try hair gel or mud... and spike it... depending on your head shape... u can make it pointy like / \
u can try growing it out a little longer and spiking it with a bit more of a messy style...
make the back of your head a bit more interesting by leaving a bit more length at the back and messing it up..
oh yeah when gelling, less is more! only gel the tips, not the whole hair, or it'll just look too "wet"...
find yourself a good barber... i have one who's not gay but very stylish... so he won't give me something crazy.. but will give me a stylish cut. and spend a little more on your haircut cos you'll see the difference between a $5 buzz vs a $20 style cut. the ladies do notice these things. (another bonus about the style cut places is that they normally have chicks wash your hair.... great opportunity to practice your DJing hahaha)