LuckyStrike88
Don Juan
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- Oct 28, 2014
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So i had been dating this girl for about 2 months sometime we would go our own way for a few days up to a week but would then hang out again in the weekends go clubbing chilling at home having sex. I actually had a great connection with her we could talk for hours straight we could both just open up about stuff easily. And basically very hard to keep our hands of each other every time we saw each other. Sounds pretty good right.
But it was almost like she wants me to go beta on her so it would mend the insecurity she has, we had talked about it but it kept coming back. So she would do things like complain about me responding late and not showing enough interest, asking for validation and it got really annoying so i decided to take a step back and do my own things for a bit. Then after a couple of days i texted her like hey whats up. And she has not responded to it since.
Knowing her she wants me to send a follow up message or call or whatever. As much as i liked her and we get along i am not going to do that, i refuse to change myself to feed her insecurity so haven't contacted her since.
It's a shame but yeah, would you go out of your ways to fix things?
But it was almost like she wants me to go beta on her so it would mend the insecurity she has, we had talked about it but it kept coming back. So she would do things like complain about me responding late and not showing enough interest, asking for validation and it got really annoying so i decided to take a step back and do my own things for a bit. Then after a couple of days i texted her like hey whats up. And she has not responded to it since.
Knowing her she wants me to send a follow up message or call or whatever. As much as i liked her and we get along i am not going to do that, i refuse to change myself to feed her insecurity so haven't contacted her since.
It's a shame but yeah, would you go out of your ways to fix things?