occasionally with some serious "seductiveness", and then "her" imagination will do the rest.

Women LOVE this kind of mindfukking, TRUST ME. LOL



March on.
hey victory thanks man. I really feel great about it. thi site has lots of good info on it, people should listen more.

yeah i get what your saying about not putting the pu$$y up on a pedestal. I admit i sually dont work out at night nut thats when shes there so i decided to rearrange my work outs so i can number close her. I am keeping my chats real quick.

i love what you say about eyefvcking her. that is great. i will remember that.
 

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Up date

Here's what hapened Friday night at the gym.

(I am standing at the water fountain; I turn around, make eye contact. She smiles.

We say hi to each other.

The conversation was fluffy; I listened to her a minute, trying not to look at ther tits. I noticed her tummy has a few faint stretchmarks and a tiny bit og excess fat. :(

We talked about bad drivers for a minute.

SR: It's kinda getting old me trying to talk to you in this gym. I gotta get bgack to my work out. Let's meet up at the smoothie shop for an hour after our workout tonight.

BTG: I'm getting ready to travel to NYC tomorrow night, so I'm really busy.

SR: Cool. How about 30 minutes?

BTG: No, I can't. Maybe some other time.

SR: You sound really busy. It is nice talking to you. Let me know when you want to meet, ok?

***

I am not sure what I could of done better. I am going to mark up this one to an attention wh0re.

OK guys, your opinions.
 

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She could be really busy and couldn't make but one thing stuck out when I read your post. When she told you she was too busy to go out with you that night did she counter offer for another day and time?
 

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Cable is right.

The mark of true high interest level is a chick making a counter offer if she really is very busy the times you want to get together.

I mean think about it, if the most beautiful girl you ever seen walks up to you and asks you to go out with her on a certain date but you have work that you absolutely can't back out of on that date are you going to leave it at "I can't maybe someother time"?

Hell no you are going to make a counter offer immediately and thats what a chick with genuine high interest would do too.

However thats not to say give up on this chick. Maybe she's kind of flighty with her thoughts.

Go ahead and try once more to set up something with her if you want and if she makes excuses again with no counter offer scratch this one off as a waste of time and a next.
 

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Brother SinRod,

You're doing the right things at the right times. You're available but standoffish which causes tension. The best kind of attraction is the kind which lingers in her mind.

But you can't wait forever. You'll need to make a move or that interest will wane. Coffee or just a good run around a track or park would make a good first "date" (I loathe that fvcking word but it's the only one which fits).

Her telling you she was "too busy" is a test to check your resolve. If you crumble and fall she'll know you were fronting. If you're cool about it she'll hit you up for an after workout latte' . . .
 

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I think you made a quality effort.......but scoring women like that is usually a delicate process. I think you did a pretty good job initially building rapport, although bringing up high school may have subconsciously made her wish were 25 years younger and actually IN highschool. Anyway, I think Slick101's post was perfect. That is exactly how I would have approached it. Do you even know if she has a boyfriend? Sometimes girls like that are just being nice.

I think from this point I would play things like this:

Next time you see her in the Gym, tell her she sure missed a good smoothie the other day..........(smiling the whole time), and then turn the conversation to basic chit, chat for about a minute or so, then tell her you gotta go do your thing with the weights.

On the next 2 times you see her, I would leave it to a "hi" and thats it.......give her oppurtunity to show some type of IL. Be friendly, but make her think somethings different.......

Next time I would chit chat again and try to find out some information about her. Ask her what she does for fun besides work out? Maybe she hates smoothies... Anyway, after that I would go with slick's move and tell her that only seeing her in the gym is just not enough. Make sure when you say it, you say it with your personality.....dont sound robotic trying to use someone's suggestion....put it in your own words. Also make sure that you are not mentally putting her on a pedastal.

Does anyone else in the Gym know her? I would find out if she has a BF
 

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question about converting a female friend

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The lord of the gyms was obviously a bit late. Update please and I'll advice you exactly what to do.
 

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OK Same Pendo I have not seen or talked to her since she rejected me, tell me what to do I am listneing.
 

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One quick thing that nobody mentioned...she might not want to go right out with you from the gym if she's all sweaty and in her gym clothes. I wouldn't have recommended the whole "let's go out right now" thing.
 
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