I've been talking to this girl in one of my classes at college for ~ 2 weeks now, who seems to have high IL in me, and today I asked her out for this weekend. The reasons why I think she has interest in me is because we have good EC, we kino each other, smile at each other, I can make her laugh, and we seem to have a lot in common personality wise. I feel like we have some chemistry that I don't feel with other girls that I talk to. Also, the other day we had a paper that was due and she wanted me to read her paper and she wanted to read mine. She said I was a really good writer and just went on and on about how good I was etc. Anyways, I live near campus and she commutes from a town that is near my hometown. I asked her out for this weekend because I need to go home this weekend and take care of some business so I thought I'd see if we could hook up while I'm at home. When I asked her out she said that on Saturday her b/f is taking her somewhere for V-Day but on Friday she is going out with her girlfriends to a bar. She basically told me that I could go out with her and her girlfriends on Friday. So she gave me her # w/o me asking for it, and told me to call her.
I think I may have a few options here:
Option #1 - Call her up by Friday and go hang out with her and her girls.
This is probably the option I'm considering the least now because this seems like a one way ticket to LJBF land if I'm not there already. On the other hand, this girl is easily an HB9+ and she would be excellent social proof for me to raise IL's of HBs at the bar.
Option #2 - Don't call her this weekend. Call her some other time when I'm not busy.
Right now this is the option I'm heavily leaning towards. I'll have a couple of days to hang out with my friends who I haven't seen for several weeks.
Option #3 - Don't call her ever. NEXT!
I'm teetering between options # 2 and #3 at this point and I'm leaning heavily towards option # 2 mainly because I don't know anything about her relationship with the b/f like how long they have been going out, how serious it is, how it's going for her, etc. Today was the first I'd heard from her about a b/f and it's been my experience that girls with b/fs usually bring him up in convo in some way when you first start talking to them.
Basically I just wanted to see what other people on this board would do in my situation. What option would you consider and why? Is there something else I could do that I haven't already thought of?
Thanks for any help!
I think I may have a few options here:
Option #1 - Call her up by Friday and go hang out with her and her girls.
This is probably the option I'm considering the least now because this seems like a one way ticket to LJBF land if I'm not there already. On the other hand, this girl is easily an HB9+ and she would be excellent social proof for me to raise IL's of HBs at the bar.
Option #2 - Don't call her this weekend. Call her some other time when I'm not busy.
Right now this is the option I'm heavily leaning towards. I'll have a couple of days to hang out with my friends who I haven't seen for several weeks.
Option #3 - Don't call her ever. NEXT!
I'm teetering between options # 2 and #3 at this point and I'm leaning heavily towards option # 2 mainly because I don't know anything about her relationship with the b/f like how long they have been going out, how serious it is, how it's going for her, etc. Today was the first I'd heard from her about a b/f and it's been my experience that girls with b/fs usually bring him up in convo in some way when you first start talking to them.
Basically I just wanted to see what other people on this board would do in my situation. What option would you consider and why? Is there something else I could do that I haven't already thought of?
Thanks for any help!