I agree that confidence is a major clue in approaching chicks. How to be confident? Don´t panic about consequences. Concentrate on your sensual perception. I mean like there´s nothing else in the world. What do you see, feel, hear, etc.? Beeing in this state of mind requires a lot of courage: It´s the paradox of self-confidence - to be confident you need to accept your insecurities and the pain they are causing you. The first step is to hold it up for 10 minutes until you get that phone-number, right?
O.K., now imagine this hot babe suddenly appears out of nowhere. Don´t think! Stop your imagination from going wild on doing the kamasutra with her. Enjoy what you accually see. This will prevent your body-language from looking fake and will automatically put a natural smile on your face. And you have all the right in the world to enjoy, don´t you? There´s your confidence! What makes us different from other lifeforms around is that we use complex language, we love to talk and chat all the time ... and accually need it to stay healthy. Again, there´s your confidence! There´s nothing wrong with a little conversation.
Go out and enjoy, don´t get upset about things like 3-second-rule or theories on gaining self-confidence. You don´t even have to fake low interest: You enjoy a lot of things during the day, like good diner, fresh air, etc., but you don´t obsess over it. So why would you obsess over the beautiful surface of a woman?
O.K., now imagine this hot babe suddenly appears out of nowhere. Don´t think! Stop your imagination from going wild on doing the kamasutra with her. Enjoy what you accually see. This will prevent your body-language from looking fake and will automatically put a natural smile on your face. And you have all the right in the world to enjoy, don´t you? There´s your confidence! What makes us different from other lifeforms around is that we use complex language, we love to talk and chat all the time ... and accually need it to stay healthy. Again, there´s your confidence! There´s nothing wrong with a little conversation.
Go out and enjoy, don´t get upset about things like 3-second-rule or theories on gaining self-confidence. You don´t even have to fake low interest: You enjoy a lot of things during the day, like good diner, fresh air, etc., but you don´t obsess over it. So why would you obsess over the beautiful surface of a woman?